Kuita hupombwe kunozviratidza muhunhu hwepabonde, izvo zvinowanzo kuve nemhedzisiro inokuvadza pahukama hwehukama nehukama hwepedyo. Chii chinonzi kusagadzikana pabonde uye chingarapwa sei?

Hypersexuality inowanzo kunzi nymphomania, kana kupindwa muropa nepabonde mune zvakafanana mutauro. Icho chaicho chiitiko chebonde chinogona kunetsa varume sevakadzi, iyo tsananguro yacho isina kunyatsogadziriswa. Nyanzvi dzezvepabonde dzinobvumirana kuti idambudziko repabonde, rinoratidzirwa nehurongwa hwepabonde nekuzvibata, kuwanda uye kumanikidza, pamwe nekushayikwa kwekutonga pamusoro pepfungwa dzepabonde uye nehunhu hunokonzeresa. Murwere anotambura nehupombwe anounza yakawanda libido uye / kana zvepabonde, pamwe nehunhu hwepabonde zvinotungamira mukutsvaga kutsvaga kwekunakidzwa pabonde.

Dambudziko iri rinotariswa zvakanyanya nevekurapa, vangave vezvepabonde, vezvepfungwa, nezvimwewo. Rinonzi "kuita zvepabonde zvakawandisa", uye rinoiswa pasi pechikamu che "Kusagadzikana pabonde, kwete nekuda kwechirwere chepanyama kana chirwere" mu iyo International Classification yeZirwere (ICD-10), inoburitswa neWHO. Kune rimwe divi, hupombwe hauna kunyorwa sehosha muDSM 5, bhuku rezvinongedzo zveAmerican pathology pathologies, iyo inoronga kusagadzikana kwese nedudziro inoenderana navo. Chokwadi, kushomeka kwezvidzidzo zvinogutsa pamusoro penyaya iyi kwakadzivirira hupombwe kubva pakuonekwa sechirwere munzvimbo ino.

Hypersexuality chirwere chebonde icho chinogona kazhinji kufananidzwa nezvinetso zviri muchikamu chimwe chete sekutadza kweiyo genital response (kushaya simba), kana kutonhora (kusavapo kana kurasikirwa kwechido chebonde). Uye zvakare, zvakanyanya kuomarara kuve nematanho chaiwo pahuwandu hwevarume nevakadzi vanotambura nehupombwe, nekuti muganho uripakati pechirwere ichi nehupombwe unofungidzirwa zvakawandisa unonetsa kumisikidza. Kusvika pari zvino, zvinofungidzirwa kuti chirwere ichi chinobata pakati pe3 ne6% yevagari, uye chinonyanya kubata varume.

Dzimwe nguva zvinonetsa kudhirowa mutsetse pakati pekushandisa zvinorema uye kuwandisa. Pano, muganhu uripakati pehupenyu hwakanyanya hwepabonde uye "zvakanyanyisa" kudyiwa kwepabonde iri mune yekudyara nzvimbo. Chokwadi, zvakaoma kuverenga "zvakajairika" kunwiwa kwebonde, iyo "yakajairwa" nhamba yevakabatana, hukama hwepabonde, fungidziro, nezvimwe. Zvepabonde inyaya yemunhu, inosiyana kubva pamunhu kuenda kumunhu, uye isingasviki chero maitiro mitemo. Kune rimwe divi, ndezvehurongwa hwechirwere kana hwakaenzana nekushungurudzika, kupindwa muropa, maitiro ekumanikidza uye mhedzisiro yakaipa pahupenyu hwemunhu.

Haumborwara nesarudzo. Hypersexuality inokodzera se "sarudzo yemararamiro" kana isiriyo nyaya yechirwere chepabonde, asi yemararamiro, enzira yekusvika pabonde. Sezvataona, hupombwe sechirwere hune mhedzisiro yakaipa pahupenyu uye kunyangwe hutano hwevarwere. Chokwadi, munhu anotambura nehupombwe achapedza nguva yake achitsvaga kunakidzwa pabonde, kukuvadza kusangana kwake munharaunda, hupenyu hwake hwewanano, nezvimwewo kuyedza uye nguva inobatanidzwa mukutsvaga kunakidzwa kwepabonde kunokonzeresa kuregedza kune mamwe mazinga ehupenyu hwepachivande. Muchokwadi, kutaura kuti munhu ari hypersexual nesarudzo kungave kuri kurerutsa kusagadzikana kwavo. Kune rimwe divi, mune nyaya yemunhu anoda bonde, anozviita kazhinji, uye anokoshesa kukosha kwekunakidzwa pabonde, asi pasina kuve mukuzvimirira uye kupindwa muropa, zvirokwazvo isarudzo yehupenyu, iyo yakasarudzika kune mumwe nemumwe.

Kufanana nematambudziko ese epabonde, kana iwe uchifunga kuti une hupombwe, zvakanaka kuti uone chiremba. Basa rekurapa richakwanisa kuona zviratidzo zvehutachiona, uye kutsanangura newe zano rekurapa zvakakonzera nezviratidzo, uye nekukubatsira iwe kuwana hutano hwakanaka uye hune rugare hupenyu hwepabonde. Pane zvikonzero zvinoverengeka zvinokwanisa kutsanangudza hunhu hwehupombwe zvekamwe kamwe apo akange asati avepo.