Mukati
Vamwe vanhu vakuru vanovaona se "crybabies", "sisis" uye "capricious". Vamwe vanofarira: chii chikonzero chemisodzi yechisimba, kutya kamwe kamwe uye mamwe maitiro akaoma? Vana ava vakasiyana sei nevezera ravo? Kuvabatsira sei? Takabvunza mibvunzo iyi kune psychophysiologist.
Mwana mumwe nomumwe anonzwa kune zvinokurudzira zvekunze: kuchinja mukuravira, tembiricha, ruzha uye chiyero chechiedza, kushanduka kwemaitiro emunhu mukuru. Asi kune avo vane maitiro akaomarara kubva pachembere. "Yeuka heroine yenyaya yaAndersen The Princess and the Pea," nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Vyacheslav Lebedev anopa muenzaniso. “Vana vakadaro havagoni kushivirira zviedza zvinopenya nokunzwika kwakakasharara, vachinyunyuta nemarwadzo anobva papadiki paduku pose, vanotsamwiswa nematehwe nehurungudo mumasokisi.” Vanoratidzwawo nekunyara, kutya, kutsamwa.
Kana maitiro emwana achinyanya kutaurwa kupfuura emunin'ina wake / hanzvadzi kana vamwe vana, zviri nyore kumukanganisa, anoda kunyatsotariswa. “Mwana ane rudzi rwakasimba rwetsinga haasati achizotsamwiswa apo iye anonzwa shoko rakashata rinotaurwa kwaari,” nyanzvi ye<em>neurophysiologist inotsanangura kudaro. "Uye kumuridzi wevasina simba, chimiro chisina hushamwari chakakwana." Waziva mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako here? Zvadaro chengetedza kudzikama uye kushivirira.
tsigira
Usaranga mwana
Semuenzaniso, yekuchema kana kutsamwa. "Haazvibata nenzira iyi kuti akwezve ngwariro kana kuti aite chimwe chinhu, anongotadza kutsungirira maitiro ake," anotsanangura kudaro Vyacheslav Lebedev. Iva wakagadzirira kumuteerera uye kubatsira kutarisa mamiriro acho kubva kune rumwe rutivi: "Mumwe munhu akaita zvakashata, asi haisi mhosva yako." Izvi zvinomubvumira kuti apone mhosva pasina kutora chinzvimbo chemunhu akabatwa. Kubva pakuzvarwa, anoda kubatanidzwa zvakanyanya kupfuura vamwe. Iye anotambura kupfuura vamwe apo avo vari pedyo naye vanozvidza zvinoitika zvake (“Nei wakatsamwiswa nezvinhu zvisina maturo!”).
Dzivisa kusekwa
Vana vane hanya ndivo vanonyanya kukanganiswa nekurambwa nevakuru, kune yavo yekunakidzwa kana kushatirwa inzwi. Vanogumburwa zvikuru nekusekwa - kumba, mukireshi kana kuchikoro. Yambiro mudzidzisi pamusoro peizvi: vana vanotambura vanonyara nezvavanoita. Vanonzwa kuti havana kufanana nevamwe vose, uye vanozvitsamwira vamene nokuda kweizvi. “Kana vakashanda sechipfuro chetsinhiro dzinogumbura, ipapo kuzviremekedza kwavo kunoderera,” anosimbisa kudaro Vyacheslav Lebedev, “mukuyaruka, vangasangana nezvinetso zvakakomba ndokudzokera mavari vamene.”
Usamhanye
"Rwendo rwekuenda kukireshi, mudzidzisi mutsva kana vaenzi vasina kujaira - chero shanduko muhupenyu hwekugara hunokonzera kushushikana muvana vanobatwa," inodaro psychophysiologist. - Panguva ino, vanonzwa manzwiro ari pedyo nekurwadziwa, uye vanopedza simba rakawanda kuti vagadzirise. Naizvozvo, mwana anogara akangwarira.” Mupe nguva yokuchinjira kumamiriro ezvinhu matsva.
Chenjerera
Nemutoro
"Vana vanonzwa vanoneta nekukurumidza, saka ramba uchitarisa maitiro emwana wako zuva nezuva, kurara, kudya uye kuita zvemuviri." Ita shuwa kuti ane nguva yekuzorora mukunyarara, usaite kuti agare pamberi pezviratidziro zvefoni. Usarega mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako akagara kusvikira pakati pousiku achiita basa rechikoro (somutemo, haabvumiri pfungwa yokuenda kuchikoro asina kupedza basa racho). Isa miganhu yenguva yakasimba yekudzidza. Tora mutoro uye iva anodisa kubayira dzimwe nguva mamakisi akanaka kana rumwe rudzi rwedenderedzwa kuitira kuti mwana ave nenguva yekupora.
Nechikwata
“Kana mwana akasununguka kukurukura nevezera rake mumwe chete uye ajaira kuridza ruzha uye kuita basa, usadaidza dzimwe shamwari gumi,” anoyeuchidza kudaro Vyacheslav Lebedev. “Vana vane tsinga dzisina simba vanowanzonyara, vanopora nokuzvivharira kure nokunze. Basa ravo repfungwa rinonanga mukati. Saka haufaniri kukurumidza kutumira mwanakomana wako (mwanasikana) kumusasa kwevhiki mbiri. Kana mwana akaona kutarisa kwevabereki uye anonzwa akachengeteka, ipapo iye zvishoma nezvishoma achakudziridza kusimba.
Nemitambo
Resilience inodzidziswa, asi kwete nematanho akasimba. Nokutumira mwanakomana wavo “mukoma” kuchikamu cherugby kana chetsiva, baba vacho vangangomupa marwadzo epfungwa. Sarudza mutambo wakapfava (kufamba, kuchovha bhasikoro, skiing, aerobics). Sarudzo yakanaka kushambira: inobatanidza kuzorora, kufara uye mukana wekuwana kutonga pamusoro pemuviri wako. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti mwana wako haadi zvemitambo, tsvaga wekutsiva kana kutora mamwe mafambiro.
Kurudzira
Zvisikwa
Kunyange zvazvo mwana wako asina muganhu wakakwana wesimba uye kutsungirira, ane zvakanakira zvake, anofunga, anokwanisa kuona zvisinganzwisisiki kunaka uye kusiyanisa zvakawanda zvezviitiko. “Ava vana vanofadzwa norudzi rupi norupi rwokugadzira: mimhanzi, kudhirowa, kutamba, kusona, kutamba uye kushanda kwepfungwa, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu,” anodaro Vyacheslav Lebedev. "Zviitiko izvi zvese zvinokutendera kuti utendeutse kunzwa kwemwana kune mukana wake uye kutungamira manzwiro ake munzira kwayo - kuratidza kusuwa, kunetseka, kutya, mufaro, uye kusazvichengeta maari."
Kufungidzira
Ongorora nemwana manzwiro ake uye manzwiro ake. Mukoke kuti anyore pasi mumanotibhuku mamiriro ezvinhu paanenge ashaya zvekuita. Ratidza zviitwa zvinobatsira kudzora manzwiro nekuzviita pamwe chete. Kukura, mwanasikana kana mwanakomana haazove akaderera: hunhu hucharamba hwakafanana, asi hunhu huchadzikama. Ivo vanochinjira kuhunhu hwavo uye vanowana nzira yakanakisa yekuzvibata.