Nguva yehucheche inotangira pakuzvarwa kusvika pagore. Chii chekudzidzisa panguva ino?
Vana vanofanira kudzidziswa kushandisa vabereki vavo zvakanaka.
Mamiriro ezvinhu: Christoph, ane mwedzi misere, akayamwa zvakakwana. Achangobva kumera mazino ake ekutanga. Pakarepo akatanga kuruma pachipfuva chaamai vake. Basa - Christophe anoda kudzidziswa mutemo: "Unofanira kungwarira mazino ako paunenge uchiyamwisa."
Amai vake vanoshandisa nguva yekupera: nemashoko "Zvairwadza chaizvo!" anoiisa pameti yekutamba. Uye anotendeuka kweminiti kana maviri, achifuratira ari kuchema Christophe. Pakupera kwenguva ino, anoitora ndokuti: "Tichaedza zvakare, asi chenjera nemeno ako!" Iye zvino Christophe anonwa nokungwarira.
Kana akaruma zvakare, amai vachakurumidza kumuisa pamubhedha zvakare uye kumusiya asina kutarisirwa, uye kumirira 1-2 maminetsi kuti abatanidze pazamu zvakare.
Mumwe muenzaniso:
- Nyaya yaPauro, mwedzi misere, unotoiziva kubva pachitsauko chekutanga. Akanga asingafari nguva dzose, achichema kwemaawa akawanda pazuva, pasinei nokuti amai vake vaigara vachimuvaraidza nezvinhu zvitsva zvinongobatsira kwenguva pfupi.
Ndakakurumidza kubvumirana nevabereki vangu kuti Paul aifanira kudzidza mutemo mumwe mutsva: “Ndinofanira kuzvivaraidza panguva imwe chete mazuva ose. Amai vari kuita zvinhu zvavo panguva iyi. Aizoidzidza sei? Akanga asati asvitsa gore. Iwe haugone kungomupinza mukamuri woti: "Zvino tamba wega."
Mushure mekudya kwekudya kwemangwanani, sekutonga, aive mune yakanakisa mood. Saka Amai vakasarudza kusarudza nguva iyi kuchenesa kicheni. Mushure mekugadzika Paul pasi ndokumupa midziyo yekubikira, akagara pasi akamutarisa ndokuti. "Zvino ndinofanira kuchenesa kicheni". Kwemaminitsi gumi akatevera, akaita basa rake rechikoro. Pauro, kunyange zvazvo akanga ari pedyo, akanga asiri musimboti wengwariro.
Sezvaitarisirwa, maminetsi mashomanene gare gare midziyo yokubikira yakakandwa mukona, uye Paul, achichema, akarembera pamakumbo aamai vake ndokukumbira kubatwa. Aive ajaira kuti zvishuwo zvake zvese zvakabva zvazadziswa. Zvino chimwe chinhu chakaitika chaakanga asingatarisiri zvachose. Amai vakamutora ndokumuisazve mberi zvishoma pasi nemashoko okuti: "Ndinoda kuchenesa kicheni". Pauro, chokwadika, akatsamwa. Akakwidza izwi remhere ndokukambaira achienda kutsoka dzaamai vake. Amai vakadzokorora chinhu chimwe chete: vakamutora uye vakamuisa zvakare zvishoma pasi nemashoko: “Ndiri kuda kuchenesa kicheni mwanangu. Mushure mezvo, ndichatamba newe zvakare » (yakaputsika rekodhi).
Zvese izvi zvakaitika zvakare.
Nguva yakatevera, sezvakabvumiranwa, akaenda mberi zvishoma. Akaisa Pauro munhandare, akamira pedyo nepaaiona. Amai vakaramba vachitsvaira, pasinei nokuti kuchema kwavo kwakavapengesa. Ese 2-3 maminetsi akatendeukira kwaari ndokuti: “Chokutanga ndinoda kuchenesa kicheni, ndozotamba newe zvakare. Mushure memaminitsi gumi, pfungwa dzake dzose dzaive dzaPaul zvakare. Akafara uye aidada kuti akatsungirira, kunyange zvazvo zvishomanana zvakauya pakucheneswa.
