Mukati
Bereka kuti uwane mari: nei ndiri kupokana nemabhenefiti emwana
Wedu munyori wenhau Lyubov Vysotskaya ane chivimbo chekuti rubatsiro rwemari kubva kuhurumende runodiwa, asi kwete mune yazvino fomati.
Muna Alena Vodonaeva, uyo akati izvo zvino "mombe dzese" dzichabereka mamirioni akavimbiswa, chete vane husimbe havana kupfira. Uye ndakayeuka mashandiro andakaita kamwechete, makore gumi nemashanu apfuura mukamba yemagariro evana vanobva kumhuri dzinotambura.
Ini ndaive nevana vatanhatu kubva kumhuri imwechete muchikwata changu. Mamiriro ekunze. Zvese - zvine chirwere. Vanachiremba vemumusha vakatadza kutarisa chitupa chekuti vana vaive nekuremara kwepfungwa. Vabereki vanofara vakagadzira inotevera mvumo uye nekungofara vachiisiya, zvinonzwisisika kuti chii. Zvaiita kwandiri kuti vana havana oligophrenia. Dzinongokura souswa mumunda. Vakadya zvakashomeka zvekuti pachinzvimbo chebvudzi, vaive nerumwe rudzi rweguru remakonzo mumisoro yavo. Vasikana vaviri vakapfeka wigi imwe mukuchinjana kwevaviri. Vakomana havana kunetseka nemibvunzo yerunako.
Pamukana mudiki-diki, vana ava vakaedza kubata ruoko, vachizembera pairi, vachingo kwizwa padhuze. Vakashaiwa zvese - kwete chikafu chete, kwete kungotarisisa, zvakawandisa, kunyangwe chidiki chekunzwa kwekunge mumwe munhu asina hanya navo. Zvinotyisa kufungidzira chii chingadai chakaitika kana miriyoni yakavimbiswa ikozvino yakamira pamberi pevabereki ava. Hongu, pamwe nezvakanakira mhuri hombe, uye kumwana mumwe nemumwe - nezvehurema…
Pane fog mumusoro mangu
Asi vabereki vakasarudzika vanongova divi rimwe chete remari. Kune imwezve. Ndine chokwadi nemoyo wangu wese kuti zvakafanira kuenda kuchipatara kumwana waunoda, uye kwete kubhadhara imba. Uye ini handisi kuwedzeredza izvozvi: mumwe wevandaizivana navo parizvino ari kuronga mwana wechitatu chaizvo kuti awane izvi zvinosuruvarisa zviuru mazana mana nemakumi mashanu zvemabhuru zvechikwereti. Kuti vacharamba vachigara nevana vatatu mufurati-makamuri maviri, haafunge. Kwairi - zvakare. Kunge, iyo nyika ichabatsira.
Imwe mhuri inoronga yechipiri kuitira kuti pave nemari yedzidzo yeiye mukuru. Akangokura, mukomana ane makore gumi, unogona kutanga mudiki.
Ndiri kutanga kufungidzira kuti muzvikoro uye kindergartens vabereki vanobva kupi vanotenda neutsvene: vakaitira nyika nyasha, kuti vakazvara, ikozvino vanodzidzisa, vanopa, vanodzidzisa.
Zvinotaridza kuti huwandu hwakavimbiswa nemazero matanhatu huri kuvhiringidza pfungwa uye vanhu havachanyatsonzwisisa kuti mari yemubhadharo uye mabhenefiti anozopera, uye mwana achasara. Panguva imwecheteyo, mari yemhuri inoderera kwenguva yakati, uye mari ichawedzera, uye kwete kwegore kana maviri.
Mukukurumidza, haugoni kuwana mari
“Sei isu zvakanyanya kuipa? - shamwari yangu Natalya anobvunza kakawanda. - Nekuva vabereki mwedzi mitanhatu yapfuura?
Natasha anga ari mukushushikana kwemanzwiro kwevhiki rechipiri - chaizvo mushure memutungamiriri wenyika "mhere" meseji. Mwanasikana wake (wekutanga, hongu) akazvarwa zhizha rapfuura. Uye pakati paNdira, mukuru wenyika akataura nezve zviuru mazana mana nemakumi matanhatu zvemwana wekutanga akaberekwa mushure kana kana chaiko muna Ndira 460, 1.
Makumi ezviuru zvevabereki vava kusangana nemanzwiro akafanana. MuNovosibirsk, vanaamai vanotosaina chikumbiro umo mavanokumbira kuti vawedzere mari yekubhadhara zvirinani kune avo vekutanga vakazvarwa pakupera kwekupedzisira.
Iwe unogona kutaura zvakanyanya sezvaunoda iyo shanje manzwiro akashata. Chete iye haana kana basa nazvo, zvakadaro, sekushata kwetsika, iko zvino kwapomerwa avo vanoramba kufara mumitemo mitsva. Vana vakazvarwa mu2019, 2018, 2017 uye kumberi havana kumbosiyana nevacheche vanozvarwa mukutanga kwema20s. Ivo vanofanirwa kuwana dzidzo nenzira imwecheteyo, vabereki vavo vanofanirwa kuvandudza mararamiro avo, zvichingodaro, zvinoenderana nerondedzero yezvinhu zvinogona kushandiswa pamari yemubereki. Asi ikozvino mukana chete wekuti vagamuchire rubatsiro rwakakosha kubva kuhurumende ndeyekuzvara wechipiri, kana kana wechitatu.
System kukanganisa
Saka hongu, ndinopesana nezvakanaka sezvazviri ikozvino. Nyika inofanirwa kubatsira, hapana anoita nharo neizvi - hazvisi pasina kuti isu tinobhadhara mutero hupenyu hwedu hwese. Asi mumaonero angu, mamiriro acho haakwanise kugadziriswa neye kamwe-kamwe kubhadhara. Okay, zviuru mazana mazana mana zvemabhuru, zvinorema. Nekudaro, mugore rekutanga rehupenyu hwemwana, iwe unozoshandisa kanenge zviuru mazana pazviri. Ndokuzo? Ipapo amai vadiki havagone kudzoka kubasa nguva dzose: mushure memurayiro, hapana munhu anofarira vashandi, kana kunyangwe bhizinesi richabhuroka nenguva iyoyo, panogara paine njodzi yekushaikwa basa nekuda kwekusagadzikana muhupfumi. Dzimba dzinodhura mari yakawandisa, kunyangwe diki. Asi iwe uchiri kuda kupora, kupfeka, kudzidzisa neimwe nzira.
Mhuri ichave nechivimbo chekuti munguva pfupi iri kutevera zvese zvichave zvakarongeka, kuti kuchave nemari yakakwana yekudyisa, kupfeka uye shangu dzevana, kuvaendesa kuchikoro, kindergarten uye kupihwa kurapwa pasina kunetsekana - ipapo huwandu hwekuzvarwa huchaita chaizvo kuwedzera. Pasina chero capital.