“Zviroto zvangu zvikuru nezvishuwo zvangu zviri kuitika. Zvichida nekuda kwenyeredzi, hunhu uye kutsunga, "anobvuma Elizaveta Boyarskaya, mutambi uye mumiriri we TOUS jewelry brand. Musikana anobva kumhuri yakanaka, mudzimai wemurume mukuru akanaka wemuRussia cinema Maxim Matveev, amai vevanakomana vaviri. Hupenyu, uhwo kune vakawanda huchaita sehwakanaka - hwakaita sei chaizvo?
Takazivana kwemakore akawanda. Tinosangana kubasa. Asi ndinoda kushamwaridzana naye. Pakanga pasati pambove nekunyepedzera kana hunyengeri muna Lisa. Ndinoziva kuti haakuregi, haanyengedze. Neimwe nzira takabvumirana kugadzira zvinhu zvekuburitswa kwemutikitivha. Iyo premiere yakaenderera mberi. Uye kamwe kamwe, zvisingatarisirwi, purojekiti yakapinda mu "grid", uye Lisa akanga ava kuda kubereka mwana wake wechipiri. Akanga asina zvachose nguva yemisangano, asi akachengeta shoko rake. Mukupindura kushamisika kwangu nokuonga, iye akanyemwerera: “Eya, iwe uri chii, takabvumirana!”
Psychology: Liza, unofunga kuti munhu anochinja nezera here?
Elizaveta Boyarskaya: Somuenzaniso, ndakachinja zvikuru. Hujaya hwangu hwakanga husingatyi, huneshungu. Pandakapinda muimba yemitambo ndiine makore 16, ndaiva nechokwadi chokuti ndaizopfuura. Uye kwete nokuti ndiri mwanasikana waBoyarsky, asi ndaingoziva: Ndakanaka, kana ndichida, zvino zvichava zvakadaro. Zvino ndaizokurirwa nekukahadzika, nezera, mapete anokambaira kunze. Muhuduku, zviri nyore kusvetuka neparachute, scuba dive ... Ndakaona kuti mushure mekuonekwa kwevana, vakawanda vanozivana vakatanga kutya kubhururuka ... Hyper-responsibility, kutya ... kurota hope dzinotyisa: chii chichaitika? Ndakafunga zvimwe zvaityisa pachikoro chacho, kuti aizoteverwa sei nenhubu. Ndakanga ndichinetseka pamusoro pehombe rondedzero yematambudziko anogona kuitika. Pandakaenda kubasa ndakatanga kuvhunduka.
Nokufamba kwenguva, ndakakwanisa kubvisa kutya uku ndiri ndoga. Asi pane mamiriro ezvinhu muupenyu hwangu apo ndakatsvaka rubatsiro rwenyanzvi yepfungwa. Uye vakandibatsira kusunungura mapfundo akasiyana-siyana. Somuenzaniso, ndaiva nezvinetso zvakadaro - ndakanga ndisingagoni kutaura "kwete" uye ndakatambura neizvi. Ndaitya kugumbura munhu. Aisazivawo kuita sarudzo dzake ega. Ndakagara mumhuri yevabereki vangu kwenguva yakareba uye ndakajaira basa remwanasikana, uye kwete musoro wemhuri - mudzimai, amai. Nguva yekuchinja yakanga yakaoma. Patakatamira kuMoscow, nyika yakachinja. Ndakaona kuti ini ndine mhosva yezvese zvese: kindergarten, imba, zvibvumirano zvedu zvemukati naMaxim zvine chekuita nemadenderedzwa, kugovera nguva, nhandaro yekubatana. Kwete pakarepo, asi ndakabatwa. Chirongwa chakajeka chinhu changu. Ndinozvifarira kana hupenyu hwave kutenderera.
