Mhoro, shamwari! Tatiana Erokhina ari kutaura newe. Nhasi inyaya inosuruvarisa: Zvinodemba vanhu vasati vafa.
Munyori weAustralia Bronnie Ware anga ari mukoti wechipatara kwemakore mazhinji. Akabatsira varwere kubvisa marwadzo avo panguva iyo mweya unobva mumuviri.
Bronnie akanyora chinyorwa chakazove bhuku rainzi The Five Commandments yehupenyu hunogutsa. Bhuku rake rakashandurirwa mumitauro makumi maviri nenomwe, uye kubva kuna mukoti ari nyore Bronnie Ware akashandurwa kuita munyori ane mukurumbira pasi rose.
“Vanhu vanochinja zvikuru pavanotarisana norufu rwavo vamene,” anodaro Ware, “ndakaona kuti mano omunhu aya haafaniri kurerutswa.
Bronnie Ware
Dzimwe dzechinjo dzacho dzaishamisa. Munhu mumwe nomumwe anosangana nehuwandu hwemanzwiro asati aenda. Kuramba, kutya, kutsamwa, kuzvidemba, kuramba zvakanyanya, uye pakupedzisira kugamuchira.
Munhu wese akabatwa nekugadzikana kunoshamisa asati aenda kune imwe nyika. "Munguva dzekugadzikana, akavabvunza mubvunzo mumwechete:" Vaizoda kurarama hupenyu hwavo sei kana paine mukana wekuzvidzokorora? ”
Chinodemba vanhu vasati vafa
“Ndinoda kuva noushingi hwokurarama upenyu hwangu nenzira yaida mwoyo wangu. Uye kwete sezvandaifanira kunge ndakazviitira vanhu vakandikomberedza ”. Iyi ndiyo mhinduro yaiwanzoitwa nevanhu vaiziva kuti vaenda uye vaitaura nemoyo wakachena.
"Ndinonzwira urombo simba uye nguva yandakapedza ndichiita basa renguva dzose, risingafadzi," - kwaive kupfidza kwechirume chete uye kwakanzwika kubva mumiromo yevarume.
"Ndinoda kurarama ndichitaura zvandinonzwa chaizvo, zvinogara mumoyo mangu." Vanhu vakawanda havabvumiri mirangariro yavo chaiyoiyo kubuda kuitira kuti varege kuva nerwisano dzisiri madikanwa ndokugara murugare navamwe.
Izvi zvinotungamirira kuidi rokuti havagoni kuva zvavari chaizvoizvo. Havana mukana wekuzviratidza uye kuzviziva. Shungu uye kutsamwa muhupenyu hwako handizi shamwari dzakanakisa.
“Ndine urombo kuti handina kuramba ndichishamwaridzana neshamwari dzangu.” Vazhinji vavo vakanga vakabatikana zvikuru noupenyu hwavo hwomunhu oga zvokuti vakarega kuchengeta ukama hwoushamwari neshamwari.
Asi vakapfidza pamusoro paikoku bedzi pamugumo chaipo poupenyu hwavo, vachionga ukoshi hwoukama hwoushamwari. “Vose vanosuwa shamwari dzavo zvikuru,” anodaro Bronnie. "Ndinganzwa kufara nekuda kwekuti ndinorarama."
Mukati moupenyu hwavo, vakawanda havazivi zvizere kuti mufarwa chisarudzo chavo chomunhu oga. Vaiganhurirwa netsika dzavo nemaitiro. Kutya kuchinja kwakavadzivisa kufara.
Bronnie Ware akaedza kunzwisisa vanhu ava. Akavabatsira kukoshesa makore apfuura. Kuitira kuti vasazoora mwoyo zvachose pavanoyambuka chikumbaridzo chekusadzoka. Unofanira kurarama uchifara wobvawo.
Shamwari, tora mhedzisiro yako! Govera mifungo yako mutsinhiro dzechinyorwa chinoti “Zvinodemba Vanhu Vasati Vafa: Zvakazarurwa.” Ndatenda!