Uri mumwedzi yekupedzisira yenhumbu kana kuti uchangobva kuita amai. Iwe wakakurirwa nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzemanzwiro: kubva pamufaro, unyoro uye mufaro kune kutya uye kutya. Chinhu chekupedzisira chaunoda kuita kutora bvunzo uye kuratidza kune vamwe kuti waive (kana uchave) ne "kuzvarwa chaiko". Nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu Elizabeth McClintock anotaura nezvekumanikidza kunoita nzanga vanaamai vadiki.
Maonero ekuti "zvakarurama" sei kuzvara nekuyamwisa zvachinja zvakanyanya kanopfuura kamwe:
...Kusvika pakutanga kwezana ramakore rechi90, XNUMX% yekuzvarwa kwakaitika kumba.
...muna 1920s, nguva ye "kurara kwemasikati" yakatanga muUnited States: kuberekwa kwakawanda kwakaitika pasi peanesthesia vachishandisa morphine. Tsika iyi yakazomiswa chete mushure memakore makumi maviri.
...muma1940, vacheche vaitorwa kubva kuna vanaamai vachangozvarwa kuti vadzivise kubuda kweutachiona. Vakadzi vari mumarwadzo vakaramba vari muzvipatara zvekusununguka kwemazuva anosvika gumi, uye vairambidzwa kumuka pamubhedha.
...mumakore ekuma1950, vakadzi vazhinji muEurope nekuUS vaisayamwisa vana vavo, sezvo mukaka wemukaka waionekwa seimwe nzira inovaka muviri uye ine hutano.
...muma1990, mwana mumwe chete muvatatu munyika dzakabudirira akaberekwa nokusununguka.
Dzidziso yokuva amai vakafanira inoita kuti vakadzi vadavire mutsika yokubereka mwana kwakafanira, yavanofanira kuita nounyanzvi.
Zvakawanda zvachinja kubva ipapo, asi vanaamai-vachave vachiri kunzwa kumanikidzwa kwakawanda kubva munharaunda. Pachine gakava rinopisa pamusoro pekuyamwisa: dzimwe nyanzvi dzichiri kutaura kuti kubudirira, kubatsira uye tsika dzekuyamwisa hazvina chokwadi.
Dzidziso yokuva amai vakafanira inoita kuti vakadzi vadavire mutsika yokuberekwa kwakafanira, yavanofanira kuita nounyanzvi nokuda kwenakirwo yomwana. Kune rumwe rutivi, vatsigiri vekuberekwa kwepanyama vanotsigira zvishoma zvekupindira kwechiremba, kusanganisira kushandiswa kwe epidural anesthesia. Vanotenda kuti mukadzi anofanira kuzvimiririra kudzora nzira yekuzvara uye kuwana ruzivo rwakakwana rwekuita mwana.
Kune rumwe rutivi, pasina kuonana navanachiremba, hazvibviri kuona matambudziko panguva yakakodzera uye kuderedza ngozi. Vaya vanotaura nezvechiitiko che "kuberekerwa mumunda" («Vanambuya vedu vakabereka - uye hapana!»), Kukanganwa nezvehuwandu hwehuwandu hwekufa pakati pevanaamai nevacheche mumazuva iwayo.
Kuongororwa nguva dzose negynecologist uye kuberekwa muchipatara kunowedzera kushamwaridzana nekurasikirwa kwekutonga uye kusununguka, kunyanya kune vanaamai vanoedza kuva pedyo nemasikirwo. Vanachiremba, kune rumwe rutivi, vanotenda kuti doulas (mubatsiri wekuberekwa. - Approx. ed.) Uye vatevedzeri vekuberekwa kwekuzvarwa vanovada uye, nekuda kwekunyengera kwavo, vanoisa pangozi utano hwaamai nemwana nemaune.
Hapana ane kodzero yekutonga sarudzo dzedu uye kufanotaura nezvekuti zvinozotikanganisa sei isu nevana vedu.
Uye kufamba kunotsigira kubereka kwepanyama, uye "nyaya dzinotyisa" dzechiremba dzinoisa kumanikidziro kumukadzi kuitira kuti arege kuumba maonero ake.
Pakupedzisira, hatigoni kubvuma kumanikidzwa. Tinobvuma kubereka kwomuzvarirwo somuedzo chaiwo uye tinotsungirira marwadzo ehero kuti tiratidze kuzvitsaurira kwedu uye kugadzirira kuva amai. Uye kana chimwe chinhu chisingafambi maererano nezvakarongwa, tinotambudzwa nemirangariro yokuva nemhaka uye kukundikana kwedu timene.
Pfungwa yacho haisi yekuti ndeipi yedzidziso yakarurama, asi kuti mukadzi akazvara anoda kunzwa achiremekedzwa uye akasununguka mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Akazvibereka pachake kana kwete, ane kana pasina anesthesia, hazvina basa. Zvakakosha kuti tisanzwe setakundikana nekubvumirana nechikamu chechirwere chechirwere chechirwere chechirwere chechirwere chechirwere kana cesarean. Hapana ane kodzero yekutonga sarudzo dzedu uye kufanotaura nezvekuti zvinozotikanganisa sei isu nevana vedu.
Nezve Nyanzvi: Elizabeth McClintock purofesa wezvemagariro evanhu paYunivhesiti yeNotre Dame, USA.