Apo patinosangana nevanhu vatsva, tinozviratidza kwavari kubva kudivi rakanakisisa uye tinochengetedza ukama neavo vane unhu hwakanyanya kufanira kwatiri. Zano rakanaka, asi rinobvisa hukama hwekuzvimirira uye rinodzikamisa denderedzwa rekutaurirana.
“Ini” wedu ane zvakawanda. Tinogona kuva zvose chivimbo uye unyanzvi, godo uye rudo, kudzikama uye kutsvinya. Tichikura, tinonzwisisa kuti zvimwe zvikamu zve "Ini" yedu zvinokwezva kutarisa kwevamwe zvakanyanya. Uye ndosaka tichida kusimudzira, kuvasanganisa mu "kadhi rekushanyira". Kunyanya kana zvasvika pahukama hwakakosha kwatiri. Uye isu tinoshandisa kadhi iri hupenyu hwedu hwese patinenge tichida kuita fungidziro yekutanga pamunhu watinoda, anodaro murapi wemhuri Assael Romanelli.
Enzaniso nemusangano webhizinesi wakakwana: patinosangana nevatinoshanda navo, isu tisingazive tinovaratidza makadhi edu ebhizinesi, uye ivo vanoratidza avo. Uye hukama hunozoenderera chete kana tichida zvatakaona.
Nokudaro, inosimbisa Romanelli, tinokwezva muupenyu hwedu avo vane "makadhi ebhizinesi" anoenderana nesu. Kureva, avo vanowana zviri nyore kuonana chaizvo nevanhu vakaita sesu. Kana "kadhi rebhizimisi" rako richitaura kuti uri munhu anonyara, iwe uchawana nyore nyore mutauro wakajairika nemumwe munhu anokwanisa kuwana mutauro wakajairika nevanhu vanonyara. Zvichida kadhi rake rinoratidza kuti "mudzidzisi", "mutungamiri" kana "mubereki".
Mikana mishoma
Pakutanga kuona, nzira iyi inoita seyakanaka. Asi ine yakakosha drawback. Zvinowanzoitika kuti kakawanda unosvika pakuziva uye kupinda muhukama ne "kusiyana-siyana pamusoro pemusoro" wemunhu mumwe chete. Izvi ndizvo chaizvo zvinoitika kana "varume vatatu vese vakaita sepurani" kana "vasikana vangu vese vanofarira kunyunyuta." Ndiko kuti, mikana yako inongogumira kune maitiro emaitiro aunojaira kuratidzira.
Kadhi rako rakarohwa here?
Oddly zvakakwana, asi seti yepasirese yehunhu iyo yaizokwana mune ese mamiriro pasina kusarudzika haipo. Kugara uchichinjika, kushandisa akawanda "makadhi ekufona" panguva imwe chete inzira ine pundutso. Nenzira dzakawanda, "makadhi ebhizinesi" edu anoshanda se "magirazi" atinotarira nawo nyika. Zvinoratidza zvatinotenda uye zvinokwezva kwatiri vanhu vakafanana zvedu kana rudzi runoenderana nesu.
Asi kana iwe uchida kuti chimwe chinhu chakasiyana chionekwe muhupenyu hwako, iwe unofanirwa kushandura optics yako! Chii chandinofanira kuita? Heano matanho mashoma akagadzirwa naAssael Romanelli. Kana iwe uine wawakaroorana naye, musanganise mukugadzira "bhizinesi kadhi" idzva.
- Ratidza kuti "kadhi rekufona" rehukama hwako rinotaridzika sei panguva ino. Ziva hunhu hushanu hwakanaka hwebhizinesi iri kadhi - rinobatsira sei pakubatana kwako.
- Rega mumwe wako averenge chinyorwa ichi uye abvunze kana anoziva kuti "kadhi rekufonera" rako chii muhukama. Kana iwe pachako usingakwanisi kuzviziva, rega mudiwa wako akubatsire.
- Rondedzera papepa maviri emakadhi ako ebhizinesi aunoshandisa muhukama. Ratidza mumwe wako uye edza kutaura naye nezvemakadhi aya. Dzakaonekwa rini uye mumamiriro ezvinhu api? Chii chaunowana nekuvashandisa - uye chii chaunorasikirwa nacho?
- Bvunza mudiwa wako kuti akuudze nezvekuti anoona sei yake huru "calling card" yehukama. Kazhinji pane imwe hukama pakati pe "bhizinesi makadhi" evanhu vaviri, vanoumba mapoka maviri emhando "mubereki / mwana", "mudzidzisi / mudzidzi", "mutungamiri / muranda", "ane simba / akasimba", nezvimwewo.
- Zvibvunze: ndeapi maficha aunopotsa mu "bhizinesi makadhi"? Mumwe nemumwe wedu ane dura rakakura remaitiro akasiyana uye manzwiro. Asi vamwe vacho ndevechimwe chikamu chedu icho mu psychoanalysis chinonzi Mvuri. Aya maratidziro atinoti nechikonzero chakati tinoramba, tinoona seasina kukodzera. Anoda anoda anogona "kurarama" mukati memunhu ane mwero, uye mumwe munhu anoda kuzorora uye kugamuchira caresses anogona "kurarama" mukati memunhu anoshanda. Uye isu tinogona kushandisa zviratidzo izvi pakugadzira "makadhi ebhizinesi" matsva.
- Shandisa makadhi matsva ebhizinesi muhukama hwako. Nekuita izvi, iwe unoratidza mumvuri wehunhu hwako - uye unogona kuzvifarira.
Usashamisika kana mudiwa wako achiramba shanduko mumaitiro ako. Izvi zvakajairika: uri kushandura sisitimu yacho pachayo! Zvichida achaedza kudzorera zvinhu zvose "sezvazvaiva", nokuti iyi inyaya inozivikanwa uye inonzwisisika. Uye zvakadaro, nekukudziridza hunhu hutsva mauri, unomubatsira kuwana mativi matsva ake. Huya ne "makadhi ekufona" matsva: nenzira iyi iwe uchaita kuti hupenyu hwako hupfume uye huwedzere kunakidza, uye iwe unozogonawo kuwana maficha matsva muhukama huripo.