Manheru eMoscow, nzira yepasi pevhu, pane mukadzi ane mwana mumaoko ake, uye padivi pevamwe vana vatatu-yakasviba, ine nzara… Haugoni kushamisika: “Sei mumwe munhu aine vana, vana vazhinji, asi hapana mukana kana chishuwo chekuvachengeta - vanhu ava dzimwe nguva vanotosiya mwana wavo, uye mumwe munhu achirota nezvevana, asi, zvinosuwisa, haape mukana wakadaro… ”. Zvinetso zvine chekuita nekutorwa kwevana, anodaro wezvepfungwa Natalia Poletaeva.
Chokwadi, zviverengero zvinotivhundutsa nenhamba yevana "vakaramba", kunyangwe kusvika kune zvimwe zvipatara zvakave nemakamuri akakosha ekugamuchira vana vasingazivikanwe. Matambudziko ezuva nezuva, njodzi zhinji uye njodzi dzinongoitika dzoga dzinotorera vana vevabereki vavo, vanosara vega… Asi pamwe Mwari vanosiya vamwe vanhu mukana wekuti vachengete avo vakatorerwa rudo rwavo naamai vavo.
Ndakagara ndichiyemura vanhu vakagamuchira mwana! Ehezve, ichi hachisi chisarudzo chakareruka uye kwete nzira yakapusa, asi yakashinga kwazvo, yakanaka kwazvo, yakatendeka! Zvakare, danho iri rinotemerwa kwete chete neavo mhuri vasina mukana wekuva nevana vavo, asiwo neavo vanotova nevana vavo, uye kune kudziya kwakanyanya zvekuti vakagadzirira kutora mumwe munhu kuti vamurere .
Kuita sarudzo yakadaro hazvisi nyore, pane mibvunzo yakawanda: ndichamumutsa sei? Zvichashanda here kana kuti kwete? Tichakwanisa here kuva mhuri chaiyo? Achandida here? Chinhu chakakosha pano kusatya! Maitiro ekurera (pamwe nekuzvitakura) haakurumidze, uye une nguva yekugadzirira! Kunze kwekugadzirisa matambudziko nemapepa, iwe unogona kuenda kumakirasi akasarudzika ekugadzirira vabereki kurera mwana. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzichapindura mibvunzo yako, dzinokubatsira kubvisa kusahadzika uye nekukudzidzisa iwe kuti unzwisise mwana, kuti zvive nyore kwauri kuti umurere.
Maitiro ekuchinjisa emwana mumhuri yekurera anoenderana zvakanyanya nezera iri: mudiki mucheche, zviri nyore kwaari kuti ajairane nevabereki vake, uye zvinonetsa zvemhuri zvevabereki zvinonyanya kuve zvine chekuita nekutarisirwa kwemwana. Mukuru mwana, zvakanyanya kumuomera kuti achinjise kune mamiriro matsva, asi panguva imwechete zviri nyore kuti vabereki vaite naye, kuti vawane mutauro wakajairika. Muchokwadi, chakakosha chinhu chishuwo nerudo. Mwana anonzwa kunetsekana kwako opindura nekudzoka.
Shamwari, mhuri, shamwari, vatinoshanda navo-kune vanhu vazhinji vakatikomberedza, asi ndiani wavo zvechokwadi, anoda zvechokwadi, anokoshesa uye anokunzwisisa? Mwana chete ndiye anokwanisa kwemanzwiro echokwadi, mumaziso ake chete ndimo muchaverenga mazwi erudo, chete mumaoko ake ndipo pauchanzwa hunyoro chaihwo. Mushure mezvose, zvakakosha kwazvo kuti unzwe kuti mumwe munhu anokuda. Pane imwe nguva murume akandiudza kuti kumufarira kunodiwa nemumwe munhu! Nditende, mamirioni evana vasina murume vanokuda, ivo vanonyatsoda iwe…
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