Ndinobatwa nehope kwenguva refu inorwadza, ndichifamba nepfungwa dzakasiyana-siyana. Haana kumbodzidza kuzorora
Iye zvino ndinoda kuironga - ini uye nevana. Asi panguva yandakasangana neizvi kekutanga, ndakaona kuti hapana aizondiitira chero chinhu, ndaifanira kuenda kuchitoro ini, zuva rega rega ndinosarudza zvataiva nazvo kudya kwemanheru. Avo vanamai vanogadzirira vasikana kuti varoorwe vakarurama, uye kwete avo vane vanasikana vanovata panhovo yeminhenga, sezvandakazvambarara. Handina kumbonzi ndibatsire kutsvaira, kuaina, kuwacha, amai vangu vaizviita vega. Uye pandakaerekana ndanyura muupenyu hwemhuri, kwandiri zvakava dzvinyiriro yakaipisisa. Ndaifanira kudzidza zvose kubva pakutanga. Uye Maxim aitsigira zvakanyanya uye akandikurudzira mune izvi: "Uri kuita zvese nemazvo. Uri kuita zvakanaka!"
Ukama hwako naye hwakamira sei? Une kupatsanurwa kwemabasa here? Kusuka ndiro, semuenzaniso, pauri?
Apa wakanganisa. Semwana, Maxim aiva nebasa rekugeza ndiro, uye kwaari hazvisi zvakaoma. Uye kana tikataura nezvehukama mune zvese, isu tinavo sevadyidzani. Maxim anogona kubika, kurarisa vana, kuwacha, kuaina, uye kuenda kunotenga girosari. Uye ndinogona kuita zvimwe chetezvo. Ndiani akasununguka, ari busy kumba. Maxim ava kutora bhaisikopo muMoscow, uye ini ndine vana muSt. Petersburg, pabasa. Ndinomuudza kuti: "Chengetedza bhizinesi rako pachako, ndinochengeta zvese."
Pamwe ndosaka waita dambudziko rehope dzawaitaura?
Ini chaizvo zvinorwadza kwenguva refu kurara, pfuura nemupfungwa dzakasiyana. Handisati ndadzidza kuzorora. Tsika yekuva muchimiro chakanaka nguva dzose yakasimba. Izvi zvinotora nguva. Kunyangwe zvakaitika panguva yedenda, uye ndakanzwa semunhu aifara zvikuru. Paiva nenguva yakawanda yekusununguka, ndaiishandisa pane zvandaida, uye kwete pane zvandaifanira kuita. Uye zvakazoitika kuti ndinoda kuchera mumabhedha, kukura sitirobheni, kutaurirana nevana, neshamwari, kuverenga mabhuku, kutaura nemurume wangu, kuona firimu rakanaka. Pandinenge ndisina zororo refu, asi zuva rimwe chete randakanga ndakamirira kwenguva refu, ndinenge ndiri pamba uye dzimwe nguva handitombonzwi zvakanaka. Kana ndisina hurongwa, ndinoshanduka kuita mutobvu wakaremara. Asi kana zuva rekuzorora rakarongwa, zvese zvichange zvakanaka.
Unowana nguva yako pachako here? Mafaro evakadzi akadai semasaroni akarukwa zvakarukwa muhupenyu hwako here?
Ndiri kuda kuvaruka munoziva ndakazvibata ndafunga kuti nyangwe ndikawana nguva ndouya for an hour and a half massage ndinombomira kufunga 15 minutes isati yapera. Uye izvi zvisati zvaitika, pfungwa dzinoputika: unofanirwa kuita izvi, izvo. Ndakafunga nezve zvese, uye kamwe - chinhu chinofadza mumusoro mangu. Kashoma nguva! Chinhu chimwe chete chinokurumidza kundizorodza hunhu. Gungwa, sango, munda unobva wagadzirisa kusawirirana. Uye zvakare kutaurirana nemurume wake. Dzimwe nguva ndinotora nzombe nenyanga ndoti kuna Maxim: "Tiri vabereki vakanaka, asi tinofanira kupedza nguva pamwe chete," uye ndinomukwevera kubhaisikopo, kuimba yemitambo, kuresitorendi kana kufamba-famba. Inozadza uye inotikurudzira zvakanyanya.
