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Kana munhu ari pedyo nesu akazviwana ari mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma: mumwe weavo vaanoda kwaari anosiya hupenyu hwake, ari kuenda nechirwere chakakomba kana kurambana - tinongoerekana tatarisana nekuoma kwakaoma kuwana mazwi akakodzera. . Tinoda kunyaradza, asi kazhinji zvinoita kuti zviwedzere. Chii chisingagone kutaurwa kumunhu ari kurwara?
Kazhinji mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, tinorasika uye tinodzokorora izvo vanhu vakawanda vachataura kumunhu asina isu: "Ndinonzwira tsitsi," "zvinorwadza kunzwa izvi." Tarisa pane zvinotsanangurwa mumasocial network pasi peaya mapositi apo munyori anoda kutsigira. Zvizhinji zvavo, pasina mubvunzo, zvakanyorwa zvichibva pamwoyo, asi zvinodzokorora mumwe nomumwe uye, somugumisiro, zvinonzwika serekodhi rakaputsika.
Mazwi asingazobatsiri munhu anotambura, uye dzimwe nguva anogona kutowedzera mamiriro ake
1. "Ndinoziva manzwiro aunoita"
Ngative vakatendeseka, isu hatigone kuziva. Kunyangwe tikafunga kuti takanga tine chiitiko chakafanana, munhu wese anorarama nyaya yake nenzira yake.
Pamberi pedu panogona kunge paine munhu ane humwe hunhu hwepfungwa, maonero ehupenyu uye kugona kutsungirira kunetseka, uye mamiriro akafanana anonzwisiswa zvakasiyana naye.
Ehe, unogona kugovera ruzivo rwako, asi haufanirwe kuratidza zviitiko zvako nezviri kusangana neshamwari yako ikozvino. Zvikasadaro, zvinonzwika sekuisa manzwiro ako uye manzwiro uye chiitiko chekuzvitaura iwe zvakare.
2. “Zvakaitirwa, uye unofanira kungozvigamuchira”
Mushure me "kunyaradza" kwakadaro, mubvunzo unomuka mumunhu: "Nei chaizvo ndichifanira kupfuura nepakati pegehena?" Inogona kubatsira kana uchiziva zvechokwadi kuti shamwari yako mutendi uye mashoko ako anopindirana nemufananidzo wayo wenyika. Kana zvisina kudaro, vanogona kuwedzera chimiro chemukati chemunhu, uyo, zvichida, panguva ino anonzwa kurasikirwa kwakakwana kwezvinoreva hupenyu.
3. "Kana uchida chimwe chinhu, ndifonere"
Mutsara wakajairika watinodzokorora nevavariro dzakanakisa. Zvisinei, interlocutor anoiverenga serudzi rwechipingamupinyi chawakamisa kuti ugare kure neshungu dzake. Funga nezve kana munhu ari kutambura zvakanyanya achakufonera nechikumbiro chakakosha? Kana asati amboda kutsvaga rubatsiro, mukana weizvi unosvika zero.
Asi kumbira kuita chimwe chinhu chinodiwa neshamwari. Mamiriro enhamo anonetesa mupfungwa uye kazhinji haambosiyi simba remabasa epamba. Shanyira shamwari, ipa kubika chimwe chinhu, kutenga chimwe chinhu, famba imbwa. Rubatsiro rwakadaro haruzove rwakarongeka uye ruchabatsira zvinopfuura kupa zvine hunhu asi kure kure kukufonera.
4. "Izviwo zvichapfuura"
Nyaradzo yakanaka paunenge uchiona inofinha yenguva refu yeTV show, asi kwete panguva iyo iwe urikubvarurwa nezvakaitika zvakaoma. Mutsara wakadaro kune mumwe munhu ari kurwadziwa unobvisa zvachose manzwiro ake. Uye kunyange zvazvo chirevo ichi pachacho chiri chechokwadi zvikuru, zvakakosha kuti munhu arege kukurumidza, kurarama mamiriro ekushungurudzika uye kusvika pakunzwisisa kwemashoko aya pachake, panguva yaanenge akagadzirira.
Kutevedzera mitemo iyi yose kunowedzera mikana yekubatsira mudiwa
Zvisinei, chinhu chakaipisisa chaunogona kuita ndechokutaura chinhu zvachose. Vanhu vakambochema vanobvuma kuti kunyarara kwavasingatarisiri kwevadiwa vavo kwakava mumwe muedzo kwavari. Sezvingabvira, mumwe weavo vakasuduruka akanzwira tsitsi zvikuru, vakangotadza kuwana mashoko akakodzera. Zvisinei, zviri chaizvo munguva dzakaoma uye dzinorwadza dzehupenyu apo mazwi edu ndiwo anonyanya kutsigira. Iva nehanya nevaya vaunoda kwauri.
Nezve munyori: Andrea Bonior ikiriniki yepfungwa nyanzvi yekurapa kupindwa muropa uye munyori webhuku.