Parental nursery: nzvimbo inochengeterwa vabereki

Kubatanidzwa kukuru kwevabereki kunoita kuti ive rudzi runokosha rwekuchengeta vana. Asi kana izvi zvimiro zvekubatanidza zvinosanganisira mhuri zvakanyanya, zviri pachena kuti vanoshandisa Nyanzvi, pindura zvakafanana kuchengetedza mitemo uye zvisungo zvakafanana zvemutemo semamwe masangano anotambira.

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Pakireshi yePetits Lardons, muParis, mangwanani eChishanu ichi, vana vanosvika vari mudropper uye gare gare kupfuura nguva dzose. Ivo vakanyatsosvinura. Kuvabereki, inyaya yakasiyana. Zvinofanira kutaurwa kuti zuva rakapfuura rakaitika mwedzi nemwedzi bhodhi revatungamiri vechimiro. Kamwechete, haana kuenderera mberi zvachose, asi zvaizova zvinonyadzisa kubva pasina kugovera chinwiwa pane cafe yeko. Saka vamwe vane kakutema nemusoro. Mukireshi yevabereki, zviri pachena, mamiriro ekunze akanyanya kukosha. Pakati pevabereki nenyanzvi, kuzivana kunodiwa. Mhuri dzakafanana, govana makodhi etsika akafanana, nyemwerera nezvezvinhu zvakafanana. Wese munhu ane manzwiro ekutora chikamu mukusangana kwakaungana. Nenzwi rekuseka, baba vanosiya vabereki vashoma varipo ne "Zvakanaka, vagari vemo, ini ndakusiyai". Imwezve yasara kuti ikurukurwe, zviri pachena kuti ndinofara kuvapo. Tsanangudzo inoshamisa: parizvino, vana baba chete ndivo vakayambuka chikumbaridzo.

Chii chinonzi kireshi yemhuri? Basa rayo nderei?

Nzvimbo dzevabereki dzakagadzirwa pakutanga kwemaXNUMXs, paine shuviro yekuunza pamwechete nyanzvi uye vabereki vasvotwa nekunzwa vasingakodzeri. Izvi zvivako zvino zvinoteerera maitiro akafanana ekushanda kupfuura chero kireshi yekanzuru, ingave nzvimbo, mutero (zvichifambira mberi maererano nehuwandu hwemhuri), quotas dzevashandi vanokwanisa kana chikafu. Mazuva akafamba mumwe nemumwe abika chikafu chake. Kudya kunofanirwa kugadzirirwa panzvimbo, maererano nenzira dzakajeka uye mukicheni yakakodzera.

Nhengo dzevabereki dzakaiswa mumubatanidzwa, unotora uye unobhadhara maneja nevashandi.

Ndeipi chaiyo yenzvimbo yevabereki mukireshi yevabereki?

Hunhu hwema nursery aya hunobva pamari inodiwa kubva kuvabereki. Mhuri imwe neimwe inofanira kuva nechokwadi chokuti inogara nokusingaperi hafu yezuva pavhiki mukuonana nevana uye anofanira kutora chigaro che "komisheni" maererano nehunyanzvi hwake, zvishuwo kana zvakasara. Vamwe vachazofanirwa kubata zvinhu zvekutenga, nepo vamwe vachizotarisira iyo DIY. Kune nyanzvi mubvunzo wekutarisira, kuziva-sei, maitiro, ekubhadhara vabereki mabasa ekutonga uye manejimendi. “Izvi zvimhingamipinyi chaizvo zvisingagoneki kumunhu wose,” anodaro Daniel Lefèvre, mudzidzisi wevana vadiki uye maneja wenyanzvi weLes Petits Lardons. Pakati pemhuri dzedu, tine vashandi vekuvaraidza nguva nenguva vanokwanisa kugadzirisa hurongwa hwavo, vadzidzisi varipo neChitatu kana vabereki vanopa RTT yavo kukireshi. Kana vangotenga mumusimboti, ivo vanowanzofara. Uye pavanotisiya vachienda kukireshi, vanowanzoodzwa mwoyo kuti havasisina nzvimbo chaiyo. “

Ndeapi mabhenefiti enzvimbo inoshamwaridzana yevabereki?