Vana vako vakafanana chaizvo muchitarisiko, asi vakasiyana paunhu - mudiki, Grisha, murume akadzikama ane hunhu, Andryusha anofambisa, anofungidzira, anonzwira tsitsi. Vanoda nzira dzakasiyana here?
Maxim neni tinoita zvese intuitively. Ndakaverenga mabhuku akasiyana-siyana pamusoro pedzidzo, asi hazvina kushanda zvokuti ndakafarira zvachose imwe hurongwa, kwese kune zvakanakira nekuipira. Muzhinji, ini ndinoda hunhu, kunaka uye kuve nyore sezvinobvira. Hapana mabhuku kana mitemo. Pano Grisha akadya hafu yendiro patafura, akabva atakurwa nemhando yetapureta pasi, hazvisi zvakaoma kuti ndipedze kumudyisa iye achitamba.
Ndinofunga kuti tinofanira kugara nemwoyo yedu uye kuva shamwari nevana. Tinoedza kuva nechokwadi chokuti vakomana havafungi kuti pane muganhu usingakundiki pakati pedu uye hatizombofi takanzwisisa zvavanenge vachifunga, uye havazombotinzwisisi. Saka ndinovaudza nezvebasa, goverai zvinondishungurudza. Ndiri kuedza kupinda mumitambo yavo. Handimboseki zvinhu zvinonetsa Andrei. Vanogona kunge vasina njere, asi vanoita sevari kurevesa kwaari. Achangobva kufarira mumwe musikana, uye ndakamubvunza kuti akanga akaita sei, uye akapindura kuti: “Akanaka!” Uye ndakamurayira kuti amupe chimwe chinhu kana kuita chimwe chinhu chakanaka. Iye, tenda Mwari, anotaura zvose. Anogovera, semuenzaniso, kana paine imwe nyaya yakaoma nemudzidzisi.
Mwanakomana mukuru aiva nemibvunzo pamusoro pedzidzo yezvepabonde, uye takatenga bhuku rakanaka zvikuru
Kana Andrei akaunza kumba shoko rakashata, handifi ndakamuudza kuti: "Unopenga here?" Handidi kuti atye kukurukura nesu. Pane imwe nguva, aiva nemibvunzo pamusoro pedzidzo yezvepabonde, uye takatenga bhuku rakanaka kwazvo. Andryusha haana kutaura se "oh" uye "wow". Akaverenga, akacherechedza uye akaenderera mberi nekutamba bhora neshamwari. Uye ndinonzwisisa: izvi mhedzisiro yekuti tinotaurirana zvakadzikama. Anesu, anonzwa akadzivirirwa, uye ichi ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha.
Makore mazhinji apfuura, iwe wakati: zvingave zvakanaka kana tiine tsika dzemhuri - kudya kwemanheru pamwe chete kana kudya kweSvondo. Zvinhu zviri kufamba sei neizvi?
Makore akapfuura, uye magamuchidzanwa haana kuoneka. (Anoseka) Handina chokwadi kana iri tsika yekuparadzanisa kuunganidzwa kwemarara, asi ichi ndicho chokwadi chedu chitsva uye nguva yakakosha mukurera vana. Nokuti unogona kudzidzisa chete nemuenzaniso wako pachako. Takagara mufurati muSt. Petersburg kwegore uye takaziva kuti mhuri yedu duku inounganidza chitsama chinokatyamadza chetsvina muzuva rimwe, uye yakawanda sei muvhiki, mumwedzi! Iye zvino isu tinoronga zvinodzokororwa, kufonera ecotaxi kaviri pamwedzi. Pane midziyo mukoridho, ndakavakumbira shamwari dzangu sechipo chekuzvarwa. Andryusha akabatana nenyaya yacho nemufaro muunganidzwa wakasiyana.
