Pamakore 30
Léa, 34, amai vaAna, 5, uye Elie, 3.
“Takanyora pasi zvinhu zvose zvataida kuita tisati tava vabereki. “
Ini ndiri muvhareji yeFrench, ndaiva nemwanasikana wangu pa 28 uye mwanakomana wangu pa 30. Ndaigara ndichida vana, asi pakanga pasina mubvunzo wekuita ivo nekutanga kuuya, ndaida baba vakuru. Kana “muenzaniso” wacho wangowanikwa, takabvumirana kuti takanga tisingadi kukanganisa, taida kuona zvinhu pamwe chete tisati tatanga mhuri. Takanyora zvinhu zvose zvataida kuita tisati tava vabereki: kuenda kuOpera, New York, kuMaldives… Pandakamisa piritsi, handina kuzvidemba. 28 years, ndichiri mudiki kuita mai, ndini ndaive wekutanga pavasikana vangu vese. Kwandiri, zvaive zvakakosha kuti vana vangu vasanonoka, nekuti amai vangu vaive neni pa36 uye, muhuduku, dzimwe nguva zvaindinetsa. Nhumbu yangu yekutanga yakafamba zvakanaka chose, ndakanga ndapfuura mwedzi. Asi apo mwanasikana wangu akaberekwa, ndinorangarira kuti ndakanga ndaremerwa. Ndine rombo rakanaka rekukwanisa kugara mazuva mashanu muwadhi yevanosunungukira, iyo nyamukuta ari kundipuruzira ... Dai ndakaita mwana uyu pamakore makumi maviri nemashanu, ndingadai ndisina kukura kwekutarisana netsunami iyi. Ipapo mwanakomana wangu akaberekwa makore maviri gare gare. Pavana vangu vaviri, ndairega mwedzi mipfumbamwe yoga yoga uye ndinoziva kuti zvadzosa basa rangu shure. Hatigoni kuwana zvose. Kuve nevana vangu chaive chinhu chekutanga panguva ino uye handizvidembi, asi mashizha maviri evabereki mumakore maviri haisi iyo yakanakira budiriro yehunyanzvi.
Nhasi, ndaparadzaniswa nababa. Ndofunga mafambiro echipiri aive akanyanya kumuomera kupfuura ini. Kunyange zvakadaro, ndinofara zvikuru kuva nevana vangu vaviri, ndivo vanoita kuti ndide kumuka mangwanani oga oga. Paunenge uri wega amai, zvinokosha zvinoshanduka. Iye zvino ndinoisa pfungwa pabasa rangu. ”
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Vanhu vanowanzo funga kuti maXNUMX ndiyo nguva yakanaka yekuve nevana. Muchokwadi, muvarwere vangu, zvinokatyamadza, ndinoona kuti kune mibvunzo yakawanda uye kunetseka panguva ino yehupenyu. Pamakore 30, pamuviri kazhinji kazhinji mugumisiro wokuronga, sezvatinoudzwa naLéa. Akatora nguva yake, akamirira kuwana mubereki akakodzera, akatora mukana nomurume wake. Anoyeuka achinetseka nezera raamai vake. Hapana chinoitika chero, pane nguva dzose chimwe chinhu chisingazivi chinokwira, chingave chiri pazera rezera kana kusarudzwa kwemudiwa. Vakadzi vechidiki nhasi vakaumbwa kusvika pakukwana uye zvishoma zvipingamupinyi zvakaoma kutora. Vanoda kubudirira mubasa ravo, kuwana baba chaivo, vari mubishi, vabvarurwa kubva kumativi ose nenzanga iri kuramba ichida kwavari. Mujaho wekuita uyu unogona kuunza matambudziko, kunyanya muvaviri. Léa anomutsa zvakare kuoma kwekubudirira muhunyanzvi kana uine vana vepedyo. Ari right. Hune hutsinye kuziva kuti pazera iro munhu anogona kutanga kutorwa zvakakomba, kana kuti basa rake ringangosimuka, kukwira kunomiswa nekuva amai. Mune dzimwe nyika, izvi hazvisizvo.