Mukati
Vakaroorana murapi uye munyori anotengeswa zvakanyanya weCaptive Breeding, Esther Perel, uyo akapa mazano kune vakaroorana kwemakore akawanda, asvika pamhedziso yokuti kukundikana kwedu murudo kunokonzerwa nemanzwiro asingakanganisi. Anotaura pfungwa dzisiridzo dzakajairika dzinotadzisa rudo chairwo kuwanikwa.
1. Vakaroorana vane rudo vanogara vachiudzana chokwadi.
Zvakakosha here kuudza mudiwa wako kuti ane mamwe mapaundi uye makwinya? Kana kuti kunyadzisa mukwanyina wako nokureurura pamusoro penhau yekare? Kutendeseka kungava utsinye, uye zivo inogona kukuvadza.
Ini ndinokurudzira kuti vatengi vasaudze vavakadyidzana navo nezvezvinhu zvavasingaite kukurumidza kugaya nekukanganwa. Usati waisa zvese zvinopinda nekubuda, ongorora kukanganisa kunogona kubva mumashoko ako. Uye zvakare, kuvhurika kwakanyanya kunoderedza kukwezvana kwedu uye kunogadzira iyo inozivikanwa "hama dzepedyo" mhedzisiro.
2. Matambudziko epabonde anoratidza matambudziko ehukama.
Zvinowanzogamuchirwa kuti vakaroorana vane hutano hwepfungwa vanorarama hupenyu hwepabonde hunoshingaira, uye kushayikwa kwepabonde kunobatanidzwa nekuderera kwechikamu chemanzwiro. Hazvina kudaro nguva dzose.
Rudo uye chishuwo zvinogona kudyidzana, asi zvinogonawo kupokana kana kukura zvakafanana, uye uku ndiko kukanganisika kwekukwezvwa. Vanhu vaviri vanogona kunyatsobatanidzwa kune mumwe nemumwe kunze kwekamuri yekurara, asi hupenyu hwavo hwepabonde hunogona kunge hwakapusa kana kusavepo.
3. Rudo neshungu zvinofambidzana
Kwemazana emakore, kuita zvepabonde muwanano kwaionekwa se "basa rewanano." Iye zvino tinoroora nekuda kwerudo uye mushure memuchato tinotarisira kuti chido uye kukwezva hazvizotisiyi kwemamwe makore akawanda. Vakaroorana vanokudziridza pfungwa yehukama hwepfungwa, vachitarisira kuti iite kuti hupenyu hwavo hwepabonde huve hwakajeka.
Kune vamwe vanhu, ichi ichokwadi. Chengetedzo, kuvimba, kunyaradzwa, kugara nguva dzose kunomutsa kukwezva kwavo. Asi kune zvakawanda zvakasiyana. Kuvhara manzwiro epamoyo kunouraya chido: inomutswa nepfungwa yezvakavanzika, kuwanikwa, kuyambuka rimwe bhiriji risingaoneki.
Iko kuyananiswa kwe eroticism uye hupenyu hwezuva nezuva harisi dambudziko ratinofanira kugadzirisa, iro gangaidzo rinofanira kugamuchirwa. Inyanzvi ndeyokudzidza kuva "kure uye pedyo" muwanano panguva imwe chete. Izvi zvinogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nekugadzira yako pachako nzvimbo (yehungwaru, yemuviri, yemanzwiro) - yako yakavanzika gadheni, umo pasina munhu anopinda.
4. Kusvirana kwemurume nemukadzi kwakasiyana.
Vazhinji vanotenda kuti kurara kwechirume ndekwechinyakare uye kunotemerwa nemasikirwo kupfuura manzwiro, uye chido chemukadzi chinoshanduka uye chinoda mamiriro akakosha.
Muchokwadi, kurara kwechirume kunongobatanidzwa mupfungwa sezvakangoita vakadzi. Kushungurudzika, kunetseka, kutsamwa, kana, zvakasiyana, kunzwa kwekuwira murudo kunokanganisa zvakanyanya chido chepabonde. Hongu, varume vane mukana wekushandisa bonde senge anti-stress uye mood regulator. Asi panguva imwecheteyo, ivo vanonyanya kunetseka pamusoro pehupenyu hwavo pachavo uye kutya kusafadza mumwe wavo.
Usafunge nezvevarume sebiorobots: ivo vanongobatanidzwa mupfungwa sezvauri.
5. Kubatana kwakanaka kunobva pakuenzana
Mumibatanidzwa inofadza, vanhu vanozadzisana, uye havarwiri kodzero nemikana yakaenzana. Vanokwidziridza hunhu hwakasiyana hwevamwe vavo pasina kuedza kuratidza hukuru hwavo kwavari.
Isu tinorarama munguva yekuzvishora uye tinopedza nguva yakawandisa tichizvinyima uye tichitsvaga kusakwana muvanhu nehukama. Asi nekuda kwezvakanaka zvedu, zvakakosha kudzidza kushoropodza zvishoma uye kutenda zvakanyanya zvatinazvo - isu pachedu, hupenyu hwedu, vatinoshanda navo uye wanano yedu.