Chikoro phobia: nzira yekutsigira mwana kuti adzokere kuchikoro mushure mekuvharirwa?

Kudzokera kuchikoro mushure memavhiki akareba ekuvharirwa kunoratidzika senge dambanemazwi, rakaoma kuti vabereki vagadzirise. Chipenga chakatonyanya kuoma kuvabereki vevana vane chikoro phobia. Nekuti iyi nguva yekusiyana kubva kumakirasi kazhinji yakawedzera kuvhiringidzika kwavo uye kufunganya. Angie Cochet, chiremba wepfungwa muOrléans (Loiret), anoyambira uye anotsanangura kuti sei kutarisira vana ava kwakakosha mumamiriro ezvinhu aya asati amboitika.

Ko kuvharirwa chinhu chinowedzera sei chechikoro phobia?

Angie Cochet: Kuti azvidzivirire, mwana anotambura nechikoro phobia anongoenda kuzvimisa mukunzvenga. Kuvharirwa kunobatsira kuchengetedza hunhu uhu, izvo zvinoita kuti kudzokera kuchikoro kunyanye kuoma. Kunzvenga kwakajairika kwavari, asi kuratidzwa kunofanira kuitika zvishoma nezvishoma. Kupinza mwana nechisimba chikoro chenguva yakazara kunobviswa. Zvaizosimbisa kufunganya. Vana mazvikokota varipo kuti vabatsire nekuratidzwa kunofambira mberi uku, uye kutsigira vabereki vanowanzoshaya uye vanoitwa kuti vanzwe vaine mhosva. Mukuwedzera, matanho ekubvisa ari kunetseka kuti aiswe, uye mwana haakwanisi kugadzirira. Iyo yakaipisisa ichava kupera kwevhiki kusati kwapora.

Kunyanya kazhinji, chii chinonzi phobia, chave kunzi "kuzvidya mwoyo kuramba chikoro", nekuda?

AC : Vana vane "kuzvidya mwoyo kuramba chikoro" vanonzwa kutya chikoro kusina musoro, yegadziriro yechikoro. Izvi zvinogona kuratidzwa nekusaenda kwakasimba kunyanya. Hapana chikonzero chimwe chete, asi zvakawanda. Inogona kukanganisa avo vanonzi "vanokwanisa" vana avo, nokuti vanogona kunzwa vakafinhwa kuchikoro, vane maonero ekunonoka mukudzidza kwavo, izvo zvinounza kuzvidya mwoyo. Havachada kuenda kuchikoro, kunyangwe vachiri kuda kudzidza. Naizvozvowo vana vanoshungurudzwa kuchikoro. Kune vamwe, kutya kwekutarisa kwevamwe kunorema zvakanyanya, kunyanya mumadhayagiramu ekukwana anoratidzwa ne. kushanda kuzvidya mwoyo. Kana vana vane multi-dys uye ADHD (attention deficit disorder with or without hyperactivity), vane hurema hwekudzidza, hunoda pekugara pachikoro. Ivo vanonangana nematambudziko ekugadzirisa kune yedzidzo uye yakajairwa chikoro system.

Ndezvipi zvinowanzoitika zviratidzo zvechikoro ichi phobia?

AC : Vamwe vana vanogona somatize. Vanonyunyuta nemarwadzo emudumbu, misoro, kana kuti anogonawo kunzwa kurwadziwa kwakanyanya uye kuita panic attack, dzimwe nguva yakaoma. Vanogona kutungamira mazuva ese evhiki, asi kuve nekushushikana kunopisa neSvondo manheru mushure mekupera kwevhiki. Yakaipisisa inguva yezororo rechikoro, kupora inguva yakaoma zvikuru. Muzviitiko zvakakomba, mamiriro ezvinhu evana vake anongovandudza kana vasiya tsika yechikoro.

Vabereki vangaisa chii panguva yekuvharirwa kuti vabatsire kudzokera kuchikoro?

