Wechidiki ari pasocial network: sei kurwisa anovenga?

“Saka wakaburitsa post yako. Akatumira vhidhiyo. Iye zvino munhu wese anozviona - neavatar yako, ine emoticons (kana pasina), ine mapikicha kana mifananidzo ... Uye zvechokwadi, maminetsi matatu oga oga unotarisa pasocial network kuti uone kana pane maitiro? Kufanana? A comment? Uye iwe unoona - hongu, pane!

Uye panguva ino, basa rako rekubhuroga rinogona kudonha. Nekuti kunyangwe iye munhu anoziva kugadzira mavhidhiyo anotonhorera uye kunyora zvinoshamisa mameseji haazove wepamusoro blogger kana asingazivi nzira yekupindura zvakanaka kune zvakataurwa. Uye inofanira kuva yakarurama sei?

Chii chaunofanira kuita kana mashoko asingakurumbidzi?

kuita zvikonzero? Kana kunyarara? Hapana anoziva mhinduro chaiyo. Nokuti hachipo. Uye kune gakava rinotambanudzira kune zana rekutaura. Chii chasara? Gamuchira pfungwa dzemumwe munhu.

Pane imwe nguva Voltaire akati: “Handibvumirani neshoko rimwe chete renyu, asi ndakagadzirira kufira kodzero yenyu yokutaura zvamunofunga.” Iyi ndiyo democracy, nenzira. Saka, kana mumashoko munhu achitaura pfungwa yausingagoverani zvachose, muudze nezvazvo, itirana nharo naye, ipa nharo dzako. Asi usagumbuka. Ane kodzero yokufunga kudaro. Iwe wakasiyana. Zvose zvakasiyana.

Uye kana akanyora zvinhu zvakashata pamusoro pangu neshamwari dzangu?

Asi pano tave kutoshanda pane imwe musimboti. Asi chekutanga, ngative nechokwadi chekuti izvi zvakashata, uye kwete imwe pfungwa yekuona. Pane imwe nguva pakanga pane blogger Dasha. Uye akambonyora chinyorwa: "Ndaneta sei nemasvomhu aya! Ishe, handichagoni kuzvigamuchira. Aiwa, ndakagadzirira kukorokoza logarithms uye kufamba nepakati pevasarura. Asi ndinofanira kunzwisisa chikonzero nei. Ini ndiri mubatsiri. Handife ndakada cubic equations muhupenyu hwangu. Sei?! Zvakanaka, nei ndichipedza nguva yangu yakawanda uye tsinga pavari? Sei ndisingagone kudzidza zvekutaura, psychology kana nhoroondo panguva ino - izvo zvandiri kunyatsofarira? Chii chinofanirwa kuitika kuti algebra negeometry zviitwe sarudzo muchikoro chesekondari?

Mashoko asina kunaka akanaya pana Dasha. Verenga zvishanu zvadzo uye uti: ndeupi wavo, mumaonero ako, akanyorwa muhunyoro, uye ndeapi anongova kutuka?

1. "Ehe, haugone kuwana chero chinhu chakakwirira kupfuura" katatu ”mu algebra, saka wakatsamwa!"
2. “O, zvinongove pachena – mutsvuku! Iwe zviri nani utumire mafoto ako, zvirinani ivo vane chimwe chinhu chekutarisa!
3. “Ndiyo bhururu! Ungararama sei usina masvomhu?
4. “Mumwe nyajambwa webvunzo!”
5. “Ini handibvumirani nazvo! Masvomhu inokudziridza kufunga kune musoro, uye pasina iyo, munhu anorarama senge amphibian, pamafungiro mamwe chete.

Ndizvozvo, kutukwa ndiko kutanga, kwechipiri nekwechina.

Mavari, vanyori havapokane nepfungwa yakataurwa naDasha, asi ongorora danho renjere raDasha. Uye vanotsoropodza zvikuru. Uye heino mhinduro yechitatu … Nokuti munyori wemashoko aya haaongorore Dasha, asi pfungwa yakataurwa naye. Ehe, haazive nzira yekunyatsogovera ongororo yake, asi zvirinani haanyore kuti Dasha benzi.

Ziva kuti uyu musiyano mukuru. Kuudza munhu kuti ibenzi, kana kuti kutaura kuti pfungwa yake ibenzi. Benzi kutukwa. Kupusa pfungwa… zvakanaka, tese tinotaura zvinhu zvakapusa nguva nenguva. Kunyangwe zvakanyanyisa kupindura seizvi: "Pfungwa iyi inoita sehupenzi kwandiri." Uye tsanangura chikonzero nei. Chaizvoizvo, izvi ndizvo chaizvo izvo munyori wechishanu akaedza kuita: akaratidza kusabvumirana nepfungwa (ona kuti haana kuongorora Dasha nenzira ipi zvayo) uye akapikisa nzvimbo yake.

Chokwadika, kwakanakisisa kuitisana nharo naavo vanoziva nzira yokuzviita nayo pasina kukuvadza hunhu hwako. Pamwe ucharasikirwa nenharo iyi. Asi kuchava kukakavara chete, kwete kutukana kunobhururuka uko neuko. Asi mashoko azere nehasha kana kunyomba iwe nemhuri yako anogona kudzimwa zvakachengeteka. Une kodzero dzese dzekusashandura peji rako kuita marara. Uye zvechokwadi, mubvise tsvina yemashoko.

Vanotobva kupi, vanovenga ava?

