Kukurukurirana kusingagumi
Mwana wako agara achida kutaura, kunyange mudiki. Asi kubvira paakanga aine makore mana, hunhu uhu hwakazvisimbisa uye anogara aine chekutaura kana kubvunza. Ari munzira kuenda kumba, anoongorora zuva rake rechikoro, anotaura nezvemotokari, imbwa yomuvakidzani, shangu dzevasikana vake, bhasikoro rake, katsi pamadziro, achigomera hanzvadzi yake yaikunda. pikicha yake… Kumba nekuchikoro, chip yako haimbomira! Kusvika pakuti, aneta nekutaura kwakawanda, unopedzisira usingamuteereri, uye hanzvadzi yake, haigoni kutaura. Maererano nachiremba wepfungwa, Stephan Valentin *: “Mwana uyu zvechokwadi anofanira kutaura zviri kuitika kwaari mukati mezuva, uye zvinokosha kumuteerera. Asi zvakakoshawo kumuratidza kuti haafanire kungoita kuti vabereki vake vamuteerere. Ndezvekudzidzisa mwana wako mitemo yekutaurirana uye yehupenyu hwemagariro: kuremekedza nguva yekutaura yemunhu wese. “
Nzwisisa zvaunoda
Kuti unzwisise zvikonzero zveizvi, unofanirwa kuterera kune izvo mwana ari kutaura uye kuti anozviita sei. Kutaura kunogona, kutaura zvazviri, kuvhara kunetseka. “Paanotaura anovhunduka here? Uncomfortable ? Anoshandisa toni ipi? Manzwiro api anofambidzana nehurukuro dzake? Aya maratidziro akakosha kuona kana chiri chishuwo chakasimba chekuzvitaura, kuda kwehupenyu, kana kunetseka kusinganzwisisike, ”anodaro chiremba wepfungwa. Uye kana tikaona kunetseka nemashoko ake, tinoedza kunzwisisa zvinomushungurudza uye tinomusimbisa.
Chido chekutariswa?
Kukurukurirana kunogonawo kukonzerwa nechishuvo chetariro. “Maitiro anovhiringa vamwe anogona kuva nzira yekukwevera vanhu pfungwa kwauri. Kunyangwe kana mwana akatsiurwa, akakwanisa kufarira munhu mukuru maari, "inotsanangura Stephan Valentin. Isu tinozoedza kumupa nguva yakawanda-on-one. Chero chingava chikonzero chekurukurirano, inogona kukuvadza mwana. Haana kunyanya kuisa pfungwa mukirasi, vaanodzidza navo vari panjodzi yekumuisa parutivi, mudzidzisi achimuranga ... Nokudaro kudikanwa kwekumubatsira kurongedza kutaura kwake nekuisa miganhu inosimbisa. Anobva aziva paachabvumirwa kutaura uye kuti otora sei chikamu mukurukurirano.
Kufambisa kufamba kwemazwi ake
Zviri kwatiri kumudzidzisa kuti ataure asingadimburiri vamwe, kuteerera. Nekuda kweizvozvo, tinogona kumupa mitambo yebhodhi inomukurudzira kuti afunge nezvemunhu wese, uye kumirira nguva yake. Mitambo yemitambo kana kuti nhandare yemitambo ichamubatsirawo kushanda nesimba uye kutaura zvaanofunga. Chenjerera kuti urege kuikurudzira zvakanyanya. “Kubhowekana kunogona kuve kwakanaka nekuti mwana anozoona adzikama pamberi pake. Achange asinganyanyi kufara, izvo zvinogona kuita pesvedzero pane ichi chishuwo chisingaperi chekutaura, ”anodaro chiremba wepfungwa.
Pakupedzisira, tinogadza nguva inokosha apo mwana anogona kutaura nesu uye kwatichavapo kuti timuteerere. Hurukuro yacho inobva yashaya makakatanwa.
Munyori: Dorothee Blancheton
* Stephan Valentin ndiye munyori mabasa mazhinji, kusanganisira "Tichagara tiripo nokuda kwako", Pfefferkorn ed.
Bhuku rekumubatsira…
"Ndiri kunyanya kutaura", coll. Lulu, ed. Bayard Youth.
Lulu anogara aine zvaanoda kutaura zvekuti haatereri vamwe! Asi rimwe zuva, anoona kuti hapana anomuteerera zvakare… heino bhuku re“vakuru” (kubva pamakore matanhatu) rekuverenga pamwe chete manheru!