AC : Mwana anofanira kuratidzwa kuchikoro chake, zvakanyanya sezvinobvira; fambisa uchipfuura kana kuenda kuGoogle Mepu kuti uone nzvimbo yacho. Nguva nenguva tarisa mifananidzo yekirasi, yesatchel, kune iyi munhu anogona kukumbira rubatsiro rwemudzidzisi. Vanofanira kuitwa kuti vataure kuderedza kufunganya kwekudzokera kuchikoro, taura nezvazvo nomudzidzisi kuti vatambe pasi mutambo, uye tangazve mibato yenguva dzose yechikoro May 11 asati asvika. Ramba uchionana nomumwe waunodzidza naye uyo pazuva rokunaya angamuperekedza kuti arege kuzviwana ari oga. Vana ava vanofanira kugona tangazve chikoro zvishoma nezvishoma, kamwe kana kuti kaviri pavhiki. Asi chinonetsa ndechekuti hachizove chinhu chakakosha kuvadzidzisi muchirevo chekuvharirwa.

Nyanzvi nemasangano akasiyana siyana anopawo mhinduro…

AC : Tinogona zvakare kuseta kutevedza kwepfungwa muvhidhiyo, kana kutoita kuti nyanzvi dzepfungwa nevadzidzisi vaonane. Zvakawanda, chokwadi kune gadziriro chaidzo dzevana ivava, pamwe nekukwanisa kugovera CNED kana Sapad (1) Kudzikamisa kufunganya, vabereki vanogona kupa kuzorora nekufema maekisesaizi kuburikidza nePetit Bambou application [insert web link] kana iyo "Dzika uye teerera. kunge datya” mavhidhiyo.

Vabereki vane mutoro here wokuramba kuenda kuchikoro kwokunetseka kunoratidzirwa navamwe vana?

AC : Ngatitii kana dzimwe nguva kufunga uku kuchiuya nekutevedzera mukutarisana nevabereki vanozvidya mwoyo pachavo, zviri pamusoro pezvose. hunhu hwekuzvarwa nahwo. Zviratidzo zvekutanga zvinowanzoonekwa muhuduku hwepakutanga. Vadzidzisi vane basa rekuita mukuzivikanwa, kwete vabereki chete, uye kuongororwa kunofanirwa kuitwa nemwana chiremba wepfungwa. Avo vakavapoteredza, vadzidzisi, nyanzvi dzoutano kana kuti vana vamene vanogona kuva vane mhaka zvikuru kuvabereki, vanotsoropodzwa nokuda kwokunyanyoteerera kana kuti kusakwana, nokuda kwokunyanyodzivirira kana kuti kusakwana. Muvana vanotambura nefunganyo yokuparadzana, ivo vamene vangapomera vabereki vavo nokuda kwokuvamanikidza kuenda kuchikoro. Uye vabereki vasingaise mwana wavo muchikoro vanogona kuve nyaya yemushumo kuChild welfare, ndiyo chirango chakapetwa kaviri. Kutaura zvazviri, vanonetseka sevana vavo, izvo zvinoita kuti basa rekudzidzisa rive rakaoma uye rakaomarara zuva nezuva, vanoramba vachifunga kuti pane chimwe chinhu chavanenge vapotsa. Vanoda rubatsiro rwekunze nenyanzvi dzakadai se kutarisira mupfungwa, uye tsigiro chaiyo muzvikoro.

Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ekoronavirus, mamwe maprofile evana vanonetsekana "ari panjodzi", semaonero ako?

A.C.: Ehe, mamwe maprofile anogona kuve panjodzi sezvo kutangazve kwemakirasi kunosvika. Tinogona kutaura vana vanotambura chirwere phobia, vanozonetseka kudzoka kuchikoro vachitya kurwara kana kutapurira vabereki vavo chirwere ichi. Kungofanana nevana vechikoro vanotya, vanofanira kutsigirwa uye kusimudzirwa nhaurirano yemhuri, kana kunyange kubva kunyanzvi, vanogona kubvunzwa vari kure.

(1) Masevhisi erubatsiro rwedzidzo yepamba (Sapad) madhipatimendi enyika dzidzo masisitimu anoitirwa kupa vana nevechiri kuyaruka matambudziko ehutano kana tsaona nerutsigiro rwedzidzo kumba. Izvi ndezvekuona kuenderera mberi kwedzidzo yavo. Zvirongwa izvi chikamu chekubatsirana kwevashandi vehurumende, izvo zvinovimbisa kodzero yedzidzo yemudzidzi chero anorwara kana akakuvara. Ivo vakaiswa munzvimbo nedenderedzwa n ° 98-151 ye17-7-1998.

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