Kubata pamuviri pa20, 30 kana 40: hapana zera rakanaka rekuva vabereki
Pachiitiko cheshanu Vabereki vanokakavadzana pamusoro pedingindira rinoti “Kubata pamuviri pamakore makumi maviri, makumi matatu kana makumi mana: pane zera rakanaka rekuva vabereki? Takabvunza vanaamai pamaforamu edu kana vachifunga kuti kune zera rakanaka rekuita mwana. Mhinduro yavo: kwete!
"Pamakore makumi maviri, idiki kwazvo, pamakumi matatu, haisi nguva nekuti uri kutanga muhupenyu hwehunyanzvi, pamakumi mana, nguva yaenda ... tinozvinzwa, patinenge tichida. Saka, kune vamwe idiki kwazvo (ini, kubvira pazera re20, ndaida vana, uye ndaiziva kuti ndaida ivo nekukurumidza), kune vamwe gare gare. Hazvina basa! Chinongonetsa iwachi yedu yebhayoloji nekuti dzimwe nguva, nekumirira, yave kunonoka. ” Rav 511
“Ndingadai ndakada kuita amai ndine makore 24 asi mamiriro ezvinhu haana kutendera. Monsieur akanga asati agadzirira. Ini pachangu, ndinofunga kuti hakuna zera rakakodzera. Izvo zvinoenderana nenhoroondo yeumwe neumwe uye mahormone anobata. Uye kana tikazova nevana vane utano hwakanaka gare gare, zviri nani zvikuru! Isu tinorarama kwenguva refu, tinogara muchimiro kwenguva refu zvakare. ” Kiti 2012
“Handifungi kuti pane zera rekuita amai. Iniwo handitendi “mukuva wakagadzirira”. Unoenda sei pamusoro pekugadzirira kusazivikanwa kwemimba uye mwana? Tinoda, asi hatigoni kuva “vakagadzirira” nokuti hatizivi pachine nguva mberi kuti zvinhu zvose zvichafamba sei. Ndakaita rombo rakanaka rekukwanisa kuona "zvakanyanya" zviviri: amai vangu vaive nemunin'ina wangu aine makore makumi matatu nemasere uye munin'ina wangu aive nemwanasikana wake wekutanga aine makore gumi nemashanu (ave nemakore makumi maviri zvino uye ari kutarisira mwana wechipiri munaGunyana). Mumwe aifanira "kuva muduku" uye mumwe aifanira "kukura". Hanzvadzi yangu yakaomeswa, amai vangu vapfaviswa… Ndinovayemura vese (…). Uye shure kwezvose, zera inongova nhamba! Hatina basa nazvo. ” Gigitte13
Tora chikamu munharo yeVabereki yechishanu! NeChipiri Chivabvu 3, muParis, chinyorwa chechishanu che " Vabereki vanoitisana nharo "Nedingindira:" Kubata pamuviri pa20, 30 kana 40: pane zera rakanaka rekuva vabereki? “. Kuti tikurukure newe nyaya iyi, takakoka: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, uye Mudzidzisi. Michel Tournaire, obstetrician-gynecologist uye aimbova mutariri wechipatara cheSaint-Vincent de Paul muParis. Astrid Veillon, mai vamwari vedu vakashinga, vachataura zvavo. Kana uchida kupinda mumusangano uyu, nyoresa nekudzvanya pano: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |