Kuzvarwa kwemwana kunonetsa. Iko zvakare kuuya kwekuenzanisa kutsva pakati pevabereki vadiki. Nzira yekuchengeta sei vaviri vako mushure mokunge mwana asvika? Heano mamwe mazano anobatsira ekuchinja kwakatsetseka.

Kusvika kwemwana, kunyanya kana kuri kwekutanga, kunogona kuisa vaviri vacho pamuedzo. Vabereki pane dzimwe nguva vanovhiringwa neiyi nzira itsva youpenyu. Zvechokwadi, mwana anoda nguva yakawanda uye kutarisirwa. Amai vatsva vari kupora zvishoma nezvishoma kubva pakusununguka apo baba vanoedza kuwana nzvimbo yavo. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya akagoverana pakati pekuneta uye manzwiro, zvakakosha kubvuma kuti vaviri vanogona kupera simba: hapana chikonzero chekureva mufaro wakakwana.

Kuti unzwe kuremerwa nekuwanda kwemabasa aripo, shongedza sangano rako. Chokutanga uye chakakosha, funga nezvezvinodiwa nemwana wako kuti udzivise "dambudziko" mamiriro ezvinhu. Semuenzaniso, unogona kuderedza kushushikana mupfungwa nekudzivisa kushomeka kwemanapukeni kana mukaka wehupfu.

Kana iwe ukakwanisa kuzvironga iwe semurume nemukadzi, kubatsira mumwe nemumwe, ipapo munhu wese achanzwa akasununguka uye iwe nokudaro uchadzivirira kusawirirana. Manzwiro okuvhiringidzika akajairika pakati pevabereki vaduku vanoona nguva yavo yekuzorora yaderedzwa zvikuru. Kubatsirana kuzvibvumirawo kuzorora pasina mhosva.

Mwana, kunyanya mumwedzi yekutanga yehupenyu hwake, anotora inenge nzvimbo yese muhupenyu hwewanano. Kuzvirega iwe uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchingedzo. Naizvozvo zvakakosha kuisa parutivi dzimwe nguva dzemunhu-pamwe kuti uenderere mberi nekuchinjana, kugovana uye kutaura zvakavanzika kune mumwe nemumwe. Panzvimbo pokufunga nezvevhiki iyi ichiri kure yezororo rekuchengetedza, edza nepaunogona napo kuti uwane nguva yenyu mese nekukurumidza (apo mwana ari pamubhedha, semuenzaniso). Tiza masikirini uye tarisa zvakanyanya pane hunyoro uye majeti erudo.

Nemucheche, kuchinja kwehupenyu kwakanyanyisa, kazhinji zvakanyanya kudarika izvo vabereki vemangwana vaifungidzira panguva yekuzvitakura. Izvi zvinogona kukonzera kuneta kunogona kuita kuti vakaroorana vagumbuke. Kupatsanurwa kwevashandi inyaya yakatetepa uye kana mumwe wevabatsiri akataura kuda kwake kuzorora nerusununguko, zvinogona kutorwa sehundingoveni. Mukuwedzera, chigumbu chinogona kuoneka zvishoma nezvishoma. Manzwiro ose aya dzimwe nguva anoratidzwa nemashoko oumhondi, kusawirirana kwemazuva ose kana mamiriro ezvinhu anochinja kuva njodzi. Kuchengeta kutaurirana kune hutano kwakakosha paunenge wava mubereki, zvinobatsira kuti usapinda muukama hwakaipa. Iwe unoziva mumwe wako: paunongoona kutenda kwakashata kana kuneta, tora nhanho uye udzikise mamiriro acho nekuseka, chinhambwe, nhaurirano, caresses ...

Mushure mekusununguka, hazvishamisi kuti vanaamai vatsva vasaziva miviri yavo. Dumbu rinoramba rakatenderedzwa kwemwedzi yakati wandei, nhengo dzinoda nguva yekudzokera panzvimbo, episiotomy kana cesarean chikamu chinogona kusiya matishu anonzwa. Tisingarevi kuti kutariswa kwese kwemudiwa nehama kwakatama kubva kune akanaka ane nhumbu kuenda kumwana achangozvarwa. Muchirevo chechinyorwa ichi, hapana chikonzero chekumanikidzira kudzoka kwepabonde nguva isati yakwana yakafanana neyo yapfuura. Mukadzi anoda nguva shoma kuti adzorere muviri wake, kugamuchira shanduko uye shanduko; hapana chinovhundutsa pane izvi. Murume, kune rumwe rutivi, anganzwa achiregeredzwa, aneta, uye akanangidzira zvizere zvinodikanwa zvomwana. Ikoko zvakare, usanetseka: iwe uchaita zvishoma nezvishoma nguva yechisungo cherudo.

Zvinoita sezvisingabviri mumwedzi yekutanga, sezvo kusvika kwechecheche kwakanyanya. Asi kana mwana achangotanga kuzvimiririra, kuti anorara semuenzaniso, usakanganwa kuita nguva iwe pachako. Runako uye kugara zvakanaka marapirwo, misangano neshamwari dzako, kuverenga mukofi, kufamba marefu kana zviitiko zvemitambo: mumwe nemumwe anofanirwa kusimudzira hupenyu hwake hwega kuti aunze simba rakakura kune vaviri. Kwete chete iwe uchanzwa zviri nani pamusoro pako, asi iwe uchavawo nezvinhu zvitsva zvokukuudza uye kuseka kugovera, zvichibva kune zvakasikwa kunze kweimba yako.

Kusvika kwemwana mune vakaroorana kunoshandura mararamiro ose uye zviri nyore kuyamwiwa nehupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwakatsaurirwa kumwana. Nemamisimboti mashoma akareruka, unogona kuchengetedza murazvo wevaviri vako uri mupenyu mukugadzirisa kwavo kutsva. Hukama huri pakati pako hunozonyanya kusimba: kubatana, kuremekedza vamwe, tsitsi uye kuwirirana kwakanaka.