Mukati
Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvaunogona kuita kumba. Kuzvara, semuenzaniso, chidzidzo chemazuva ano. Dzidzisawo vana vako, sezvataurwa mufirimu rakanaka kwazvo rinonzi "Being and Becoming" iro richaburitswa munhandare dzemitambo Chivabvu anotevera. Inotungamirirwa naClara Bellar, mutambi, muimbi, chinyorwa ichi chinorondedzera zvakaitika kumhuri dzeFrench, American, Chirungu kana German avo vose vakasarudza kusaendesa vana vavo kuchikoro. Vabereki ava vanodzidzira dzidzo yemhuri, kwete zvemumba. Musiyano ? Ivo havateveri chero chirongwa chepamutemo, havamanikidze vana vavo kune yakatarwa nguva yezvidzidzo, havashanduke kuva vadzidzisi. Hapana kudzidza kunze kunoiswa pamwana. Ndiye akasarudza kudzidza kuverenga, kuva nechido chesvomhu, kudzamisa ruzivo rwake rwenhoroondo uye geography. Mamiriro ezvinhu ezuva nezuva anoonekwa semukana wekudzidza.
Rusununguko kubva kumanikidziro-kudya
Muvengi kudyisa, kumanikidza, mamakisi. Mashoko akakosha anosimbisa firimu ndeaya: rusununguko, kuzvimiririra, chido, kukurudzira, kuzadzikiswa. Ehe, kutaurwa kunoitwa kakawanda kubhuku remureza reimwe nzira dzekudzidzisa dze70s, "Vana Vakasununguka veSummerhill". Mutungamiriri wacho anonokora mashoko mumwe munzveri weBritain musayenzi yedzidzo, Roland Meighan, kuti: “Tichafanira kugumisa kutonga nokuyerera kwakwo kusingagumi kwokudzidzisa kusina kukumbirwa. Zvichave zvakafanira kuziva kuti, muutongi hwezvido zvevanhu, kudzidza nekumanikidzira kunoreva kudzidziswa, uye kuti dzidzo inogona kungodzidza nekukoka uye nesarudzo. »
Hadzisi mhuri dzose dzinofarira kudzidza
Iyi modhi yedzidzo inomutsa, uye izvi zvakajairika, kushamisika, kusavimba uye kunyange kutsoropodza kwakasimba. Kudzidzira kumba inyaya yekutariswa neveruzhinji nekuti inogona kufambisa kutonga kwemasekete. Isu tinoziva zvakare kuti tsime rekutanga rengozi kumwana zvinosuruvarisa, kazhinji, mhuri yake, kunyangwe pasina chikonzero nei kubatwa zvisina kunaka kuchiwanzoitika pakati pe "vasina chikoro" kupfuura pakati pevana. vamwe. Zvingangoenda zvisina kuoneka. Isu tinowanawo kumashure muhurukuro yepro "dzidzo yemhuri" pfungwa yekuti chikoro chishandiso chekuisa muuranda hwevanhu vasina chimwe chinangwa kunze kwekuita vagari vakapfava. Dzidziso iyi yechikoro chekutorera vanhu chinoda kutorera vabereki basa ravo sevadzidzisi parizvino iri kunakidzwa nekubudirira kukuru, yakadzokororwa naManif pour Tous uye muvambi we "Zuva rekusiya chikoro", Farida Belghoul (anodzidzira chikoro chekumba pachake) . Zvisinei, kuzviuru zvevana, kunyange mazana ezviuru zvevana, vane mhoteredzo yemhuri isinganyanyi kunyanyokodzera kudzidza, chikoro chinoramba chiri nzira bedzi yoruponeso, kunyange zvazvo ichi chikoro chaizova chinodzvinyirira nokutenhera. .
Rudo runogona kukwana here?
Vabereki vakabvunzurudzwa naClara Bellar, vanopa kutaura kwakangwara, kwakadzama, kwehunhu hwakanaka. Mutungamiriri anovarondedzera sevanhu vakasununguka vanofunga. Chero zvazvingava, vanofunga, ndizvozvo. Vakashongedzerwa muungwaru kuti vatsigire vana vavo, kupindura mibvunzo yavo, kunyandura kuda kuziva kwavo, kuibvumira kuti ibudirire. Isu tinofungidzira mhuri idzi mukukurukurirana kwechigarire, neshoko rinotenderera nguva dzose, iro rinodyisa vanin'ina, kubva kumucheche ane mwedzi miviri kusvika kune wechidiki wemakore gumi nemashanu. Munhu anogona kufungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu aya achikurudzira kunakidzwa kwekuwana. Ava vatsigiri vanogutsikana nazvo, zvakakwana kuva nechivimbo, kushivirira uye netsitsi kuti mwana akure zvakaenzana, kuva nechivimbo maari uye kuziva kuti angadzidza sei ari oga, izvo zvichaita kuti ave akazadzika, akazvimiririra uye akasununguka mukuru. “Zvinongoda rudo rukuru, zvinokwanisika kumubereki chero upi zvake.” Dai zvakanga zviri nyore… Zvakare, vana vazhinji, vakakurira munyika isinganyanyi kunyandura munjere, vanozoona kurasika kwekwaniso yavo vasina kukurudzirwa kunze kwechikwata chemhuri uye vanozova vanhu vakuru chero vakasununguka.
