Mhosva dzinoparwa nemhondi dzinotyisa mamiriyoni evanhu. Nyanzvi yepfungwa Katherine Ramsland akaedza kutsvaga kuti vanaamai vevapari vemhosva vanonzwa sei nezvemhosva idzi.
Vabereki vemhondi vane maonero akasiyana pane zvakaitwa nevana vavo. Vazhinji vavo vanotya: havanzwisisi kuti mwana wavo angashanduka sei kuita chikara. Asi vamwe vanoramba chokwadi uye vanodzivirira vana kusvika kumagumo.
Muna 2013, Joanna Dennehy akauraya varume vatatu uye akaedza vamwe vaviri. Mushure mekusungwa kwake, akareurura kuti akapara mhosva idzi kuitira kuti "aone kana aive nehushingi hwekuzviita." Mune iyo selfie nemitumbi yevakakuvadzwa, Joanna airatidzika kufara chose.
Vabereki vaDennehy vakaramba vakanyarara kwemakore akati wandei, kudzamara amai vake Kathleen vasarudza kubudira pachena kuvatori venhau kuti: “Akauraya vanhu, uye kwandiri haasisipo. Uyu haasi Joe wangu." Mukurangarira amai vake, akaramba ari musikana ane hunhu, aifara uye anonzwira tsitsi. Musikana akanaka uyu akachinja zvakanyanya muhuduku hwake paakatanga kufambidzana nemurume aive akura zvakanyanya. Zvisinei, Kathleen aisatombofunga kuti mwanasikana wake aizova mhondi. “Nyika ichava yakakotsekana kana Joanna asiri mairi,” akabvuma kudaro.
“Ted Bundy haana kumbouraya vakadzi nevana. Kutenda kwedu mukusava nemhosva kwaTad hakuperi uye kucharamba kwakadaro,” Louise Bundy akaudza News Tribune, pasinei nokuti mwanakomana wake akanga atobvuma kuponda kaviri. Louise akaudza vatori venhau kuti Ted wake aive "mwanakomana akanakisa pasirese, akakomba, ane mutoro uye aifarira kwazvo hama nehanzvadzi."
Sekureva kwaamai, ivo vakabatwa pachavo ndivo vane mhosva: vakaseka mwanakomana wavo, asi ane hanya
Louise akabvuma kuti mwanakomana wake aive mhondi mushure mekunge abvumidzwa kuteerera tepi yekureurura kwake, asi kunyangwe zvakadaro haana kumuramba. Pashure pokunge mwanakomana wake atongerwa rufu, Louise akavimbisa kuti aizo“ramba ari mwanakomana wake waaida nokusingaperi.”
Akasungwa gore rapera, Todd Kolchepp akakumbira kuona amai vake asati asaina kureurura. Akamukumbira ruregerero uye akamuregerera "mudiwa Todd, akanga akachenjera uye ane mutsa uye ane rupo".
Sekureva kwaamai, ivo vakabatwa pachavo ndivo vane mhosva: vakaseka mwanakomana wavo, asi ane hanya. Anenge akanganwa kuti akanga ambomutyisidzirawo kuti aizomuuraya. Amai vaColhepp vanoramba kudaidza foshoro. Anodzokorora kuti zvese zvakaitika nekuda kwehasha uye hasha, uye haatore mwanakomana wake semhondi, zvisinei nekuti mhondi nomwe dzakatoratidzwa uye mamwe akati wandei ari kuferefetwa.
Vabereki vakawanda vanoedza kutsvaka chikonzero nei vana vavo vave zvikara. Amai veKansas serial killer Dennis Rader, anga asati abatwa mumakore anopfuura makumi matatu, haakwanise kurangarira chero chinhu chakajairika kubva paudiki hwake.
Vabereki kazhinji havaoni zvinoonekwa nevokunze. Seri muurayi Jeffrey Dahmer aiva mwanawo zvake, kana kuti amai vake vanoti. Asi vadzidzisi vaimuona akanyanya kunyara uye aisafara. Amai vacho vanoramba izvi uye vanoti Geoffrey akanga asingafariri zvechikoro, uye kumba aisaratidza kudzvinyirirwa uye kunyara zvachose.
Vamwe amai vainzwa kuti pane chakaipa pamwana, asi vaishaya kuti voita sei
Vamwe vanaamai, pane kudaro, vakafunga kuti chimwe chinhu chakanga chisina kunaka pamwana, asi vasingazivi zvokuita. VaDylan Roof, avo nguva pfupi yadarika vakatongerwa rufu nemhosva yekuponda vanhu vapfumbamwe muchechi yeMethodist kuSouth Carolina, vagara vakashatirwa nemapepanhau ari kudivi rimwe chete achiburitsa nyaya dzerusarura.
Apo amai vaDylan, Amy, vakaziva nezvechiitiko chacho, vakafenda. Mushure mekunge apora, akaratidza vaongorori kamera yemwanakomana wavo. Memory card yaive nemifananidzo yakawanda yaDylan nezvombo uye nemureza weConfederate. Mumatare edzimhosva, amai vacho vakakumbira ruregerero pamusana pokusadzivirira mhosva yacho.
Vamwe vanamai vanotoendesa mhondi dzevana kumapurisa. Geoffrey Knobble paakaratidza amai vake vhidhiyo yekupondwa kwemurume asina kupfeka, haana kuda kutenda maziso ake. Asi achiona kuti mwanakomana wake akanga apara mhosva uye haana kumbodemba chiito chake, akabatsira mapurisa kuwana ndokusunga Jeffrey uye akatomupupurira.
Zvinogoneka kuti kuita kwevabereki kunhau yekuti mwana wavo chikara kunoenderana netsika dzemhuri uye kuti hukama hwepedyo hwevabereki nevana hwaive hwepedyo sei. Uye iyi inyaya inonakidza uye yakakura kwazvo yekutsvagisa.
Nezve Munyori: Katherine Ramsland purofesa wepfungwa paDeSalce University muPennsylvania.