Marc-Olivier Fogiel: "Ndiri baba vanoregera"

Wakambozeza kutaura nyaya yemhuri yako here?

Iri bhuku rinoshuma zvipupuriro kubva kuGPA. Handina kukwanisa kutaura nezvazvo ndisina kutaura nezvezvakaitika kwandiri. Ndingadai ndakazvida, asi zvingadai zvisina kunaka. Ndinoziva kuti kufumura mhuri yangu kunoita kuti vanzwe vakasununguka. Chibayiro chandabvuma kuita. Takataura zvakawanda pamusoro pazvo pamwe chete uye hapana chakaitwa pasina kubvumirana kwevanasikana vangu, ndinovaudza zvose.

Hautyi here maitiro eanti-GPAs?

Iwe unoziva, kunyangwe vamwe vanokakavadzana zvakanyanya paterevhizheni, nzanga pakupedzisira ine mutsa. Kuchikoro, mumugwagwa, vatengesi ... kubva panguva iyo vanhu pavanoona vasikana vaduku vakagadzikana, vanozviratidza kuva vane mutsa. Hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva hunofadza banal!

Makaudza vanasikana venyu sei nyaya yavo?

Handizivi kuti vaizvinzwisisa pazera ripi, asi ndanga ndichivaudza nezvazvo kubva pakuzvarwa. Pavakangosara nemaminitsi mashoma, ndakavatsanangurira kuti vakasvika mumhuri ine vana baba vaviri, uye kuti Michelle, akanga avabvumira kuti vazvarwe, akanga agamuchira kamhodzi kababa kuti akure. mudumbu make. Zvishoma nezvishoma, takagadzirisa mazwi edu maererano nezera ravo, uye nhasi, inyaya yavo, vanotaura nezvazvo nyore nyore.

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Uri baba vakaita sei?

Ini, ndiri baba vanoregera, ukuwo François anoisa mitemo. Zvisinei, ndingadai ndakafungidzira zvakapesana ... ndiri mukuru kwaari uye pamusoro pezvose,

anotonhorera kupfuura ini muhupenyu. Asi pakupedzisira, ini ndini ndinonyaradza uye iye anoseta mafuremu. Vhiki rino, somuenzaniso, ndiri pazororo ndiri ndoga nevasikana, uye pane nyonganyonga!

Ko Michelle, anotsiva, anorevei kumhuri yako?

KuUnited States, kana mumwe mukadzi akakuberekera anosarudza iwe, tinosangana nevana vavo, murume wavo… Tinopedza nguva yakawanda tiri pamwe chete uye hukama hwakasimba hunogadzirwa. Havagoni kuparadzaniswa mushure mekuberekwa kwemwana, pane zvinopesana, vanova vakasimba. Saka gore rega rega mushure meKisimusi, tinorenda imba uye tose tinoungana kuti tipedze mazuva mashoma tiriko. Michelle ishamwari yedu yechokwadi, uye anodada kutibatsira kutanga mhuri. Ndingati iye pakupedzisira ane zvakawanda zvehukama hwepfungwa nesu pane nevasikana.

Ndedzipi tsika dzaunoda kupfuudza kuvanasikana vako?

Ndinoedza kushandisa dzidzo ine hanya, asi kwete kuregeredza. Ndakazvipira kuvandudza divi ravo reunyanzvi, randakanga ndisina. Kwete kuona zvese nenzira yakaenzana. Vakaita kindergarten yavo muchikoro cheMontessori uko, kunyange kana pane mitemo, tinoteererawo zvakawanda kumwana uye kusika kwake. Mudiki aitawo pfungwa yekudhirowa, calligraphy ... Hapana chinhu muhupenyu hwangu chinondiita kuti ndidada kupfuura vanasikana vangu!

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akawanda evamwe vakaroorana pa surrogacy.

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