Mukati
- Chipupuriro chaMarie: “Ndaida kuzvimirira kuti ndirere mwana wangu. »Marie, ane makore makumi maviri nematanhatu, amai vaLeandro, vane makore matanhatu.
- Uchapupu hwaJean-Baptiste: "Chakanyanya kuoma ndipo pavakazivisa kuvharwa kwezvikoro zvekoronavirus!"
- Jean-Baptiste, baba vaYvana, 9 makore.
- Uchapupu hwaSarah: “Kuva ndoga kekutanga kunotemesa musoro! Sarah, ane makore 43, amai vaJoséphine, vane makore 6 nehafu.
Chipupuriro chaMarie: “Ndaida kuzvimirira kuti ndirere mwana wangu. »Marie, ane makore makumi maviri nematanhatu, amai vaLeandro, vane makore matanhatu.
“Ndakabata pamuviri ndiine makore 19, nemudiwa wangu wekusekondari. Ndainge ndave nenguva dzisingaite uye kusavepo kwavo hakuna kundinetsa. Ndakanga ndichipasa Bac uye ndakafunga kumirira kusvika kupera kwema tests kuti ndiite bvunzo. Ndakabva ndaziva kuti pamuviri pangu paive nemwedzi miviri nechidimbu. Ndakanga ndine nguva shoma zvikuru yokuita chisarudzo. Mukomana wangu akandiudza kuti chero sarudzo yangu aizonditsigira. Ndakafunga nezvazvo ndikafunga kuchengeta mwana. Ndaigara nababa vangu panguva iyoyo. Ndakamutyira kuita kwaakaita ndokubva ndakumbira shamwari yake yepamoyo kuti imuudze nezvazvo. Paakazviziva akandiudza kuti aizonditsigirawo. Mumwedzi mishomanana, ndakapasa bumbiro racho, ndokuzopiwa mvumo ndisati ndasununguka. Ndaida rusununguko rwangu pazvose kuti ndikwanise kutarisira mwana wangu. Kumaternity ward ndakaudzwa nezveudiki hwangu, ndakanzwa kakusemwa. Pasina kutora nguva yekunyatsobvunza, ndakanga ndasarudza bhodhoro, zvishoma, uye ndakanzwa kutongerwa. Mwana wangu paakanga ava nemwedzi miviri nehafu, ndakaenda kumaresitorendi kuti ndiwane zvokuwedzera. Kutanga kwangu kwaiva kuZuva raamai. Zvairwadza moyo wangu kusave nemwana wangu, asi ndakazviudza kuti ndaiitira ramangwana rake. Pandakanga ndava nemari yakakwana yokugara, takatamira pakati peguta nababa vacho, asi Léandro paakanga ava nemakore maviri, takaparadzana. Ndakanzwa kuti takanga tisisiri pazera rimwe chetero. Zvinoita sekunge hatina kushanduka nenzira imwe chete. Isu takaisa runhare rwekuchinjana: imwe neimwe kupera kwevhiki nehafu yezororo. “
Kubva paudiki kusvika kuna amai
Ndakapfuura kubva pakurova kwepwere kuna amai, ndakatamburira kuisa mari pakupera kwevhiki kusina chinhu. Ndaisakwanisa kuzviraramira chete. Ndakatora mukana wekunyora bhuku pamusoro pehupenyu hwangu saamai vega *. Zvishoma nezvishoma upenyu hwedu hwakanga hwakarongeka. Paakatanga chikoro ndaimumutsa na 5:45 am kuti ndiende kunochengeta mwana, ndisati ndatanga basa na7 am ndairitora kuma 20 pm Ane 6 years, ndaitya kurasikirwa nerubatsiro iyo CAF: ndoita sei kuti asaenda kuchikoro asina kushandisa muhoro wangu wese ikoko? Mukuru wangu ainzwisisa: Ini handichavhuri kana kuvhara rori yechikafu. Pazuva nezuva, hazvisi nyore kuva nezvinhu zvose zvokutarisira, kusakwanisa kuvimba nomunhu pamabasa ose, kusakwanisa kufema. Chinhu chakanaka ndechokuti naLéandro, tine ukama hwepedyo zvikuru uye hwepedyo zvikuru. Ndinomuona akura nezera rake. Anoziva kuti zvese zvandinoita ndezvakewo. Anoita kuti upenyu hwangu hwezuva nezuva huve nyore: kana ndichifanira kuita basa repamba nendiro ndisati ndabuda, anongoerekana atanga kundibatsira ndisina kumukumbira. Motto yake? “Pamwechete, takasimba.
* "Pane imwe nguva amai" yakabudiswa paAmazon
Jean-Baptiste, baba vaYvana, 9 makore.
