Usaite zvisarudzo muupenyu zvichibva pazano reavo vasingazofaniri kurarama nemigumisiro yacho, anodaro munyori weblogger Janet Bertholus. Uye ipapo anopa mazano matatu anokosha zvikuru.
Munguva ichangopfuura ndakakumbirwa kupa mazano munyaya dzerudo - asi handikwanise. Zvakafanana nekupa mazano ekuti ungakura sei zucchini hombe kana kuti ungadzidzira sei kuridza piyano. Zvese izvi ndaiedza kuzviita ndikatobudirira pane chimwe chinhu. Asi kudzidzisa vanhu kubudirira murudo kunotsvedza zvikuru. Haugoni kudzidzisa munhu kuti anzwe sei.
Hongu, pane mitemo, asi semunhu akambodanana, ndinokuudza kuti izvi hazvina maturo.
Unosimuka ugere pachigaro chako kusvikira wasvika pakakwirira paunoda. Ipapo zvinwiwa zvinopihwa kwauri uye firimu rinoiswa kusvika iyo mhirizhonga zone yatanga. Uye wobva wadzosa chigaro chako kunzvimbo yakatwasuka, tora parachuti uye usiye chikepe, kana iwe wakachengeteka ukasangana nezvose izvi uye unotarisira kuti denga richave rakajeka zvakare uye kutiza kunenge kwakajairika.
Zvinonyatsouya kune idzi sarudzo mbiri.
Tiza, zvipedze, chero zvaungada kuzvidaidza, kana kutsungirira uye kumirira mangwana anouya. Chinhu chakaita semhou inovanza musoro mujecha. Uye neimwe nzira kushivirira uku kunoita kuti utaridzike somutsvene. Uye nenzira, sezvo ndaiva mhou imwe chete iyoyo uye mutsvene, uye kunyange avo vakaburuka kubva mundege nechinguvana, handigoni kudzivirira mumwe wavo. Ndinoona zvinoreva mune zvese maitiro, izvo zvinotidzosera kumutsara wekutanga. Handizivi tsvina.
Humwe hukama hwakanakisa hwandati ndamboona (kusanganisira muchato wangu) hunotaridzika zvakaipa papepa paunotanga kutsanangura.
Handikwanise kukuudza zvichashanda nezvisingashande. Humwe hukama hwakanakisa hwandakaona, kusanganisira muchato wangu wemakore gumi nemashanu, tarisa zvakaipa pamapepa paunotanga kuatsanangura. Semuyenzaniso, tose tiri makondohwe, kureva kuti mumwe nemumwe wedu anogara akarurama, uye tiri vebato rezvematongerwo enyika vakasiyana — hongu, dai takaurayana panguva iyi!
Kungoti wakaroora hazvikuite shasha yehukama. Ndingaite sei kuti ndive nyanzvi pane chimwe chinhu chandakatadza kakawanda uye kamwe chete ndakazochigadzirisa uye ndikabudirira? Uye handikwanise kutsanangura kuti sei kana kuti zvinoshanda sei. Kana chiremba anovhiya akakuudza izvi nezvake, waizomuvimba noupenyu hwako here?
Uye usarega chero munhu achikuudza kuti nzira iyi yakazara nemaruva.
Ichi chidzidzo chekuti ungawana sei kuwirirana. Aya masokisi akasviba pasi, maonero anopikisa panyaya dzakawanda uye kurwisana kwezvematongerwo enyika. Uye chingori manheru eChishanu chimwe chete. Asi inzwa, angadai akataura zvakafanana nezvangu.
Tinosangana nezvakawanda zvakashata. Ichokwadi. Yandakadaidza kuti turbulence zone. Ndinofunga kuti ndakasarudza kuti ndaigona kutsungirira, asi kutaura chokwadi, handiyeuki ndichiita chisarudzo chakadaro.
Uye ndinofunga ndichangobva kuita sarudzo yekuramba ndichimuda.
Dzimwe nguva zviri nyore, dzimwe nguva kwete zvachose. Murume wangu kana abatwa neflue kana kupiswa nezuva anochema-chema achichema-chema achiti ndinofanira kushanda nesimba kuti ndisamuuraye.
Ndakabva ndaita decision yekuramba ndichidanana
Rudo is alchemy, zvinoreva kuti isayenzi. Ndiyo sarudzo yangu.
Asi kana iwe uchida mutemo mumwe chete, saka hezvino. Kunyange matatu:
1. Murume wako anofanira kukuseka - zvirinani - kamwechete pasvondo.
2. Anofanira kukuvigira kofi - zvishoma - pakupera kwevhiki.
3. Zvinofanira kuita kuti unzwe senge "Damn, ndinokuda!" - kamwe chete pamwedzi.
Uye zvingave zvakanaka kana uchigara uine ... kwete, kwete bonde, asi nguva dzerudo. Pane musiyano.
Asi iwe unoziva, ndakakuudza kare, handisi kunzwisisa chinhu chakaipa pamusoro pazvo.
Ingo rudo nepese paunokwanisa uye edza kuti mangwana zviite nani.