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Manipulator maererano naEverett Shostrom imhando yakaipa yeurotic manipulator inotsanangurwa naE. Shostrom. Bhuku rakakurumbira rakanyorwa naE. Shostrom «The man-manipulator» rakanamirwa kune pfungwa ye «manipulator» zvinoramba zvichireva zvisina kunaka, izvo zvave zvechinyakare.
Kune mamwe marudzi emanipulators, ona general article Manipulator
Sekureva kwaShostrom, manipulator imhando yekunyengedza yemunhu anotsvaga kuve wake nekudzora vanhu muchimiro chemuchina manipulator. Ndiko kuti, kune avo vamwe vanhu vose havasi ivo pachavo, kwete vanhu, asi vatorwa, vasina hanya uye zvinhu zvisina upenyu, uye vanovabata sevasina kuvhurika, vasina kuvimba, semichina zvinhu. Munhu werudzi urwu anongotevera zvaanoda, zvinoshamisa kutaura pamusoro pezvido zvechigadzirwa chemagetsi kwaari, saka ichi chinhu chakaipa chemunhu.
Vanhu vakadaro vanonyengera vanodzora vamwe nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira kuratidza mamiriro avo akaoma. Semuenzaniso, aya ndiwo "Whiners", ndiko kuti, vanhu vari kuita zvakanaka, asi pavanosangana, vanogona kutaura kwemaawa akawanda pamusoro pekuti zvinhu zvose zvakashata sei kwavari uye kuti vakaneta sei pane zvose.
A manipulator anogona kusanzwisisa, kusaziva kuti ari manipulator kana chinhu chekushandisa.
Nzira yekuziva sei kana uku kuri kukanganisa kwemhuri kana mararamiro emugadziri? Kana iko kunyengedza kuri kwemamiriro ezvinhu uye kusingadzokororwe mune mamwe mamiriro, iko kushandiswa kwemazuva ese. Kana munhu achizvibata semanipulator nguva dzese, pasina kusiya basa iri, aya atova mararamiro.
Ngatitarisei izvi nemuenzaniso wemwana. Mwana anoda kuona imwe purogiramu kana katuni. Ndakabvunza, zvakanaka. Akachema - akaedza kupesvedzera, asi akatsauswa - akatsauswa, uku kutonga mukati memaitiro ezera. Uye kana iye pakarepo, nguva dzose uye achiramba achidzvova kusvikira vamuratidza katuni, achiomerera pakuchema nenzira yake pachake, uyu atova manipulator.
manipulative uye neurotic
Chimiro chekunyengedza chimiro cheneurotic. Chimwe chezvinodikanwa zveneurotic kudiwa kwekutonga, kuve nesimba. Karen Horney anotenda kuti chishuvo chekuda kutonga chinopa "kusakwanisa kwemunhu kugadzira hukama hwakaenzana. Kana akasave mutungamiri, anonzwa akarasika zvachose, anovimba uye asingabatsiri. Ane simba zvokuti zvinhu zvose zvinopfuura simba rake anozviona sokuzviisa pasi kwake.
Kutsoropodza kusarurama mumaonero aE. Shostrom
Kutevera E. Shostrom, manipulators anowanzonzi mamwe marudzi evanhu vasingatombokodzeri zvikwaniriso zvakadaro zvisina kunaka.
"Munhu anoshandisa vamwe vanhu kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvake mushandisi." Nhema neupenzi. Mudzidzi anoshandisa vadzidzisi pachinangwa chake chekuva munhu akadzidza - mudzidzi akanaka, kwete munyengeri akaipa.
"Uyo anoshandisa manipulator ari manipulator." Kuvhiringika nehupenzi. Munyengeri munhu anonyengedza, kwete munhu anonyengedza. Semuenzaniso, manipulations akanaka anogara achishandiswa mukukurukurirana pakati pevanoda, hama uye vanhu vane rudo. Positive manipulation chikamu chechisikigo chehukama hwavo hwepedyo hwepedyo, umo pasina munhu uye anonzwa sechinhu chekunze kana mechanical. Kunaka manipulations chiratidzo chekuitira hanya kune uyo wavanonangidzirwa, uye hazvigone kuve hwaro hwekusarudzika kwemunyori wavo. Tarisa →