Tiza dzvinyiriro yechikoro
Firimu raClara Bellar zvakadaro rinoramba richinakidza nekuti mibvunzo yarinomutsa yakakosha uye inomanikidza shanduko yeparadigm. Pamwoyo peiyi documentary pane huzivi hunoratidza mufaro. Chii mwana anofara? Uye kubudirira chii? Panguva iyo kusarudzwa kwechikoro chepakati uyezve chikoro chesekondari chave nyaya yehupenyu nerufu, apo kutungamira muna 1st S ipapo kupinda mukirasi yekugadzirira ndiyo chete sarudzo dzinogoneka kumudzidzi akanaka, uko kumanikidzwa kwedzidzo kuri kusvika kumisangano, kuramba kwevabereki ava kumanikidza vana vavo nhangemutange iyi inonetesa yedhipuroma rine pundutso zvikuru kamwe kamwe kunoratidzika kuva kunozorodza zvikuru, kwete kutaura kunofadza.. Inodzokorora chikamu chebhuku * chandakapa kuLycée Bergson, chivako cheParis, makore maviri apfuura. Iri bhuku randakabudisa mukurumbira wakaipa weiyi gadziriro uye kunzwa kwokudzikisirwa kwavadzidzi vakagoverwa kwairi. Ndine urombo nekukodzera uku kwenarcissism, asi ndinopedzisa chinyorwa ichi nekuzvitora. Heino chidimbu kubva kune chimwe chezvitsauko zvekupedzisira.
Kuda zvakanakira mwana wako kana kumushuvira mufaro
“Ndirini patinowira mudzvinyiriro yakanyanyisa? Uyu mubvunzo unogara uripo kwandiri, kunyanya nemwanakomana wangu mukuru, ane makore 7. Ndinoda kuti vana vangu vabudirire. Ini ndinoda kwavari basa rakanaka, rinopa mubayiro, rinogutsa, rinobhadharwa zvakanaka, chinzvimbo chinobatsira munharaunda. Ndinodawo, kupfuura zvose, kuti vafare, kuti vazadziswe, kuti vape revo kuupenyu hwavo. Ndinoda kuti vave vakasununguka kune vamwe, vane hanya, vanonzwira tsitsi. Ndinoda kuvaita vagari vemo vanoteerera muvakidzani wavo, vachiremekedza hunhu hwandinobata, vanhu, vanoshivirira, vanofungisisa.
Ndine pfungwa yakasimba yekuti mudzidzi anofanira kunge ari chii. Ini ndakabatikana zvakanyanya nekusachinja-chinja, kuda, kutsungirira, ndinogona kusachinjika mukuremekedza mutemo, vanhu vakuru, uye kunyanya vadzidzisi, ndinoona zvakakosha kuti ndigone hunyanzvi, girama, zviperengo, arithmetic, nhoroondo. Ndine chinangwa chekuzivisa kuvana vangu kuti kuzvipira kwavo muzvidzidzo, tsika yavo, kuwanda kweruzivo rwavo kuchavimbisa rusununguko rwavo rweramangwana. Asi panguva imwechete ini ndichiziva nezvezvingangove zvakawedzeredzwa chimiro chezvandinoda, ndinotya kuvapwanya, kukanganwa kutaurirana kwavari mafaro ekudzidza, kunakidzwa kwezivo. Ini ndinoshamisika nezve nzira yakakodzera yekuvatsigira uye kuvakurudzira ivo vachichengetedza hunhu hwavo, zvishuvo zvavo, hunhu hwavo.
Ndinoda kuti vave vasina hanya kwenguva yakareba sezvinobvira uye panguva imwechete vakagadzirira chokwadi chenyika. Ini ndinoda kuti vakwanise kuzadzisa zvinotarisirwa nehurongwa nekuti zviri kwavari kuti vajairane nazvo uye kwete neimwe nzira, kuti vasaende kure zvakanyanya kupfuura hurongwa, kuti vave izvi kuzvimiririra, zvenguva dzose, vadzidzi vanoshingaira. izvo zvinoita kuti upenyu huve nyore kuvadzidzisi nevabereki. Uye panguva imwe cheteyo, ndinogara ndichitya kugumbura munhu wavari kuita, sezvakangoita vanhu vekuruboshwe vakambogumburwa nekumanikidza kunyora nemaoko avo erudyi. Ndinoda dangwe rangu, mukomana wangu mudiki anorota, anogara asingabatanidzi neboka, kuti atore icho chikoro chakanakisa kumupa: mahara, asingafarire, anenge asina maturo, ruzivo rwepasirese, kuwanikwa kwehumwe uye miganhu yayo. Kupfuura chero chinhu pamwe ndinorota kuti anodzidza kunakidzwa uye kuti arege kuva maneja mukuru, kwete kudzivirira kurovha, nekuti ipapo achadzidza chero kupi, saka ini handizomutyire, ipapo, kuna Bergson kana Henry IV achaita. ipa zvakanakisisa zvake. The best yet. “
*Handina kumbobvira muchikoro chesekondari ichi, François Bourin editions, 2011