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Hungwaru hwekugadzira uye hunoshanda hwemwana asati azvarwa
Nyanzvi yekusaziva, Monique de Kermadec, anoyeuka musumo yebhuku rake kuti pfungwa yeIQ ichiri kukakavara zvakanyanya nhasi. Hungwaru hwemwana haungori pamusoro pehunyanzvi hwekuziva. Kukura kwake kwemanzwiro uye hukama chinhu chakakosha pakudzikama kwake. Iyo psychologist zvakare inosimbirira pane rakakura basa rekugadzira uye hungwaru hunoshanda. Zvinhu zvose izvi zvinofanira kurangarirwa nokuda kwomukuru anokura anomiririrwa nomwana asati akura.
Ungwaru hwekugadzira uye hunoshanda
Monique de Kermadec anotsanangura kukosha kwehungwaru hwekugadzira, izvo zvaizobvumira vana vasati vaziva kuti vabude mumaitiro akajairwa apo hunyanzvi hwekuita uye hwehungwaru hwaizonyanya kukosheswa. Nyanzvi yepfungwa yeAmerica Robert Sternberg yakatsanangura hungwaru uhwu se "Kugona kubata nekubudirira nemamiriro matsva uye asina kujairika, zvichibva paunyanzvi huripo uye ruzivo". Mune mamwe mazwi, iko kugona kukudziridza yakawedzera intuitive kushoma hungwaru. Kune izvi kunowedzerwa imwe nzira yehungwaru, iyo yaachada muhupenyu hwake hwevanhu vakuru: hungwaru hunoshanda. Monique de Kermadec anotsanangura kuti "zvinoenderana nekuita, kuziva-maitiro uye kukwanisa kuzviriritira kana watarisana nemamiriro matsva". Mwana anofanira kusanganisa kutsetseka kwepfungwa, matekiniki, hunyanzvi uye ruzivo. Iyi fomu yehungwaru hunoshanda inofanira kubvumira mwana asati azvarwa kuti aenderane nenyika chaiyo uye yemazuva ano, kunyanya nekutumirwa kwehunyanzvi hutsva. "Zvakakosha kukurudzira maitiro maviri aya ehuchenjeri muvana vasati vasvika", inotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi. Inoita nhevedzano yemazano ekukurudzira nekuvandudza hunyanzvi uhu muvana ava, sekukosha kwekutamba, mutauro, nekutsinhana kwekutamba kunobvumira vana kuratidza hunyanzvi hwavo nekufungidzira.
Gadzira njere dzako dzehukama
"Kugadzirira mwana wako asati azvarwa kuti abudirire zvinorevawo kumubatsira kuvaka hukama nevaaigara navo, vakoma nevanin'ina vake, vadzidzisi vake nevabereki vake", dMonique de Kermadec zvinyorwa mubhuku rake. Hungwaru hwemagariro akakosha sehunyanzvi hwenjere. Nekuti kazhinji, mukusakwana, tinoona vana vachinetseka kugadzira hukama hwemagariro. Pane imwe gap nevamwe vana. Mwana asati azvarwa haatombonzwisisi kunonoka semuenzaniso, anotanga kushivirira, anotsvaga mhinduro dzinokurumidza uye dzakaoma, anoita zvisingaite. Nekuda kwavo, makomuredhi anogona kududzira izvi sehumwe hutsinye kana kunyange kuvengana. Vane zvipo vanowanzova vanyajambwa vekuparadzaniswa nevamwe kuchikoro, uye nekuomerwa nekugara munharaunda uye mukubatanidza zvese mumhuri nemuchikoro. ” Dambudziko rose remwana asati azvarwa nderekuwana nzvimbo yake pakati pevezera rake. », Anotsanangura Monique de Kermadec. Imwe yemakiyi kuita kuti vabereki vanzwisise kuti ivo vanofanirwa kudzidzisa mwana wavo wekutanga vachiri kukura, panguva imwe chete, huchenjeri hwavo hwepfungwa, hukama nevamwe vane maitiro ekunzwira tsitsi kushamwari, kuita shamwari uye kwavari. kuchengeta, kubata uye kutsanangura manzwiro uye mitemo inoshanda vamwe, nzanga. "Kushamwaridzana kunoreva kukudziridza kugona kwako kuzviratidza, kufunga nezvezvinodiwa nevamwe", inotsanangura nyanzvi yepfungwa.
Mazano kuvabereki
Monique de Kermadec anotsanangura kuti, “Vabereki ndivo vanonyanya kutsigira mwana asati azvarwa. Anosimbirira panyaya yekuti vane basa rakakosha rekuita nemwana wavo ane chipo. Zvinotoshamisa ndezvokuti, "kubudirira muchikoro kwemwana asati azvarwa kunogona kuratidza kuti kwakaoma kupfuura kwevamwe vana", anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yepfungwa. Vana precocious vane utera uhwu uye kuomerwa nekujairana nenyika chaiyo yakavatenderedza. Anoyambirawo vabereki nezvekusakanda mapfumo pasi mumuedzo wekudyara zvakanyanyisa mwana wavo ane chipo, kuda kukwana uye kumanikidzwa kwakasimba kwedzidzo kubva kwaari. Pakupedzisira, Monique de Kermadec anopedzisa nezvekukosha "kwekutamba nemwana wake, kugadzirisa kuwirirana uye kumwe kureruka kwekugara pamwe chete. Kufamba musango, kuverenga nyaya kana ngano inguva dzakareruka dzemhuri, asi kufarirwa zvakanyanya nevana vekare sevamwe ”.