"Zvakanaka, ikeke rine chimiro chako", "une matama akaita se hamster", "dai iwe wakanga wakareba ...". Kuvabereki vakawanda, kutaura kwakadaro pamusoro pechitarisiko chevanasikana vavo kunoratidzika kuva kusina mhaka, nokuti «ndiani mumwe achaudza mwana chokwadi, kana asiri amai vane rudo.” Asi nemashoko avo nezviito, vanorara mupfungwa dzemwana kusava nechokwadi, kuoma uye kutya. Hutsva hutsva hwekutengesa huchakubatsira iwe kuzvitarisa kubva kunze.
Cosmetic brand Dove yakatanga nhepfenyuro yemavhidhiyo emagariro "Mumhuri hamuna chidzidzo" - chirongwa umo vatauriri Tatyana Lazareva naMikhail Shats, vachishandisa muenzaniso wemamiriro ezvinhu kubva muupenyu, nenzira isinganzwisisiki, vanotaura nezve pesvedzero yevabereki pakuzviremekedza kwevanasikana vavo. Chinangwa chepurojekiti ndechekukwevera kutarisisa kwevakuru kuti ivo pachavo vanobatsira sei mukusaziva mukukura kwemacomplexes muvana.
Varongi vakakurudzirwa kugadzira chirongwa ichi nechidzidzo chakaitwa pamwe chete neAll-Russian Center for Public Opinion. Zvigumisiro zvaro zvakaratidza nhamba dzinosuruvarisa munyaya dzekuzviremekedza pakati pechizvarwa chiduku: ruzhinji rwevasikana vachiri kuyaruka vane makore 14-17 havagutsikani nechitarisiko chavo. Panguva imwe cheteyo, 38% yevabereki vakati vangada kuchinja chimwe chinhu muchitarisiko chemwanasikana wavo*.
Mavhidhiyo epurojekiti anoratidzwa muchimiro chehurukuro yehurukuro, iyo inoshanda pamusimboti wezano rakaipa. Imwe neimwe edition yefictitious programme inomhanya pasi pe sirogani "Bulling inotanga kumba": mukati mehurongwa hwayo, vabereki vanogona kudzidza kukuvadza kuzvivimba kwevana "chaizvo".
Muchinyorwa chekutanga, vabereki vaLena mudiki vachadzidza "zvisinganzwisisike" kuratidza kumwanasikana wavo kuti, nechitarisiko chake, zviri nani kuti atore mufananidzo nebvudzi rake pasi.
Muchikamu chechipiri, amai vaOksana naambuya vanogamuchira mazano ekuti vangadzivisa sei musikana zvishoma nezvishoma kutenga jeans yemafashoni isingagoni kupfekwa nenzira ipi zvayo neganda rake. Nyaya yacho inosanganisirawo "nyanzvi yenyeredzi" - muimbi Lolita, uyo anosimbisa "kubudirira" kweiyi nzira uye anoyeuka kuti, nerubatsiro rwayo, amai vake vakambobudirira kuderedza kuzviremekedza kweramangwana mukurumbira.
Muchikamu chechitatu, mazano anogamuchirwa nababa vaAngelina nehanzvadzi, avo vangada zvikuru kunyevera musikana pamusoro pekukanganisa kwechimiro. Yakanaka trolling yemazuva ese ndiyo yaunoda!
Vabereki vakawanda vane chokwadi chokuti vanoda chete zvakanakisisa nokuda kwevana vavo. Asi dzimwe nguva kumwe kuratidzwa kwerudo nekutarisira kune mhedzisiro yakaipa. Uye kana isu pachedu tisingagoni kugamuchira mwana sezvaari, hazvibviri kuti iye pachake achakwanisa kuita izvi. Mushure mezvose, muhuduku, kuzvidzora kwake kunoumbwa nemafungiro evamwe: zvose izvo vanhu vakuru vanokosha vanotaura pamusoro pake zvinorangarirwa uye zvinova chikamu chekuzviremekedza kwake.
Ndinoda kutarisira kuti vabereki avo vakazviziva mumavhidhiyo vachafunga zvavanoda chaizvo kuvana vavo. Muhuduku, vazhinji vedu hatina kugamuchira kuongororwa kwakanaka kubva kune vanhu vakuru, asi ikozvino tine mukana wekudzivisa izvi muhukama hwedu nevana vedu. Hongu, tine zvakawanda zvehupenyu, isu takura, asi ngatitarisane nazvo: tichine zvakawanda zvekudzidza. Uye kana zvidzidzo zvenharo zvakadaro zvichiita kuti mumwe munhu afungezve maonero ake pakurera vana, zvakanaka.
* https://wciom.ru/analytical-reviews/analiticheskii-obzor/indeks-podrostkovoi-samoocenki-brenda-dove