“Mugore ra2016, ndakasiyana nemumwe wangu, amai vemwanasikana wangu. Akasvika pakusagadzikana mupfungwa. Ndakanga ndisina kana zviratidzo zvenyevero pataigara tose. Zvichitevera kuparadzana, zvakawedzera. Saka ndakakumbira kodzero yokuchengeta mwanasikana wedu. Mai vacho vanongomuona kumba kwaamai vake. Mwanasikana wedu aiva nemakore 6 nehafu paakauya kuzogara neni nguva yakazara. Ndaifanira kuchinja upenyu hwangu. Ndakasiya kambani yangu yandakanga ndave ndichishanda kwemakore gumi nekuti ndakanga ndiri pahurongwa hwakadzama husina kujairana nehupenyu hwangu hutsva sababa vega. Ndakanga ndafunga kwenguva refu kuti ndidzokere kuzvidzidzo kunoshandira gweta. Ini ndaifanira kutorazve Bac uye kunyoresa kwekosi refu nekuda kweCPF. Ndakazowana mumwe gweta makiromita anenge gumi kubva pamba pangu, akabvuma kundipinza basa somubatsiri. Ndakagadzira tsika shoma nemwanasikana wangu: mangwanani, ndinomuisa mubhazi rinoenda kuchikoro, ndozoenda kubasa rangu. Manheru, ndinoenda kunomutora mushure meawa yokuchengeta vana. Apa ndipo panotanga zuva rangu rechipiri: kutarisa bhuku rekubatanidza uye dhayari kuti ndiite basa rechikoro, kugadzirira kudya kwemanheru, kuvhura tsamba, pasina kukanganwa pane mamwe mazuva kuti utore dhiraivha kuLeclerc uye womhanyisa muchina wokuwachisa nedhishi. Mushure mezvose izvi, ndinogadzirira bhizinesi rezuva rinotevera, rinoravira musatchel, ndinoita basa rose rekutonga reimba. Zvese zvinotenderera kusvika kajecha kadiki kauya kuzomisa muchina: kana mwana wangu achirwara, kana paine kuramwa mabasa kana mota ikaparara ... Zviripachena, hapana nguva yekuzvitarisira, resourcefulness marathon inotanga zvakarongeka. kutsvaga mhinduro yekukwanisa kuenda kuhofisi!
Hapana munhu wekutora, hapana mota yechipiri, hapana wechipiri mukuru wekugovana zvinonetsa. Ichi chiitiko chakatiswededza pedyo nemwanasikana wangu: tine hukama hwepedyo. Kuve baba vega, kwandiri zvakanyanyondiomera pavakazivisa kuvharwa kwezvikoro, nekuda kwekoronavirus. Ndakashaya zvekuita. Ndakashaya kuti ndaizozviita sei. Sezvineiwo, pakarepo, ndakagamuchira mameseji kubva kuvamwe vabereki vari voga, shamwari, avo vakakurudzira kuti tizvironge timene, kuti tichengete vana vedu nokuda kwomumwe nomumwe. Uye ipapo, nekukurumidza zvikuru kwakauya chiziviso chekuvharirwa. Mubvunzo hauchamuka: taifanira kuwana nzira yedu yekushanda nekugara pamba. Ndine rombo rakanaka: mwanasikana wangu akazvimiririra zvakanyanya uye anoda chikoro. Mangwanani ega ega taipinda tichiona basa rechikoro Yvana aiita maexercises ega. Pakupedzisira, sezvo isu tose takakwanisa kushanda zvakanaka, ndinotova nemafungiro ekuti takawana zvishoma muhutano hwehupenyu munguva iyi!
Uchapupu hwaSarah: “Kuva ndoga kekutanga kunotemesa musoro! Sarah, ane makore 43, amai vaJoséphine, vane makore 6 nehafu.
“Patakaparadzana, Joséphine akanga achangopemberera zuva rake rekuzvarwa rechishanu. Kuita kwangu kwekutanga kwaive kutya: kuzviwana ndisina mwanasikana wangu. Ini ndanga ndisiri kufunga nezve alternating custody zvachose. Akasarudza kuenda, uye nhamo yokundinyima yaisagona kuwedzera iyo yokundinyima mwanasikana wangu. Pakutanga, takabvumirana kuti Joséphine aizoenda kumba kwababa vake kupera kwevhiki kwega kwega. Ndakaziva kuti zvakakosha kuti asagura hukama naye, asi pawakapedza makore mashanu uchichengeta mwana wako, uchiona achimuka, achironga zvekudya, kugeza, kuenda kunorara, kuva wega kekutanga kungoita dzungu. . Ndakange ndave kutadza kuzvidzora ndikatoona kuti aive munhu aive neupenyu ndisipo, chimwe chikamu chake chainditiza. Ndainzwa ndisina basa, ndisingabatsiri, ndiri nherera, ndisingazivi zvokuita neni, ndichitenderera-tenderera. Ndakaramba ndichimuka and like anything, ndakatojaira.
Dzidzazve nzira yokuzvichengeta nayo somubereki ari oga
Zvino rimwe zuva ndakafunga kuti: “Bisu, ndichaita sei nenguva ino?“Ndaifanira kunzwisisa kuti ndaigona kuzvibvumira ndimene kodzero yokufarikanya rudzi urwu rworusununguko rwandakanga ndarasikirwa narwo mumakore achangobva kupfuura aya. Saka ndakadzidza zvakare kutora nguva idzi, kuzvichengeta, zvehupenyu hwangu semukadzi uye kuonazve kuti pachine zvinhu zvekuita futi! Nhasi, kana kupera kwevhiki kwasvika, handichanzwa kakushushikana mumoyo mangu. Kuchengeta kwakatochinja uye Joséphine anogara husiku humwe pasvondo pamwe chete nababa vake. Zvakandirwadza chaizvo kurambana kwaiita vabereki vangu ndichiri mudiki. Saka ndinodada nhasi nechikwata chatiri kuumba nababa vake. Isu tiri mumamiriro ezvinhu akanaka. Anogara achinditumira mifananidzo yechip yedu kana achinge achengetwa, achindiratidza zvavakaita, kudya… Taisada kuti anzwe achisungirwa kugarisana pakati paamai nababa, kana kunzwa aine mhosva kana ainakidzwa nemumwe wedu. Naizvozvo isu takangwarira kuti inotenderera ichiyerera mugonyo redu. Anoziva kuti pane mitemo yakajairika, asiwo misiyano pakati pake neni: kumba kwaamai, ndinogona kuva neTV pakupera kwevhiki, uye pababa vanowedzera chokoreti! Ainzwisisa zvakanaka uye ane mano anoshamisa aya evana okuchinjira. Ndinowedzera kuzviudza kuti izvi ndizvo zvichaitawo hupfumi hwake.
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