Mukati
Mifananidzo yevacheche, zera nezera
Sezvo mwana wako anokura, sitiroko yake yepenzura inoshanduka! Hongu, kana hungwaru hwake hunowedzera, mifananidzo yake inovawo nezvainoreva uye inoburitsa manzwiro ake. Roseline Davido, nyanzvi mumunda, anodudzira iwe matanho akasiyana ekudhirowa muvana vadiki ...
kudhirowa kwemwana
Kudhirowa kwemucheche: zvese zvinotanga ne… stain!
Kupenda gore risati rasvika zvinogoneka! Sekureva kwaRoseline Davido, psychoanalyst uye nyanzvi mumifananidzo yevana, “ matauriro evana ekutanga ndiwo mavara avanoita kana vabata pendi, mushonga wemazino kana porridge yavo “. Nekudaro, kazhinji, vabereki havaregi mwana wavo mudiki ave nerudzi urwu rwechiitiko ... nekutya mhedzisiro!
Mwana wekutanga kunyora
Anenge mwedzi gumi nemiviri, mudiki anotanga kuita doodle. Panguva ino, Mucheche anofarira kudhirowa mitsetse kumativi ese, pasina kusimudza penzura yake. Uye aya madhizaini anoita seasina zvaanoreva ari kutoratidza zvakanyanya. Uye nokuda kwechikonzero chakanaka, “paanonyora, mwana anozviratidzira amene. Kutaura zvazviri, anoendesa "ini" yake, penzura ichiva kuwedzera kwakananga kweruoko. Semuenzaniso, vana vadiki vanofara kuva vapenyu vanozodhirowa pese pese papepa, kusiyana nemwana asina kugadzikana kana anorwara akasununguka. Zvisinei, yeuka kuti pazera rino, mwana haasati abata penzura yake zvakakwana. Iyo "ini" yakaunzwa saka ichiri "kuvhiringika".
Chikamu chedoodle
Paanenge makore maviri ekuberekwa, mwana anopinda muchikamu chitsva: chikamu chekuita doodling. Iri inhanho hombe sezvo iko zvino kudhirowa kwemwana wako kwava nemaune. Mwana wako muduku, uyo ari kuedza kubata penzura yake zviri nani, anoedza kutevedzera kunyora kwomukuru. Asi kutarisa kwevacheche kunopararira nekukurumidza. Vanogona kuwana zano nekutanga kudhirowa kwavo nekuchichinja munzira. Dzimwe nguva mwana anotowana zvazvinoreva mukudhirowa kwake pakupera chaiko. Inogona kunge iri mukana wakafanana kana pfungwa yake yazvino. Uye kana mudiki wako asinganzwe sekupedzisa kudhirowa kwavo, zvakanaka, vanongoda kutamba chimwe chinhu. Pazera iri, zvakaoma kuramba wakatarira chinhu chimwe chete kwenguva yakareba.
The tadpole
Anenge makore matatu ekuberekwa, mifananidzo yemwana wako inotora mamwe maitiro. Iyi inguva yetadpole ine mukurumbira. “Paanokweva murume,” (inomiririrwa nedenderedzwa rinoita semusoro nehunde, rakaiswa zvimiti zvinomiririra maoko nemakumbo), “mudiki anozvimiririra”, anotsanangura kudaro Roseline Davido. Paanokura zvakanyanya, murume wake anowedzera kutsanangurwa: hunde yehunhu inoonekwa muchimiro chedenderedzwa rechipiri, uye anenge makore matanhatu mutumbi unotaurwa..
Nyanzvi inotsanangura kuti murume ane tadpole anotendera iwe kuti utarise kuti mwana anoratidzwa sei. Asi anozongosvikako kana ave kuziva hurongwa hwemuviri wake, kureva "mufananidzo waanawo wemuviri wake uye wenzvimbo yake muchadenga". Zvechokwadi, maererano ne psychoanalyst Lacan, mufananidzo wekutanga uyo mwana ane kwaari wakaparadzaniswa. Uye chifananidzo ichi chinogona kuramba chiri muvana vanoshungurudzwa. Panyaya iyi chaiyo” vana, kunyange makore 4-5, vanongonyora chete, vanoramba miviri yavo. Inzira yekureva kuti havachisiri munhu, ”anowedzera Roseline Davido.