Vamwene nemuroora: kutaurirana kwakaoma
Pakati penyu, pane kusanzwisisana zvisingadzivisiki, inyaya yechizvarwa. Muzuva rake, tairega vacheche vachichema, tinovaisa padumbu ravo, taivadyisa panguva dzakatarwa. Dzimwe nguva, mamwe maitiro… Usapindire mukukakavadzana, unza mazano enyanzvi. Muudze kuti: "Chiremba wangu wevana akandiraira kuti ...". Tsika dzemhuri netsika zvinogonawo kukupikisa: Madame Durand vanotsinhira kuti hapana pavadiki Durands akamboda kunyaradza ... Tora nekuseka: Durand mudiki wako ari kukuedza kuzviitiko zvitsva, ipiyona!
Pakati penyu, pamusoro pazvose, pane murume, mwanakomana wake, asingachagari naye asi newe. Nyangwe asiri iye werudzi rwehuku dzekuramwa, pachiri nebackground yegodo maari. Nokudaro, ane simba kupfuura iye, akaodzwa mwoyo: angadai akakuda iwe zvakanyanya pakuravira kwake, angadai akada kukwana kumwanakomana wake.
Kudivi rako. Iwe unoshamisika kuti rudo rwehupenyu hwako hunogona sei kumufadza zvakadaro, usingaone kukanganisa kwake, hutsinye hwake, uye "kupfuudza" zvakanyanya kwaari, nepo newe anogona kunge asingachinji.
Zvisinei, muri vakadzi vaviri, amai vaviri, chisungo ichi chinogona kukuswededza pedyo. Kana kutaurirana kusiri kushanda, edza kusangana naye ega kwekudya kwemasikati kwaunogona kutaura pakati pevakadzi uye kuwana, pamwe, pfungwa dzinowanzozivikanwa.
Isai mitemo yekuremekedzana
Ita mitemo nemumwe wako. Zvingava zvinonyadzisa kuti vamwene vave nyaya yekunetsana pakati penyu. Rangarira kuti ndimai vake. Taura nezvazvo dambudziko risati rauya.
Usaoremer. Remekedza kuvanzika kwemhuri yako: usabvume kuti asvika zvisingatarisirwi kana kuti anozvikoka kuzodya, uye kunyanya kwete nenharembozha yemwanakomana wake. Nokuda kworutivi rwako, gamuchira chisvusvuro panzvimbo yake nguva nenguva (kwete hazvo musi weSvondo woga woga!) Uye apo unenge uripo, batira pamwe. Muratidze kuti ndiye shefu mumba make uye murumbidze.
Pane rimwe divi, usabvuma kuti anoshoropodza zvaunoita pamberi pevana. Zvinofanira kunyatsojeka: kana aine chimwe chinhu chekutaura, hachifanirwe kunge chiri pamberi pavo.
Mupei nzvimbo yake sambuya
Ndiye mbuya vemwana wako, anomiririra midzi yake, zvakakosha kuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka naye. Zviri nyore kukwanisa kuvimba nerubatsiro rwake nguva nenguva, funga nezvazvo, zvichakubatsira iwe kushivirira zvikanganiso zvake zvishoma.
Ipa mwana wako nguva nenguva. Kana achifanira kuichengeta, ita kuti azive maitiro ake, asi usamupa boka remazano, vimba naye. Usamutarisire. Anogona kuita zvakasiyana newe pasina kushungurudza mwana wako.
Teerera mazano ake, kunyangwe iwe uchivatonga verimwe zera, kana kusatombogadziriswa: haufanirwe kuvatevera. Usamudzivisa, achakuchengetera chigumbu. Anoda kuita zvakanaka uye pamwe mamwe emazano ake anogamuchirwa.