Akaita zvimwe chetezvo mumazuva akatevera. Nguva imwe neimwe, aironga pachine nguva zvaaizoita - kuchenesa, kuverenga pepanhau kana kudya kudya kwemangwanani kusvika kumagumo, zvishoma nezvishoma kuunza nguva kumaminitsi makumi matatu. Pazuva rechitatu, Pauro haana kuzochemazve. Akagara munhandare achitamba. Ipapo haana kuona kudiwa kwepeni, kunze kwekunge mwana akarembera pamusoro payo zvekuti zvaisaita kufamba. Pauro zvishoma nezvishoma akajaira chokwadi chekuti panguva ino haasi pakati pekutarisa uye hapana chaanowana nekudanidzira. Uye akazvimiririra akasarudza kuwedzera kutamba ari oga, pane kungogara uye kupopota. Kune vese vari vaviri, kubudirira uku kwaibatsira zvakanyanya, saka nenzira imwechete ndakazivisa imwe hafu yeawa yenguva yemahara kwandiri masikati.
Rimwe kusvika makore maviri
Vana vazhinji, pavanongoridza mhere, vanobva vangowana zvavanoda. Vabereki vanovashuvira zvakanaka chete. Vanoda kuti mwana anzwe akasununguka. Gara wakasununguka. Zvinosuruvarisa nzira iyi haishande. Mukupesana: vana vakaita saPauro vanogara vasingafari. Vanochema zvikuru nokuti vakadzidza: "Kupopota kunotora pfungwa." Kubva paudiki, ivo vanovimba nevabereki vavo, saka havagone kukudziridza uye kuziva kugona kwavo uye zvavanoda. Uye pasina izvi, hazvibviri kuwana chimwe chinhu chaunoda. Havambonzwisisi kuti vabereki vanewo zvavanoda. Nguva yekubuda muimba imwe chete naamai kana baba ndiyo mhinduro inogoneka pano: mwana haana kurangwa, anoramba ari pedyo nemubereki, asi zvisinei haawani zvaanoda.
- Kunyange kana mwana achiri mudiki, shandisa "I-messages" panguva ye "Nguva Yekubuda": "Ndinofanira kuchenesa." "Ndinoda kupedzisa breakfast yangu." "Ndinofanira kufona." Haikona kunge yakanyanyokurumidza kwavari. Mwana anoona zvaunoda uye panguva imwe chete iwe unorasikirwa nemukana wekutuka kana kuzvidza mwana.
Wokupedzisira muenzaniso:
- Rangarira Patrick, "kutyisa kwebhendi rese"? Mwana ane makore maviri anoruma, anorwa, anoburitsa matoyi oakanda. Nguva dzose amai vanouya vachimupopotera. Kanenge nguva yese yaanovimbisa: "Kana ukazviita imwezve nguva, tichaenda kumba." Asi hazvimbodaro.
Ungazviita sei pano? Kana Patrick akakuvadza mumwe mwana, "chirevo" chipfupi chinogona kuitwa. Pfugama (gara pasi), wakatarisa kwaari uye wakabata maoko ake mune ako, uti: “Mira! Zvirege izvozvi!» Iwe unogona kumutora kune imwe kona yekamuri, uye pasina kubhadhara chero hanya kuna Pauro, nyaradza "akabatwa". Kana Patrick akaruma kana kurova mumwe munhu zvakare, unofanirwa kuita chiito nekukurumidza. Sezvo achiri muduku uye hazvibviri kumubudisa mukamuri ari oga, amai vake vanofanira kusiya boka racho naye. Munguva yekuzorora, kunyangwe ari pedyo, haatarisire zvakanyanya kwaari. Kana akachema unozviziva: "Kana ukadzikama, tinogona kuuya zvakare." Nokudaro, anosimbisa zvakanaka. Kana kuchema hakuna kumira, vanoenda vose kumba.
Pane zvakare nguva yekubuda: Patrick akatorwa kubva kuvana uye mirwi yematoyi anonakidza.
Nokukurumidza apo mwana anotamba norugare kwechinguvana, amai vanogara pasi kwaari, vanorumbidza uye vanopa ngwariro yake. Nokudaro kuisa pfungwa pane zvakanaka.