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Vabereki vangakurudzira mwana wavo kuita chimwe chinhu here? Kana kuti iye pachake achaedza kusvika pazera remakore 15-17, kusvikira awana zvaanoda here? Unovimba nemhanza chete here? Dzvinyiriro yose nezano zvinobva kuvanhu vakuru zvinofanira kudziviswa here? Vanenge vabereki vose vanozvibvunza mibvunzo iyi.

Chii chingaitwa kuti mwana muduku abatanidzwe mune chimwe chinhu?

Zvechokwadi, chero mwana chero upi zvake achave anobatsira uye anofarira makirasi pasi pekutungamirirwa kwenyanzvi mukambani yevezera - mudenderedzwa, mu studio yemifananidzo, nezvimwewo. Uye kana pasina mukana wakadaro: kutakura kure, hapana. nyanzvi? ..

Edza kumisikidza nzira yekusika kumba: pasina kubata pasi danho remucheche, muudze zvekuita uye zvekushandisa pane izvi.

1. Gadzira mamiriro emwana wako kumba kwemitambo uye kugadzira. Shongedza nzvimbo dzinoverengeka dzaachashandisa sezvaanoona zvakakodzera:

  • kona yekuzorora kwakanyarara uye kuverenga, yekuzorora - nekapeti, mapiro, mwenje unotonhorera;
  • nzvimbo pasi pemakirasi ane matoyi makuru - mugadziri, njanji, puppet theatre;
  • tafura yakakura yakakwana yekudhirowa, mitambo yebhodhi - yega kana neshamwari;
  • nzvimbo iyo mwana aigona kuzvishongedza nekugara pachivande nerubatsiro rwemagumbeze uye dzimwe nzira dzakagadziriswa - setende, imba kana imba;
  • bhokisi rematoyi uye zvinhu zvinobatsira mumutambo, nguva nenguva unogona kutamisa mamwe ematoyi akakanganwa kubva kune yakajairika kabati kana rack kuchipfuva ichi, wedzera zvimwe zvinhu ipapo zvinogona kumutsa fungidziro yemwana.

2. Gadzirisa mhando dzenguva dzose dzekugadzira kwevana nemwana wako (kudhirowa, kuenzanisa, kugadzira, appliqué, kuridza mimhanzi, staging, nezvimwewo) uye ratidza kuti ungasiyanisa sei zviitiko izvi:

  • Chinhu chipi nechipi chinogona kushandiswa sezviyamuro zvinoonekwa. Kudhirowa - jecha rakajairika uye zvigadzirwa zvakawanda - zviyo, zvekushandisa - shinda, mashizha, makungu uye hurungudo, zvekuveza - mbatatisi yakakanyiwa, papier-mâché uye furo rekuveura ndebvu, pachinzvimbo chebhurashi - zvigunwe zvako kana zvanza, pini inotenderedza; nezvimwewo.
  • pakugadzira uye kuvaka, kupa zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana kubva kune akagadzirira-akagadzirwa mugadziri kune yakagadziridzwa nzira - semuenzaniso, makadhibhokisi mabhokisi ehukuru hwakasiyana.
  • edza kutsigira tsvakurudzo uye zvido zvekuedza zvemucheche - pakufamba, parwendo, kumba.
  • batsira mwana kugona zvinobvira zvemuviri wake - ipa mitambo yekuvandudza kurongeka kwekufamba, kumiririra kwenzvimbo, mitambo yekunze.

3. Sarudza zvipo zvinogona kuva hwaro hwechido chemangwana:

  • kunokurudzira kufungidzira, fantasy,
  • zvipo zvinokubatsira kudzidza hunyanzvi hutsva - maturusi akasiyana-siyana, kits dzemaoko, pamwe midziyo - yakadai sekhamera kana maikorosikopu,
  • zvinyorwa zvinofadza zvinongedzo, encyclopedias (zvichida muchimiro chemagetsi), nziyo dzakarekodhwa, mabhaisikopo evhidhiyo, maarubhamu anezve kudhirowa, kunyoreswa kwetheater.

4. Udza mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako nezvezvawaifarira pauduku. Zvimwe uchiri kuchengeta maarubhamu ane vana vako zvitambi kana mabheji akaunganidzwa — zvitarise nemwana wako, tsvaga ruzivo rwezvisingaunganidze vanhu, batsira kusarudza nekutanga muunganidzwa mutsva.