Ndine chokwadi chokuti izvi zvinofanira kudzidziswa kubva pauduku kuitira kuti nzira yacho ive yakasikwa. Pamusoro pekugadzirisa marara, unofanirwa kuita tsika yekutora vatengesi vako kuchitoro kuti usashandise mabhegi epurasitiki. Ndinogara ndine shopper mubhegi rangu. Uye iwe unogona kutora yako wega thermos mug kuchitoro chekofi, asi iyi yatove tsika yakaoma. Handisati ndamurova. Ndinotora kofi mukapu inoraswa, zvisinei, ipapo ndinoisa chivharo mubhegi rangu uye pakupera kwezuva ndinoiunza kumba, kumudziyo wakakodzera nepurasitiki.
Maxim akambondiudza mubvunzurudzo nezveimwe yendangariro dzake dzekutanga dzehuduku: akamhanya achitevera bhazi iro baba vake vakasiya zvachose. Maxim akakurira mumhuri isina kukwana uye akasarudza kuti achagara aine vana vake. Vakazova baba vakaita sei?
Maxim ndibaba vanoshamisa. Ndingati zvakakwana. Anopa mhuri yake, anobika zvakanaka, anoita basa remumba nyore uye neunyanzvi kana zvichidikanwa, anotamba nevana, anogeza, anoverenga, anotamba navo mitambo, anokudzidzisa kuve nehanya uye nehanya nevakadzi, Maxim ane hunyanzvi, anoita zvakawanda. basa remumba, pamwe izvo - gadzirisa. Anobatanidza Andryusha kune izvi: "Hunza screwdriver, tichaigadzirisa!" Kana toyi yaGrisha ikaputsika, anoenda nayo kuna baba vake ndokuti: "Mabhatiri." Grisha anoziva kuti baba vanogona kuita chero chinhu.
Kumwanakomana mukuru, Maxim ichiremera chisingarambiki. Andryusha anomuteerera nguva dzose uye mune zvose, uye ini - dzimwe nguva, nokuti dzimwe nguva ndinorega. Asi baba - kwete, vane hurukuro pfupi. Maxim akavimbika, ane mutsa, asi akasimba. Semukomana, semurume, anotaura nevana. Uye zvinoshamisa! Iye zvino kune pwere dzakawanda kwazvo dzakajaira kuti vabereki vavo vavaitire chinhu chiri chose. Havatore mutoro. Uye Maxim kutanga anoisa mutoro muvana. Uye anogara achisimbisa kuti kubudirira kwemunhu kwakakosha - mumitambo, muzvidzidzo, mukushanda iwe pachako.
Maxim anobatanidzwa zvakanyanya muhutano hwake, anocherechedza kudya kwemazuva mashanu. Wakaita chero kufambira mberi munzira yekuzvitarisira nekuzvida here?
Handina chokwadi semurume wangu. Asi ndinoedza kusadya zvokudya zvinokurumidza uye handina kusvuta kwemakore gumi. Kurara kuri nani kupfuura kare, ndinorara maawa matanhatu, kwete mana. Kazhinji, kwenguva yakareba ndakararama seizvi: pane basa randinopa ini, pane mhuri, vana, asi ndakakanganwa nezvandinazvo. Uye kana usingasiyi nzvimbo iwe pachako, zvinokanganisa nzvimbo dzose dzehupenyu. Mushure mezvose, munhu haafaniri kungopa chete, asiwo kugamuchira - kuburikidza nemitambo, kurara, misangano neshamwari, mafirimu, mabhuku. Simba rinoda kuzadzikiswa. Imwe nguva pashure pokuberekwa kwaAndryusha, ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndagumbuka zvikuru, zvakanga zvakandiomera. Ndinoyeuka kuti takasangana neimwe shamwari, uye yakati ndakanga ndaneta zvikuru. Akateerera imwe nyaya yemararamiro angu, uye akati: “Amai, zvisungei. Kubva kwaari, ndakatanga kunzwa kuti unofanira kuzviitira iwe mudiwa wako. Handina kumbofunga nezvazvo. Uye ipapo ndakaona kuti kunyange kuenda ku manicure kunondipa simba. Ndinodzokera kumba ndotamba nevana nekunakirwa, ndinonyemwerera. Saka zvese izvi zvidiki zvevakadzi hazvisi zvidiki zvachose, asi chinhu chinodiwa.