Mukati
Kusangana naCarl Rogers ndiyo shanduko yehupenyu hwangu hwese. Hapana chimwe chiitiko mairi chakapesvedzera zvakasimba uye zvakajeka magumo angu ega nehunyanzvi. Mumatsutso a1986, pamwe chete nevamwe vandaishanda navo 40, ndakatora rutivi muboka rekurukurirano huru, rakaitwa muMoscow nomumiriri anotungamirira wepfungwa yomunhu, Carl Rogers. Seminari yakatora mazuva akati wandei, asi yakandichinja, pfungwa dzangu, zvakabatanidzwa, maitiro. Akashanda neboka uye panguva imwe chete aiva neni, akanzwa uye akandiona, akandipa mukana wekuve ini.
Carl Rogers akatenda kuti munhu wese anofanirwa kutariswa, kuremekedzwa uye kugamuchirwa. Aya misimboti yaRogers yakava hwaro hwekurapa kwake, "maitiro akatarisana nemunhu" zvachose. Nokuda kwebasa rake rakavakirwa papfungwa idzi dzinoratidzika kuva dzakapfava zvikuru, Carl Rogers akasarudzwa nokuda kweNobel Peace Prize muna 1987. Nhau yeizvi yakasvika kwaari apo akanga ari murufu.
Kukodzera kukuru kwemunhu kwaCarl Rogers, mukuona kwangu, kuri muchokwadi chekuti akakwanisa kuita nehunhu hwake basa rakaoma remukati rekuve homo humanus - munhu ane hunhu. Nokudaro, akazarurira vanhu vakawanda "laboratory of humanism", iyo iyo munhu wose anotsvaka kutanga kutanga mukati make, uye ipapo muhukama hwevamwe vanhu pax humana - nyika yevanhu inopfuura.
Mazuva ake
- 1902: Akazvarwa mudhorobha reChicago.
- 1924-1931: Zvekurima, dzidzo yebhaibheri, ipapo - MS, Ph.D. mune zvepfungwa kubva kuTeachers College, Columbia University.
- 1931: Clinical psychologist paVana Rubatsiro Center (Rochester).
- 1940-1957: Purofesa paOhio State University, ipapo paYunivhesiti yeChicago.
- 1946-1947: Mutungamiri weAmerican Psychological Association.
- 1956-1958: Mutungamiri weAmerican Academy of Psychotherapists.
- 1961: Mumwe wevatangi veAmerican Association for Humanistic Psychology.
- 1968: Inovhura iyo Center yeChidzidzo cheMunhu muLa Jolla, California. 1969: Chinyorwa chake Rwendo muSelf, nezvebasa reboka re psychotherapy, anohwina Oscar.
- 1986: Inoita mapoka makuru ekutaurirana nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa muMoscow neTbilisi.
- Kukadzi 14, 1987: akafa muLa Jolla, California.
Makiyi mashanu ekunzwisisa:
Munhu wese ane zvaanogona kuita
"Vanhu vese vanokwanisa kuvaka hupenyu hwavo nenzira inoita kuti vagutsikane uye panguva imwechete inovaka mumagariro." Vanhu vanowanzokura munzira yakanaka. Izvi hazvirevi kuti zvichave zvakadaro, asi munhu wose anoberekwa ane simba rakadaro. Semwana, Rogers akacherechedza hupenyu hwakawanda hwechisikigo, kunyanya, kukura kwemashavishavi. Zvichida, nekuda kwekufungisisa pamusoro pekushandurwa kwavo, fungidziro yake pamusoro pekugona kwevanhu yakazvarwa, gare gare yakatsigirwa ne psychotherapeutic tsika uye tsvakurudzo yesayenzi.
teerera unzwe
“Hazvina basa kuti munhu ari kutaura zvakadzama sei kana kuti zvechipameso, ndinomuteerera nengwariro yose, nokushingaira, izvo zvandinogona kuita.” Tinotaura zvakawanda, asi hatiteerere kana kunzwa mumwe nemumwe. Asi kunzwa kwokukosha kwomunhu, ukoshi kunomuka mukupindura ngwariro yomumwe munhu kwatiri. Patinonzwika, zvipingamupinyi zvinobviswa - tsika, chitendero, rudzi; pane kusangana kwemurume nemurume.
Nzwisisa mumwe munhu
"Kuwana kwangu kukuru ndaizogadzira sezvinotevera: Ndakaona kukosha kukuru kwekuzvibvumira kunzwisisa mumwe munhu." Kuita kwekutanga kuvanhu kuda kuvaongorora. Kashoma chaizvo patinozvibvumira kunzwisisa kuti mashoko, manzwiro, zvitendero zvomumwe munhu zvinorevei kwaari. Asi ndizvo chaizvo mafungiro aya anobatsira mumwe kuti azvigamuchire uye azvigamuchire manzwiro ake, anotishandura isu pachedu, achiburitsa chimwe chinhu chaive chambotinzvenga. Izvi ndezvechokwadiwo muhukama hwepfungwa: haisi iyo yakakosha nzira dzepfungwa dzinoita sarudzo, asi kugamuchirwa kwakanaka, kunzwira tsitsi kusingafungi uye kuzviratidza kwechokwadi kwemurapi nemutengi wake.
Kubudirana pachena chinhu chinodiwa pahukama
“Muruzivo rwangu navamwe, ndakagumisa kuti muukama hwenguva refu hapana chikonzero chokunyepedzera kuva mumwe munhu wandisiri.” Hazvina musoro kunyepedzera kuti unoda kana uine utsinye, kuita kunge wakadzikama kana washatirwa uye uchitsoropodza. Hukama hunova hwechokwadi, huzere nehupenyu uye hunoreva patinoteerera isu pachedu, takavhurika kune isu uye, nekudaro, kune waunofambidzana naye. Hunhu hwehukama hwevanhu hunoenderana nekukwanisa kwedu kuona kuti tiri ani, kuzvigamuchira isu, kwete kuvanda seri kwemasikisi - kubva isu nevamwe.
Batsira vamwe kuti vave nani
Kugadzira mamiriro aunogona kutaura pachena, manzwiro ako, ndiko kuti, akanakira kukura kwevanhu, ibasa kwete chete kune vepfungwa. Inofanira kushandiswa nevose vanoziva hutano hwemagariro evanhu, inofanira kukurudzirwa nemunhu, mhuri, nyanzvi - mushoko, chero hukama hwevanhu. Mumwe nomumwe wedu anogona kubetsera kuvandudza mumwe munhu mukuwirirana nevavariro dzake amene nezvinangwa.
Mabhuku uye zvinyorwa naCarl Rogers:
- Kuongorora psychotherapy. Kuumbwa Kwemunhu” (Progress, Univers, 1994);
- "Kupa mazano uye psychotherapy" (Eksmo, 2000);
- "Rusununguko Rwokudzidza" (Sense, 2002);
- "Mutengi-anotarisana nemaitiro ekurapa kwepfungwa" (Mibvunzo yePsychology, 2001, Nha. 2).