Kuvandudza tekinoroji kunokanganisa hupenyu hwepabonde, zvichipa mikana yaimbove isingafungidzirwe. Semuenzaniso, tumirana meseji uye mafoto ehukama hwepedyo. Kune kunyange zita rakasiyana rechiitiko ichi - kutumira mameseji. Chii chinokurudzira vakadzi kuita izvi uye ndedzipi vavariro dzevarume?
Kutumira mameseji mameseji chinhu chepasirese: vese Jeff Bezos (muzvinabhizimisi, mukuru weAmazon. - Approx. ed.), Rihanna, uye vechidiki vari kubatanidzwa mairi, kunyange zvishoma kudarika zvingafungidzirwa nemunhu, kana iwe uchitenda misoro yenhau media. Uye hapana mhinduro iri nyore kumubvunzo nei tichiita izvi.
Zvisinei, izvi hazvirevi kuti mubvunzo wacho pachawo haufaniri kubvunzwa. Muchidzidzo chechangobva kuitika, nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu Morgan Johnstonbach weYunivhesiti yeArizona akabvunza vechidiki vakapindura - vadzidzi ve1000 kubva kumakoroji manomwe - chii chinotanga kuvaita kuti vatumire mameseji ezvepabonde, uye vakashamisika kana zvinokurudzira zvevarume nevakadzi zvakasiyana. Akakwanisa kuona zvikonzero zviviri zvikuru zvinokurudzira vadiwa kuti vatumire mifananidzo yavo isina mushwi: mhinduro kune chikumbiro chemugamuchiri uye chishuwo chekuwedzera kuzviremekedza kwavo.
Chikonzero chakanyanya - kuve nemugamuchiri - chaive chimwe chete kune vese vakadzi (73%) nevarume (67%). Uye zvakare, makumi mana muzana evakapindura veese varume vakabvuma kutumira mafoto akadaro kuitira kugutsa chikumbiro chemudiwa. Mhedziso yekupedzisira yakashamisa muongorori: "Zvinoitika kuti vakadzi vanobvunzawo vadyidzani nezveizvi, uye vanosangana navo pakati."
Zvisinei, vakadzi vane 4 nguva yakawanda kupfuura varume kuti vatumire mapikicha avo kwavari kuitira kuti varege kurasikirwa nekufarira uye kutanga kutarisa mifananidzo yevamwe vakadzi. Uhwu ufakazi hwokuti kuchine mipimo yakapetwa kaviri munzanga, nyanzvi yezvamagariro avanhu ine chokwadi: “Ndakafunda mabhuku akawanda ane chokuita noukama uye nzvimbo yapedyo, uye ndaikarira kuti paizova nedzvinyiriro huru pavakadzi muna ikoku: ivo vanonzwa. kumanikidzwa kutumira mameseji akadaro” .
Asi, semune dzimwe nyaya dzine chekuita nebonde neimwe nzira, hukama hwevakadzi nekutumira mameseji ekutumira mameseji hwakaoma uye hahuenderane nechirongwa che "akabvunza - ndakatumira". Johnstonbach akawana kuti vakadzi vane mukana we 4 kakawanda kupfuura varume kuti vatumire mameseji akadaro kuti vawane chivimbo mavari, uye kaviri kakawanda kuti vawedzere kuzviremekedza kwavo. Mukuwedzera, varapi vezvepabonde vanocherechedza kuti vakadzi vanotendeutswa nekuziva kuti vanoshuviwa.
Sosaiti inoganhurira varume kuchimiro chechirume, uye havaoni sezvinobvira kutaura vamene neiyi nzira.
"Kutsinhana kwemashoko akadaro kunogadzira nzvimbo iyo mukadzi anogona kutaura zvakachengeteka uye kuongorora muviri wake," nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu inotsanangura. Saka, zvichida mutambo wacho unokodzera kenduru, kunyange zvazvo matanda akakwirira pano: pane nguva dzose njodzi yokuti mapikicha akadaro achaonekwa nevaya vane maziso avo vasina kuitirwa. Kune dzakawanda zviitiko zvakadaro, uye, sekutonga, vakadzi ndivo vanova vanyajambwa.
Ndiko kuti, kune rumwe rutivi, nekutumira mameseji akadaro, vakadzi vanonyatsova nechivimbo mukati mavo, kune rumwe rutivi, vanowanzotenda kuti vanongofanira kuzviita. Anna ane makore 23 anoyeuka kuti, “Kuti ndiite kuti aimbova shamwari yangu apindure mameseji ekare kana kuti angotaura neni, ndaifanira kumutumira mashoko “ane tsvina” pashure pake. — Chaizvoizvo, ndosaka akazova wekutanga. Asi, kune rumwe rutivi, kuwedzera kwekufarira kwake, hongu, kwakandifadza.
Vakadzi vanocherechedza kuti pavanokumbira kutumira «vakashama» mapikicha, varume kazhinji havanzwisisi kuti ndeipi nhanho yekuvimba inodiwa kune izvi. Panguva imwecheteyo, varume pachavo vanowanzoshamiswa kunzwa chikumbiro chakafanana. Saka, Max ane makore makumi maviri nemaviri anobvuma kuti haana kumbotumira vasikana mapikicha ake muhafu-akashama fomu uye haaoni zvakakodzera kuita izvi.
"Mumusika wekufambidzana, varume nevakadzi vane "midziyo" yakasiyana. Mukomana anogona kudada nemari yake kana kuita zvechirume zvakanyanya - zvinotendwa kuti izvi zvinowedzera mikana yedu uye zvinoita kuti tiwedzere kukwezva mumaziso evasikana. Vasikana vakasiyana."
Kune rimwe divi, varume vari mukuwedzera kuri pachena - ivo havasi pasi pekumanikidzwa kwakadai sevakadzi. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvinoratidzika kuti mufaro wekutumira mameseji unowanikwawo kwavari kune zvishoma. Sei, kunyange mushure mekutumira mapikicha epedyo, varume vasinganzwi kuwedzera kwekuzvivimba kwakafanana nevakadzi? Johnstonbach achatsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu mune ramangwana.
"Zvichida imhaka yekuti nzanga inoganhurira varume kuhurume uye havafungi kuti zvinogoneka kutaura nenzira iyoyo," anodaro. Chero zvazvingava, nguva inotevera yaunenge wave kuda kutumira mumwe munhu mufananidzo wako usina kupfeka, dzikama uye funga kuti sei uri kuzviita.