Mazuva mashoma apfuura, masocial network akaputirwa nefungu reimwe flash mhomho. Vashandisi vanotaura nyaya dzekutadza kwavo uye kukundwa kwavo, vachivaperekedza netag #mewas not hired. Zvose izvi zvinorevei maererano nepsychotherapy? Nyanzvi yedu Vladimir Dashevsky ndeye categorical: uku kuchema kubva mumweya wevanhu vakagumburwa, uye flash mhomho pachayo ine udyire uye yehucheche.
Mu psychotherapy, chinhu chikuru ndechokuteerera. Kana iwe usiri Sherlock Holmes uye kwete Dr. House, kana iwe usina ziso rechitatu uye haugone "kutarisa mukati memweya" uye kuongorora pfungwa, maziso evanhu nenzeve uye ruzivo ruchaita. Vanhu vari kutaura nezvavo. Zvakananga, muhuma, zvinoramba uye zvakawanda.
Kungoti havataure nemazwi, asi nezviri pakati: reticence, hints, zvinoreva. Sainzi, izvi zvinonzi «kureva». Chero mutsara unoreva chimwe chinhu, uye kutaurirana pakati pevanhu kunovakwa nerubatsiro rwemashoko akadaro. Zvimwe chetezvo zvinoitika muzvinyorwa. Kunyanya muzvinyorwa zvesocial network. Kunyanya paFacebook (sangano rakanyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia).
Semuyenzaniso, kana wakaverenga kusvika pamitsara iyi, imhedziso ipi yaungaite pamusoro pangu semunyori? Semuyenzaniso, munyori ari snob, shasha uye «nerd» uyo akasarudza kuchovha yakakangwa, nekutya akasarudza kuti aigona kurodha vaverengi nechirevo cheupenzi, «hanees kwenguva yakareba apo mhomho inopenya. inotanga." Uye zvichingodaro zvichingodaro. Ndizvo chete zvaunoverenga pakati pemitsetse yezvinyorwa.
Nokudaro, hazvisi izvo vanhu vanotaura kana kunyora zvinonakidza, asi zvavanoreva nemashoko avo. Pashure pezvose, izvi ndizvo zvinonzwa munhu chaizvoizvo, pamwero wokusaziva, chimwe chinhu chaasingagoni kudzora.
Mazuvano zvinonyadzisa kutadza kubudirira. Kunyanya pasocial media
Saka, nezve mhomho yeflash, ivo #havana kunditora. Zvinoshamisa kuti akakurumidza sei kukunda Facebook (sangano rinopfurikidza rakarambidzwa muRussia). Incredible utachiona simba! Kwemazuva maviri - zviuru, makumi ezviuru zvezvinyorwa, tsamba, majee, zvinongedzo, makotesheni uye repost. Ndine chokwadi chekuti vaongorori vakatozvarwa vanozotsanangura mitemo mitsva yesocial media psychology vachishandisa muenzaniso wemaitiro evanhu mumasocial network.
Chii chiri pamusoro uye izvo vakawanda vakatonyora nezvazvo: flash mob # havana kunditora - 90% yeiyi inyaya dzebudiriro. "Rega ndirege kubhadharwa nekambani X, asi ikozvino ndiri kukambani Y ("ndakatanga bhizinesi rangu" / "kudziya dumbu rangu muBali") uye mune chokoreti yakazara. Ngatizviti hunyengeri hwemagariro.
Mazuvano zvinonyadzisa kutadza kubudirira. Kunyanya pasocial media. Chete cream yenyika yemazuva ese inoburitswa pano. Inopindwa nevatapi venhau, vanyori vezvinyorwa, vanyori, avo vanowanzonzi kirasi yekusika. Uye zvechokwadi, pamusana pezvinyorwa izvi, hazvibviri kutora mhedziso pamusoro pezvikonzero zvekukundikana. Pane chinhu chakadaro - "kukanganisa kwemupukunyuki", apo, maererano nemararamiro emabara pane fuselage yendege inodzokera kunzvimbo, vanoedza kutora mhedziso pamusoro pezvikonzero zvekuderera "kupona" kwendege. Ndege dzakarohwa neinjini kana gasi tangi inotadza uye haidzokeri. Hapana chinozivikanwa pamusoro pavo.
Avo #vasinganyatsotora chikamu mumhomho yeflash. Zvinorwadza kana kuti hapana nguva.
Ego yemunyori inotora majusi ekurumbidza, kuzviremekedza kunokura, chinangwa chinowanikwa.
Zvino pamusoro pezvakavanzika, pamusoro pezvinoreva.
Misodzi yevanyori yakasvava, asi chigumbu chakaramba chiripo. Chigumbu kune vari #samifools, #handina kunditora tsvarakadenga, #ruma magokora, #nuisabogus don't part in this. Maonero anobva angooneka pasi pezvinyorwa: "regai vave negodo izvozvi", "ivo vane mhosva", "wakanaka". Iyo ego yevanyori inotora jisi dzelaudatory, kuzviremekedza kunokura, chinangwa chinowanikwa. Uyezve, sekutonga, mamiriro ezvinhu ekare, chigumbu ndechemwana, uye chigumbu chemwana ndicho chinonyanya kugumbura.
Kugumbuka kwakawanda. Kubva padiki bhora rechando rakatangwa mazuva maviri apfuura, bundu rezvichemo zvakatsikirirwa riri kudonhedza gomo reFacebook (sangano rakanyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia). Zvikamu zvakawanda zviri kunamatira pazviri, midhiya yakasiyana-siyana iri kutora tsvimbo, iko zvino hosha huru iri kutsvaira paInternet, ichitsvaira vaverengi, ichitsvaira nhau nemimwe misoro. Zviri nyore, zvakachengeteka uye zvinoshanda. Zvinoita sekuti ndiri kutora chikamu mumhomho yekunakidzwa, uye panguva imwe chete ndiri kurapwa.
Kunyomba kwakadii, mhomho yakadai - inozvida uye yehucheche. Shoko chairo rokuti “handina kutorwa” rinoratidza kuti ndiri chinhu icho mumwe munhu akasimba, akapiwa simba, akasununguka kutora kana kusatora. Munyori anongotora chimiro chemunhu akabatwa uye haagone "nenzira yevakuru", achinyatso tarisa mamiriro acho.
Kupfapfaidza chigumbu kwakanaka, sekubuda urwa paronda. Asi ini ndinosarudza kumira parutivi panguva ino, kuti ndirege kukuvadzwa nemhepo inoputika.
Iko kumhanya kwekugovera uye huwandu hwehuwandu hwemaitiro hunogona kuratidza kuti inoshanda. Ndakaona kuti mahombe emasocial media flash mhomho (senge ichangoburwa #Ini ndinotya kutaura) anogara ari psychotherapeutic. Sezvo mutemo, pakupera kwemhomho yekupenya, narcissistic mhedzisiro inosanganiswa muno.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti ticherechedze izvi, sezvatinotarisa kune yakajeka girobhu - kubva pasi pehafu-yakavharwa eyelids, kuitira kuti mazwi apfuure, uye atarise pane zviri kuitika chaizvo.