Mukati
Kushandisa embryos yako zvachose, uchipa kune sainzi, uchivachengeta uchimirira kuita sarudzo, mamiriro ega ega ndeega uye anotungamira kunhaurirano mukati mevaviri. Vanaamai vatatu vanopupura.
“Ndinonzwa ndine mhosva nokusashandisa mazai akaomeswa nechando”
ungana, 42 makore, amai vaHabib, makore masere.
AIni nemurume wangu, Sofiane, takatanga kuberekwa kunobatsirwa nemishonga (medical assisted procreation) muna 2005 nekuti taisakwanisa kuita vana zvega. Takakurumidza kushandisa in vitro fertilization (IVF) nokuti kuiswa kwacho hakuna kutora. Habib akazvarwa panguva yedu yechipiri IVF, kubva pakutamiswa kutsva embryo. Makore maviri gare gare, takaedzazve. Habib aida munin’ina kana munin’ina uye nemurume wangu taigara tichida kuita vana vaviri kana vatatu.
Ndakaita mimba netransfer, asi ndakakurumidza kubva
Hatina kukanda mapfumo pasi, kunyange zvazvo zvakanga zvakaoma zvikuru. Ndakave nekubaya ovarian zvakare muna Gumiguru 2019 izvo zvairwadza zvakanyanya nekuti ndaive ne hyperstimulation. Inenge 90 maoocyte akabaiwa, yakakura uye ndainzwa zvese. Mazai mana anenge asanganiswa anogona kuiswa muchando. Takaedza kutamisa gare gare muna Kukadzi 2020 nekuti ndaida kuzorora. Asi pamuviri pakanga pasina. Mupfungwa, handizivi kuti sei, asi ndainzwa kuti hazvishande. Murume wangu aifunga kuti ndichabata pamuviri sezvayakanga yamboita, kunyange ndakabvisa.
Kuendeswa kutsva kwakarongwa muna July, asi ndakasvitsa makore 42. Zera rokutora chigaro, uye kwandiri, zvakanga zvine ngozi zvikuru, nokuti pamuviri pangu yokutanga yakanga yakaoma.
Makore 42 akanga ariwo ganhuriro yangu pachangu. Njodzi dzakawanda dzekushaya hunhu kumwana uye dzehutano kwandiri. Takasarudza kumira ipapo. Kuva nemwana watova mukana wakakura, kunyanya sezvo zvakatitorera makore gumi kuti tibudirire!
Tichine mazai matatu akaomeswa nechando asara
Kusvika parizvino, hatisati taita sarudzo. Takamirira tsamba kubva kuchipatara ichitibvunza zvatiri kuda kuita. Tinogona kuzvichengeta uye kuabhadhara gore negore. Kana kuvaparadza. Kana kuti uzvipe kune vakaroorana kana kusayenzi. Parizvino, tinozvichengeta kusvika taziva zvekuita.
Ndinonzwa mhosva nekusazvishandisa, nekuti pamwe kuchinjisa kwaizotevera kungadai kwakashanda… handidi kuvapa kusainzi nekuti sekuona kwangu, kutambisa. Murume wangu, anofunga kuti zvingava zvakanaka kufambisira mberi tsvakurudzo. Asi tinogonawo kuzvipa kune vakaroorana. Vanhu vazhinji vanoda embryo. Nyangwe ndisingambo ziva kuti zvakashanda here, nekuti mupiro wacho hauzivikanwi, pakadzika dzika, ndaimbofunga kuti pamwe mwana wangu arikupi. Asi Sofiane haazvidi. Saka, sezvo tese tichifanira kubvumirana, tinopana nguva.
"Tichavapa kune sainzi, kuvaparadza kungapwanya moyo yedu"
Leah 30 makore, amai vaEllie, 8 makore.
Nemumwe wangu, takava nemwanasikana wedu muduku zvikuru Ellie. Takanga tisiri mubishi rekuita mwana. Patakasarudza kutanga mwana wechipiri, takasiya gore… Sezvineiwo, hazvina kushanda. Pashure penzvero dzinoverengeka, takava nomutongo: taisagona kuva nomumwe mwana nenzira yomuzvarirwo. Mhinduro chete yakanga iri kuita in vitro fertilization (IVF).
Kuendeswa kwekutanga ne embryo itsva hakuna kushanda.
Sechipiri "embryo" yakasara kubva pakuputika, yakasimbiswa (yakaomeswa). Takanga tasaina mvumo yekupa chibvumirano chedu. Asi izvozvo zvakandidya mwoyo zvikuru, kunyanya sezvo rakanga riri rembeu redu rokupedzisira rokuboorwa uku. I was really very stressed, mumwe wangu aita shoma. Muchokwadi, isu hatina ruzivo rwakakwana munguva chaiyo nezve zviri kuitika, kuti nhanho yekunyunguduka chii uye kuti njodzi dzinogona kuitika ndedzipi panguva ino. Vitrification inogonesa kunyorova nekuti, maererano nezvidzidzo, chete 3% yema embryo hairarame. Asi vanachiremba havasi kunyanya kutaura nezvemhando. Isu tiri kugara takamirira kuti tizive kana kuchinjisa kuchizogoneka kana kuti kwete. Kamwana kacho kacharamba kachinyunguduka here? Psychological follow-up haina kurongeka inopiwa uye izvo zvinonyadzisa.
