Tamba neni ndiko kudiwa kwemwana kuti agare achivaraidzwa nevakuru.
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Mwana ane makore matatu anofanira kuvaraidzwa here? Ndinonzwisisa kuti unofanira kutamba naye, kudzidza, asi kana pasina nguva zvachose, anogona kuramba akabatikana. Kana kuti anotanga kuita marudzi ese ezvakaipa nemaune, anofinhwa ...
Kune akawanda matoyi, mitambo, asi anotamba kana ari mumhepo yakanaka, kana kana achinditsamwisa uye anoona kuti hapana chekumirira ini, iwe unofanirwa kuita chimwe chinhu iwe pachako. Asi dzimwe nguva zvinotora nguva yakareba. Uye tsinga. Uye iyi haisi nyaya, sekunzwisisa kwandinoita ...
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Maminitsi mashanu Solution
Dzimwe nguva zvinotora nguva shoma kuti ugutse kufarira kwemwana pane zvatinofunga. Pamusoro pechinyorwa ichi, ini ndinokurudzira kuverenga chinyorwa cheMinute Mishanu Solution.
Mitambo yakasiyana
Zviri pachena kuti munhu mukuru anogona kubatikana nezvinhu kune mboni dzemaziso. Asi mwana kazhinji haafaniri kutora ngwariro yose yaamai vake kwaari. Zvakakwana kuti amai vari pedyo, kuti kunyange zvazvo vakabatikana, dzimwe nguva vanoteerera kwauri. Chero zvazvingava, zvinonyanya kufadza kutamba muimba umo amai pane kutamba vari voga muimba isina chinhu.
Iwe unongoda kudzidzisa mwana kuti kana amai vachishanda, tamba naye anogona, asi mune mimwe mitambo chete isingade kutariswa zvakanyanya nemunhu mukuru. Semuenzaniso, wakagara patafura, uchinyora chimwe chinhu kana kutaipa pakombiyuta. Mwana anogara pedyo uye anodhirowa chimwe chinhu.
Kana mwana akatanga kutamba pranks uye kupindira naamai vake, ipapo achabviswa kune imwe kamuri uye anofanira kutamba oga.
Mwana anofanira kudzidza Mutemo: Dzimwe nguva ndinofanira kuzvivaraidza! Ona Mitemo yemwana
Kuwedzera
Pazera rino, uye semamwe ose, kutarisirwa kwaamai kunokosha zvikuru kumwana. Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kumubata nechimwe chinhu uye kuita nezvebhizimisi rako, uyezve, mwana pachake achapedzisira adzidza kuzvivaraidza. Chete manje haachada mai vake. Mwana haagoni kutsanangurwa kuti vanhu vakuru vane matambudziko, unoda kuenzanisa nguva yakagoverwa kumwana uye yebasa. Nokufamba kwenguva, mwana achadzidza kuzvivaraidza, asi kuvapo kwaamai vake kunongomukanganisa, iye zvino ane zvakavanzika zvake, hupenyu hwake. Pangave nekutya kucheukira kuna amai vangu, nekuti vanogara vakabatikana, zvisinei havandipe nguva. Mwana haafaniri kudzidziswa kuva oga.
Paul ane gore. Akanga asingafari nguva dzose, achichema kwemaawa akawanda pazuva, pasinei nokuti amai vake vaigara vachimuvaraidza nezvinhu zvitsva zvaibatsira kwenguva pfupi chete.
Ndakakurumidza kubvumirana nevabereki vangu kuti Paul aifanira kudzidza mutemo mumwe mutsva: “Ndinofanira kuzvivaraidza panguva imwe chete mazuva ose. Amai vari kuita zvinhu zvavo panguva iyi. Aizoidzidza sei? Akanga asati asvitsa gore. Iwe haugone kungomupinza mukamuri woti: "Zvino tamba wega."
Mushure mekudya kwekudya kwemangwanani, sekutonga, aive mune yakanakisa mood. Saka Amai vakasarudza kusarudza nguva iyi kuchenesa kicheni. Mushure mekugadzika Paul pasi ndokumupa midziyo yekubikira, akagara pasi akamutarisa ndokuti. "Zvino ndinofanira kuchenesa kicheni". Kwemaminitsi gumi akatevera, akaita basa rake rechikoro. Pauro, kunyange zvazvo akanga ari pedyo, akanga asiri musimboti wengwariro.