Ichi chiwanikwa chinobvumirana. Vabereki vose ava vanoonga kuva nekutaura, kutora chikamu muhupenyu hwemwana wavo nenharaunda. Marc, baba vaMaël uye vari pabasa Chishanu chino, vanotivimbisa kuti: “Tinotora chikamu mukuita sarudzo, tinoziva zvese zvine chekuita nemwana wedu. Kucreche yemanispain yainge yakanaka chaizvo, takangosiya mwana wedu kuseni tichimuvharira mhepo ndokumutora manheru tikaziva kuti akanga adya zvakanaka uye akarara zvakanaka. Zvakaperera ipapo. Richard ave kutofamba. “Hatizove nerudzi rwakafanana rwekutarisira uye izvo zvinobaya mwoyo yedu. Taive pano pamba, nyanzvi dzichinyatsotiteerera. Ndaiva mubati wehomwe musangano, iro rinorema zvikuru. Asi zvaifadzawo nekuti ndaiitira mwana wangu. ”

Marc naAurélie, vabereki vaviri vari pabasa mukati mehafu yezuva, vachapedza mangwanani avo vachitamba nevana varipo, kuve nechokwadi chekutariswa kwevana vakura uye kugovera mabasa epamba. “Waburuka here, Marc? Pane basa here? “” Ndaisa michina yekuwachisa miviri munzira uye pane wacha wakawanda wekupeta. “

Kumuka pakati pemapurojekiti

Daniel, maneja, anopa Aurélie kuti auye kuzosimbisa pane psychomotricity kosi yakaiswa nemumwe wevabatsiri vevana vechikamu chikuru. Vabereki havambofi vakatarisira vacheche, izvo zvese zvinoramba zviri pasi pebasa renyanzvi. Havanawo kutora vana kuti varare, havapi zvinodhaka, havapi rubatsiro, kunze kwevana vavo pachavo. Ivo, zvisinei, vanokurudzirwa zvakanyanya kuverenga kana kutungamirira zviitiko zvemaoko. “Pano, tine chikonzero chakanaka chekuita zvinhu zvinofadza zvakadai sekubata plasticine kwemaawa! », Anofara Aurélie paanenge achiedza kutama zvishoma kubva kumwanasikana wake Fanny uyo asingaregi kubva kune imwe chete. “Chinetso chevabereki, pakutanga, munzira ipi neipi, ndechokutarisira nguva yavo yokuvapo pakati pomwana wavo neyevamwe, anobvunza kudaro Daniel. Ivo vanofanirwa kuchengeta vadiki vakati wandei, vachichengetedza nguva chaiyo yehukama nemwana wavo mudiki kuti anzwisise kureba. Vamwe vanhu dzimwe nguva vanonetseka nezvemaitiro emudiki wavo. Vanofanira kunyaradzwa nokuvayeuchidza kuti kana vasipo, mwana wavo haana kufanana zvachose. »Mutambo wakanaka.

Zvakawanda kupfuura rudzi rwekuchengeta vana

Masikati, Marc naAurélie vakasiya vamwe vanaamai vaviri. Marjorie, amai vaMicha, vanoita sevakasununguka zvikuru pane vana vevamwe vanhu. Zvakajairika, ari mugore rake rechishanu rekireshi yevabereki. “Hakusi nzira yokuchengeta vana chete, kuzvipira kwokushamwaridzana. Uye kune vamwe, ingangoita chikamu chenguva. Unofanira kunyatsochida. Kwandiri, on-call services nevana zvagara zviri decompression chamber, mweya wekufema. “ Kudivi rehunyanzvi, kukurudzira kunofanirawo kuvepo. Daniel anovimbisa kuti, “Kugamuchira vabereki ibasa chairo kwatiri. Asi kune vamwe, zvinogona kuva zvinonyadzisa. Nokuti unofanira kuva nechokwadi nezvaunotaura. Panyaya yekuchengeta vana, tinowanzo tora zvatinowana, izvo zviripo. Asi mukireshi yevabereki, vabereki, sevashandi, havatombovapo nemukana.

Kreche yevabereki inoita marii?

Mutengo wevabereki vevana unosiyana. Chokwadi, mutengo uchaenderana nezvakati wandei zvakaita semutengo wekurenda wenzvimbo yekireshi, kana zvikwaniriso zvevanhu vakasevenzeswa, kana kunyange mari yako. Iko hakuna mutengo chaiwo, kusiyana nemanisipala nurseries. Tsvaga zvimwe kubva kukireshi yevabereki inokufarira iwe. 

Nzira yekuvhura sei kireshi yevabereki?

Iwe unokurudzirwa uye unoda kuvhura nzvimbo yekurera vana iwe pachako? Iwe uchafanirwa kupfuura nenhamba nhanho dzekutonga kuti usvike ikoko. Chokutanga pane zvose, unofanira kuwana vamwe vabereki vakakurudzirwa uye vakawana mutemo wemubatanidzwa 1901 (nemutungamiri, munyori uye mubati wehomwe). Ipapo, iwe uchafanirwa kushanda pamwe chete neCaisse d'Allocations Familiale (CAF) iyo ichakubatsira iwe kumisikidza chirongwa chako chedzidzo uye nekukutungamirira kune rubatsiro runobvira. Chekupedzisira, Dziviriro yaMai neMwana inozoda kusimbisa kuvhurwa kwekireshi zvinoenderana nemaitiro akasiyana (utsanana, nzvimbo, kugona kugamuchira, vashandi, nezvimwewo).