Medically Assisted Procreation (ART) yatova rwendo rurefu uye rwakaoma, kumadzimai nevarume.. Saka kuwedzera tarisiro uye kusava nechokwadi kunorwadza chaizvo. Zvinogonawo kugadzira makakatanwa muvaviri. Kwatiri, murume wangu ndiye asingagoni kubereka nenzira yomuzvarirwo uye anonzwa ane mhaka pamusoro pezvose zvandinofanira kutsungirira mukurapa.
Kuendeswa kwe embryo yechipiri yakaomeswa nechando hakuna kushandawo.
Hatisi kurasa tariro. Tichaenderera mberi, ndaigara ndichida mhuri huru. Ndaifunga kuti ndaizova nevamwe vana vaviri kunze kwemwanasikana wedu mukuru, asi dambudziko remwana wechipiri uyu rakandishungurudza zvekusvika pakusada mamwe mushure mesekondi iyi. Ndinoyambuka zvigunwe zvangu muchivande kuti ndiite mapatya uye takagadzirira chiitiko ichocho. The following ? Tichiri nemiyedzo, tichaenderera mberi. Kana kuendesa kunotevera kukashanda uye isu tasara maembryos akaomeswa nechando, tinoapa kusainzi. Kuzviparadza kungaputsa mwoyo yedu, asi hatidi kuzvipa kune vamwe. Ma "embryos" aya chidimbu chedu tose uye kurerwa ini, ndinoziva kuti kuzvitsvaga uye kwatinobva kwakaoma, uye handidi kuona mwana achiridza bhero repamukova wedu kwatiri. kuziva.
“Ndinonzwa ndichifanira kuedza zvose kuti vararame! “
Lucy, 32 makore, amai vaLiam, makore gumi.
Mwanakomana wangu Liam akazvarwa kubva mumubatanidzwa wekutanga. Pandakasangana nemumwe wangu mutsva, Gabin, takasarudza kuva nemwana. Asi hazvina kushanda nemazvo uye takawana medically assisted reproduction (ART), kunyanya, in vitro fertilization (IVF). Kuedza kwekutanga kwaive kwakaoma nekuti ndakanyanya-kukurudzira. Kutanga, ndaifanira kuzvibaya jekiseni nema<em>hormone ekukurudzira ma<em>ovaries angu. Uye nekukurumidza, ndakanga ndazvimba muzasi meguvhu. Mazai angu akanga akazara uye ndainetseka kugara. Vanachiremba vaifunga kuti yaizodzikira panguva yekubaya ovarian iyo inosanganisira kubvisa maoocyte. Asi chaizvoizvo kwete zvachose! Ndakatozoenda kukamuri rekukurumidzira zuva rabva kubaiwa nekuti mudumbu mangu mainge mawedzera kaviri. Ndakanga ndave pakuzorora kwakanyanya kwekumanikidzirwa, ndaifanira kurara pasi zvakanyanya sezvinobvira, kupfeka compression stockings uye ndaive nekurumwa nephlebitis. Zvakatora mazuva akati wandei, nguva yekuti mvura ibude uye marwadzo apera. Handina kuda kutaura kuti ndairwadziwa kuti ndigozochinjirwa kamwana kangu kachangobva mukuumbwa kwapera mazuva mashoma.
Chishuvo chemwana chaive chakasimba kupfuura kutambura!
Asi, pashure pemazuva gumi okumirira, takaziva kuti zvakanga zvisina kushanda. Zvakanga zvakaoma kutora nokuti ndakanga ndine chivimbo zvikuru uye ndakafunga kuti zvaizoshanda pakuedza kwekutanga. Mumwe wangu akanga akanyanya kuzvidzora. Isu takapa chibvumirano chedu chekuomesa, kunyanya vitify mamwe embryos. Asi kuchinjirwa kutsva hakuna kushandawo. Pakazara, ndakaita ina IVF uye gumi neshanu kutamiswa, nekuti panogona kuve nekufambiswa kwakati wandei neIVF, chero paine mazai akasanganiswa. Pazvese, ndakangoita fresh embryo transfer. Ipapo akanga ari maembryos angu akaomeswa nechando. Nekuda kwekuti muviri wangu unotambira zvakanyanya pakurapwa, ndichiri kushushikana zvakanyanya, saka zvave kuita njodzi uye ndaida kuzorora pakati pekubaya nekutamiswa. Chokwadi, isu tinoshevedzwa nekiriniki zuva rakapfuura kuti atipe nguva yekuchinjisa uye, zvinosuruvarisa, zvinogona kuitika kuti panguva yekunyungudika embryo inofa, asi izvo hazvina kumboitika kwatiri. Sezvineiwo. Ndivo vanachiremba vanosarudza ma embryos ekutamisa, kubva kune akanakisa kusvika kune yakaderera mhando. Kwandiri, hazvina basa kuti embryo yakaomeswa nechando, ishanga!
Nhasi ndine mazai matatu akaomeswa nechando.
Yekupedzisira yatakaedza muna Ndira 2021 haina kushanda. Asi tichaenderera mberi! Kana ndikazobata pamuviri, hatisati tafunga kuti toita sei nemamwe maembryos. Zvakaoma kuzvigadzira iwe pachako! Ndaizoomerwa nekupa munhu anoziva nhamo dzatakasangana nadzo kuti tive nadzo. Saka ndinofunga tichazvipa nguva yekufunga nezvazvo kuti tizive kana mukuita izvi tichaedza kuchinjisa kutsva nemazai akaomeswa nechando atakasiya. Handigoni kufungidzira kusazvishandisa. Ndaizonzwa ndichifanira kuedza zvose kuti vararame!