Sezvaitarisirwa, maminetsi mashomanene gare gare midziyo yokubikira yakakandwa mukona, uye Paul, achichema, akarembera pamakumbo aamai vake ndokukumbira kubatwa. Aive ajaira kuti zvishuwo zvake zvese zvakabva zvazadziswa. Zvino chimwe chinhu chakaitika chaakanga asingatarisiri zvachose. Amai vakamutora ndokumuisazve mberi zvishoma pasi nemashoko okuti: "Ndinoda kuchenesa kicheni". Pauro, chokwadika, akatsamwa. Akakwidza izwi remhere ndokukambaira achienda kutsoka dzaamai vake. Amai vakadzokorora chinhu chimwe chete: vakamutora uye vakamuisa zvakare zvishoma pasi nemashoko: “Ndiri kuda kuchenesa kicheni mwanangu. Mushure mezvo, ndichatamba newe zvakare » (yakaputsika rekodhi).
Zvese izvi zvakaitika zvakare.
Nguva yakatevera, sezvakabvumiranwa, akaenda mberi zvishoma. Akaisa Pauro munhandare, akamira pedyo nepaaiona. Amai vakaramba vachitsvaira, pasinei nokuti kuchema kwavo kwakavapengesa. Ese 2-3 maminetsi akatendeukira kwaari ndokuti: “Chokutanga ndinoda kuchenesa kicheni, ndozotamba newe zvakare. Mushure memaminitsi gumi, pfungwa dzake dzose dzaive dzaPaul zvakare. Akafara uye aidada kuti akatsungirira, kunyange zvazvo zvishomanana zvakauya pakucheneswa.
Akaita zvimwe chetezvo mumazuva akatevera. Nguva imwe neimwe, aironga pachine nguva zvaaizoita - kuchenesa, kuverenga pepanhau kana kudya kudya kwemangwanani kusvika kumagumo, zvishoma nezvishoma kuunza nguva kumaminitsi makumi matatu. Pazuva rechitatu, Pauro haana kuzochemazve. Akagara munhandare achitamba. Ipapo haana kuona kudiwa kwepeni, kunze kwekunge mwana akarembera pamusoro payo zvekuti zvaisaita kufamba. Pauro zvishoma nezvishoma akajaira chokwadi chekuti panguva ino haasi pakati pekutarisa uye hapana chaanowana nekudanidzira. Uye akazvimiririra akasarudza kuwedzera kutamba ari oga, pane kungogara uye kupopota. Kune vese vari vaviri, kubudirira uku kwaibatsira zvakanyanya, saka nenzira imwechete ndakazivisa imwe hafu yeawa yenguva yemahara kwandiri masikati.
Vana vazhinji, pavanongoridza mhere, vanobva vangowana zvavanoda. Vabereki vanovashuvira zvakanaka chete. Vanoda kuti mwana anzwe akasununguka. Gara wakasununguka. Zvinosuruvarisa nzira iyi haishande. Mukupesana: vana vakaita saPauro vanogara vasingafari. Vanochema zvikuru nokuti vakadzidza: "Kupopota kunotora pfungwa." Kubva paudiki, ivo vanovimba nevabereki vavo, saka havagone kukudziridza uye kuziva kugona kwavo uye zvavanoda. Uye pasina izvi, hazvibviri kuwana chimwe chinhu chaunoda. Havambonzwisisi kuti vabereki vanewo zvavanoda. Nguva yekubuda muimba imwe chete naamai kana baba ndiyo mhinduro inogoneka pano: mwana haana kurangwa, anoramba ari pedyo nemubereki, asi zvisinei haawani zvaanoda.
- Kunyange kana mwana achiri mudiki, shandisa "I-messages" panguva ye "Nguva Yekubuda": "Ndinofanira kuchenesa." "Ndinoda kupedzisa breakfast yangu." "Ndinofanira kufona." Haikona kunge yakanyanyokurumidza kwavari. Mwana anoona zvaunoda uye panguva imwe chete iwe unorasikirwa nemukana wekutuka kana kuzvidza mwana.