Mukati
Hasha pakukundikana: chiratidzo chekugumbuka
Nguva dzose Loulou wedu paanokanganisa paanodzokorora nhetembo yake semuenzaniso, anotsamwa uye anoda kutanga kubva pakutanga, ane hasha zhinji. Paanonyora mutsara unorairwa nemudzidzisi uye akakanganisa, zvaanoita zvinotonyanyawo. Anoyambuka, nokuratidza kushatirwa kukuru, ndokukanda kabhuku kake pasi. Wakatarisana nepuzzle? Chiratidzo chimwe chekugumbuka kana asingakwanisi kuwana nzvimbo yakakodzera yekamuri. Wedu Loulou akashungurudzika, ndizvo chete!
Tinomuperekedza pasina kugadzirisa dambudziko rake
“Zvakajairika kuti pakati pemakore 6 ne8, mwana anoshatirwa kana mhedzisiro yacho isingazadzise chinangwa chaakazvimisira. Kunyanya kubva pazera iroro, basa rake remotokari harina kuenderana nezvaanotarisira paanenge achiita chiitwa chekugadzira ", anorondedzera David Alzieu, chiremba wepfungwa uye psychotherapist *. Kwatiri, mamiriro ezvinhu aya angaita seasiri echokwadi. “Asi kwaari, zvinomiririra hupenyu hwake hwese. Haanzwisise paanoudzwa kuti haisi serious, nekuti hongu, iri serious! Kuti arambe aine chivimbo mukugona kwake,Pfungwa yacho ndeyokutsigira mwana wedu nokumuratidza kuti tinonzwisisa zvaari kunzwa. "Usazeza kumubvunza kana achida rubatsiro pasina kumupa mhinduro, izvo zvingatonyanya kumugumbura", anotsanangura kudaro David Alzieu.
Anozvimanikidzira pachake: tinoramba takadzikama
Saka hapana chekufunganya kana chimiro ichi chiri chenguva pfupi uye chisingapindiri. “Dzimwe nguva zvinoitika kuti izvi zvinovanza kusafara kwakadzama uko mwana haakwanise kutaura neimwe nzira. Inogona kuve chiratidzo chekushushikana, chechimwe chinhu chinodudzirwa nemwana sechinhu chinodiwa nevabereki kana chechikoro ", anodaro chiremba wepfungwa asati awedzera: "Vana vanokura vachiratidzira vakuru vavo. Kana vakaona vabereki vavo vachishatirwa apo vasingagoni kupedza chinetso, vangakombamira kuzvimanikidzira vamene. “. Hapana chikonzero chekunzwa uine mhosva pane zvese izvozvo. Asi zvakanaka
kutsamwa. “Unofanira kuramba wakadzikama,” anoomerera kudaro chiremba wepfungwa. Uye tinozviratidza kuti tinoteerera mwana wedu.
“Kana mwana akaora mwoyo uye achinetseka kuramba akadzikama, iwe unofanirwa kungwarira nezvekushandisa kwako shuga. Shuga dzakawedzerwa dzinowanzoita kuti manzwiro awedzere. Vanopa pakutanga
kusimudzira mafungiro. Asi vanoita semushonga. Nokufamba kwenguva, vanoderedza manzwiro uye kukanganisa manzwiro. ” Tsanangura David Alzieu, chiremba wepfungwa uye psychotherapist *
(*) Munyori we "Iyo gumi yakavanzika hunhu hwevana vedu vanonyanya kunzwira tsitsi", rakabudiswa naJouvence