5. Zvechokwadi, usakanganwa kuenda kune dzimwe nguva uye mamuseum akasiyana-siyana nguva nenguva. Wana mukana wekuzivisa mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako kune nyanzvi - zvechokwadi, pakati pevaunoziva pachava neanodhirowa, muvezi, mugadziri wezvivakwa, chiremba kana nyanzvi yekuongorora. Iwe unogona kushanyira studio yemuimbi, kuvhiyiwa muchipatara kana basa rekudzorera mumuseum.

Uye kana mwana wacho achida zvikuru nezvechimwe chiitiko zvokuti anokanganwa nezvekudzidza?

Zvinogoneka kuti kuda kwakasimba kwakadaro kuchava hwaro hwekusarudza basa remangwana. Saka, iwe unogona kuedza kunyengerera mwana kana wechidiki kuti kugona chikoro ruzivo kunomubatsira kuve nyanzvi chaiyo. Mugadziri wemafashoni emangwana anoda kugadzira mapatani - nekuda kweizvi zvingava zvakanaka kugona izvo zvekutanga zvejometri uye hunyanzvi hwekudhirowa, kuziva nhoroondo uye ethnography, mutambi anoda ruzivo rweanatomy uye physiology, nezvimwe.

Zvakakosha here kuomerera pamakirasi mudenderedzwa kana chikamu kana mwana asingafariri mazviri?

Chokutanga pane zvose, iyi idambudziko rekusarudza - mwana pachake akazviita, kana kuti iwe wakamubatsira kuzvidzora, kana kungoisa pfungwa dzako pamusoro pezvaizomubatsira muupenyu.

Semuenzaniso, kazhinji mumwe wevabereki anorota kusimudza muimbi wenyanzvi kubva kumwanakomana kana mwanasikana wavo, nekuti hazvina kushanda muhuduku - pakanga pasina mamiriro kana vabereki vavo chaivo vaive vasingarambe zvakadaro.

Zvechokwadi, isu tose tinoziva mienzaniso apo kutsungirira uku hakuna kubereka zvibereko, asi kwakapa zvakananga migumisiro yakasiyana: mwana akazvisarudzira nzira yakasiyana zvachose, kana kuti akazova muiti asingaiti, asina kusika.

Inofanira kutakurwa mupfungwa: havasi vana vakawanda vane zvido zvakagadzikana zvakatogadzirwa nezera re 10-12. Kune rumwe rutivi, pane nguva dzose nguva yekutsvaga. Ipa mwana wako zvisarudzo zvakasiyana-siyana. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvakafanira kuchengetedza kufarira kwake mubasa rakasarudzwa.

Zvakawanda zvichatsamira pakutsigira kwako, kubatanidza tsigiro yokunyama. Iwe unofarira here izvo mwana ari kuita mudenderedzwa kana chikamu, kubudirira kupi kwaanoita, kuti hukama nevakomana hunokura sei ipapo, kuti ungamubatsira sei. Unoedza kupa zvese zvaunoda zvemakirasi - ingave yunifomu yemitambo, reketi "sevamwe vese" kana pendi nependi inodhura.

Mwana anofanira kutenderwa kuchinja mabasa akaita semagirovhosi here?

Tsvaga kutanga chii chinotadzisa mwana kana wechidiki kuchengeta kufarira kwavo muchinhu chimwe. Hazvina kudikanwa zvachose kuti uhu husimbe hwepanyama kana frivolity. Zvikonzero zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana chaizvo.

Zvichida hukama nemusoro wedenderedzwa kana mudzidzisi, nemumwe wevakomana hazvina kushanda. Kana kuti mwana anokurumidza kurasikirwa nechido kana asingaoni migumisiro yekukurumidza. Anogona kuona zvinorwadza kubudirira kwevamwe uye kukundikana kwake pachake. Zvinobvira kuti iye kana kuti vabereki vake vakafungira mano ake nokuda kweiri basa chairo. Mune ipi neipi yezviitiko izvi, mamiriro ezvinhu anogona kuchinjwa.

Dzvinyiriro uye kushorwa nokuda kwoupenzi hazvizoiti kuti mwana ave akakomba zvikuru uye ane chinangwa. Pakupedzisira, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti zvinokuvaraidza zvinoita kuti hupenyu hwake hwazvino uye hweramangwana huwedzere kunakidza uye hupfumi. Sezvakataurwa nePeople's Artist yeRussia, Muzvinafundo Zinovy ​​​​Korogodsky akati, "zvido zvekugadzira zvemwana hazvigone kurapwa zvine hungwaru, tichiverenga izvo" zvikwereti" zvaanoda zvichaunza munguva pfupi iri kutevera. Ichaunza hupfumi hwemweya, izvo zvinodiwa kuna chiremba, uye mutyairi wendege, uye muzvinabhizinesi, uye mukadzi wekuchenesa.

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