Izwi rekuti “anovenga” haridi kutsanangurwa, handiti? Tinovimba kuti vanhu ava havana kuuya kune peji rako, asi gadzirira: unogona kugara uchisangana neanovenga pasocial network. Chokwadi, nyeredzi dzinowana zvakanyanya kubva kwadziri. Iwe unovhura chero mufananidzo wenyeredzi pa Instagram uye iwe zvechokwadi uchawana mune zvakataurwa chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Ehe, makore ari kutooneka ..." kana "Mwari, ungapfeka sei chipfeko chakadaro pambongoro ine mafuta!" Ziva kuti takanyora zvakanyatsonaka - "mafuta akakora." Vanovenga havanyari kutaura kwavo. Vanhu ava ndivanaani? Pane zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa.

1. Vanovenga vanhu vari kuita basa ravo. Semuyenzaniso, kambani yeRomashka yakabhadhara chaizvo vanovenga vakahaiwa kuti vanyore marudzi ese ezvinhu zvakashata mumashoko pazvinyorwa zvekambani yeVasilek. Uye vanonyora neshungu. Somugumisiro, vanhu vanorega kutenga cornflowers kubva kukambani yeVasilek uye vanotanga kutenga chamomile kubva kukambani yeRomashka. kureva? Zvirokwazvo. Usamboita izvozvo.
2. Ava ndivo vanhu vanozvisimbisa ivo pachavo nemari yenyeredzi. Zvakanaka, kana muhupenyu chaihwo, akanyarara anorasikirwa Vasya achasangana naMiss World?! Never. Asi achauya kune peji rake pasocial network onyora kuti: "Zvakanaka, mug! Uye uyu ainzi runako? Pfft, tine nguruve uye zvakatonyanya kunaka! Kuzviremekedza kwaVasya kwakawedzera. Asi sei - akaratidza "fi" yake kune runako!
3. Ava ndivo vanhu vanoda kuona vamwe vachitambura nemashoko avo. Vanhu ava havasi kuzotaura nezvemashoko aMiss World. Vanozotanga kunyomba avo vavanoziva pasocial network: vadzidzi vekuchikoro kwavo, "vanoshanda navo" muchikamu chemitambo, vavakidzani ... Vanonakidzwa nekunzwa simba ravo pamusoro pemanzwiro evamwe. Akanyora chimwe chinhu chakaipa - uye unoona kutsvuka kwemunhu, kucheneruka, haazive zvekutaura mukupindura ... Uye munhu wese ane mukana wekusangana neanovenga muenzaniso Nha. 3. Unogona kungodzima zvaanotaura zvinogumbura. Uye iwe unogona, kana iwe uchinzwa simba mukati mako, kurwisa.

Nzira yekurwisa sei anovenga?

Chinonyanya kukosha apa hakusi kupindura nenzira iyo muvengi anoratidza. Anotarisira chii kubva kwauri? Chigumbu, kutukana, zvikonzero. Uye ipi neipi yemhinduro dzako mune iyi fomati ichareva kuti uri kutevera muvengi, uchibvuma mitemo yakadzikwa navo. Buda mundege iyi! Udza muvengi zvaari kuita, seka mamiriro acho ezvinhu, kana… bvumirana naye zvizere.

Pane imwe nguva musikana Ira akanyora mune chirevo: "Zvakanaka, wakapinda kupi nembongoro yakakura kudaro?" "Zvakanaka, uri kundivenga zvino, uye hausi kutaura kune pfungwa," Ira akapindura kumutsinhiri. "Ngatidzikei kubasa kana kuti ndibvise chirevo chako." Hapana mhosva. Hapana kutukwa. Ira akaongorora kutaura kweanovenga uye akanyevera zvaaizoita kana izvi zvikaitika zvakare.

Uye mwedzi mishoma gare gare, kune chirevo: "Ehe, iwe wakajairika!" - akanyora kuti: "Zvakanaka, zvese, zvese, ndakakunda musikana! Ndinorega! - uye isa emoticons. Ira haana kumbofunga kupinda mukukakavadzana. Akaseka achipfuura uye nokudaro akarovera pasi kubva pasi petsoka dzemuvengi. Uye kechitatu, kune muvengi mumwechete (murume wacho akave akasindimara), akanyorera kumashoko anogumbura pamusoro pehuchenjeri hwake: "Hongu, ndizvozvo. Right to the point. "

“Hongu, hamutombogoni kupopotedzana!” - muvengi akapindura nekugumbuka uye haana kusiya chero mhinduro pane peji raIra zvakare. Ndakangofarira maphotos ake chinyararire. Nenzira, nyaya yakanga ine kuenderera mberi. Pane imwe nguva Ira akatanga troll mumwe munhu. (Ira musikana ane njere, saka bhurogi rake rakakurumidza kufarirwa. Uye uko kune mukurumbira, kune vanomuvenga.)

Saka, muvengi wekutanga iyeye akauya kuzodzivirira musikana nechipfuva chake. Akarwisa kurwisa kwese kwemutorwa troll. Ira akaverenga zvese izvi uye akanyemwerera.

Nina Zvereva naSvetlana Ikonnikova vanotaura nezvemimwe mitemo yekutaurirana mumasocial network, nezvehunyanzvi hwekutaura pachena nyaya dzinonakidza uye kuwana vanhu vane pfungwa dzakafanana mubhuku rinonzi "Star of Social Networks. Maitiro ekuve anotonhorera blogger ”(Clever-Media-Group, 2020).