Dzimwe nguva vanochemawo, vanoona kutya uye kusachengeteka uye vanoda rubatsiro rwepfungwa. Uye hapana nzira iri nani yekuzviwana uye kubvisa kutya kupfuura kambani yechirume. Mushumo kubva kuParis kudzidziswa uko vakadzi vasingabvumirwi kupinda.
Chikoro cheParis cheGestalt Therapy chinopa kudzidziswa kwemazuva matatu kwevarume chete. Pairi, mutori wenhau wePsychologies akawana kudiwa kwekuzvidzivirira, kutya ungochani uye simba remisodzi yemajoini. Akadzokera kuhofisi yevapepeti achinjwa ndokutaura kuti zvakanga zviri sei.
Kupesana nezvino
"Tadpole iripi?"
Pazuva rechitatu remakirasi, zvaive zvakakodzera kuwana totem mhuka. Ndakasarudza salmon. Pakuberekana, inokwira kumusoro. Njodzi dziri munzira iyi hadziverengeki, basa rakaoma. Zvisinei, anokwanisa. Mutungamiriri akandikumbira kuti ndirare pasi. Ipapo akakumbira vazvipiri vana kuti vagare kumusana kwangu, uye ndaifanira kushanda nomuuyu miviri yakakora. Uye panguva iyoyo ndakanzwa kuti akashata kwazvo pakati pavo, asina kunaka, Oscar1, akanditsamwisa kubva pazuva rokutanga, anodonhedzera makirogiramu makumi mapfumbamwe ehuremu hwake pambabvu dzangu nokunyemwerera: “Uye rukaviro urwu rwuripi?”
Chimwe chezviitwa chaisanganisira kujoinha muzvitatu: vaviri vaimiririra vabereki, baba naamai, uye wechitatu aive "mucheche" akamonereka pakati pavo.
Kudzidziswa uku kwakandikwezva nechirevo chayo chinoti: “Kana uri murume, huya!”. Izvi zvinokwezva kumurume, hunhu hunotsamwisa: kuita sei kuva murume? Kwandiri, kana kune mamwe gumi nemaviri echirume akaungana pasi pedenga iri mumaruwa eNorman, uyu hausi mubvunzo unozviratidza.
— Kune vakomana vakawanda vari kukuya fodya yavo pamusuwo, zvakaipa! - Eric, wandakasangana naye kuti ndinwe imwe nguva mushure mekudzidziswa, anoyeuka kutya kwake pamusoro pekutanga: "Semwana, ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kumira munzvimbo dzaive nevarume chete. Ese marooms ekupfeka aya. Uku kurara nemhuka. Huvepo hwemukadzi hwagara huchindipa chivimbo. Ndichava sei pano? Uye zvakadiniko nokunyengera? Ini ndinoda kunyengerera ... ”Akanyemwerera: kurerukirwa izvozvi kutaura nezvazvo wakasununguka. “Ndaiziva kuti pakati pedu paiva nengochani. Ndakanga ndichitya kuti ndingadiwa hangu, uye kuti shure kwokutya uku kungavanda kuchiva kwangu. Ndakaseka hangu. “Fungidzira, uye ndakarayira kuti ndiiswe mune imwe imba yokurara yakaparadzana!” Isu takambopfuura neizvi…
varume vanochemawo
Tichiri kutanga kudzidziswa, takamanikidzwa kuonana, pasinei nezvinoda kuita zvepabonde. Iyi ingangove tsika yakajairika kumapoka evarume, uye zvechokwadi yakajairika kuGestalt therapy, uko tactile chiitiko chinoita basa rakakosha.
Kumbundikira, kunzwa muviri wemunhu unodziya uye unotonhorera, kubata zvakanaka paruoko, pabendekete chikamu chebasa ratinopihwa.
Chimwe chezviitwa chaisanganisira kujoinha muzvitatu: vaviri vaive vabereki, baba naamai, uye wechitatu aive "mwana" akamonereka pakati pavo. "Munhu wese akambundira, inobatanidza." Ndangariro yacho yakaita kuti Erik afinyamise kumeso. “Zvakanga zvakandiomera. Ndakapererwa nemweya wekufema. " Akazotiudza nezvemhoteredzo yaakakurira: amai vane masimba masimba, baba vasina chiso.
Asi zvino, apo mumwe nomumwe paakachinja nzvimbo nevamwe, izvi zvakaita kuti zvibvire kuwana dzimwe nguva mirangariro inopokana zvikuru, kubva pakunyaradza uye nyaradzo kusvika pakuora mwoyo uye kufunganya. “Mwana watinotya kupwanya,” ndakarangarira kudaro. "Tinotya uye tinoda kupwanya." "Uye dzimwe nguva - mufaro mukuru. Tichibva kure kure,” akawedzera.
Mushure mezvose, isu tose tine matambudziko akafanana: kuchiva, kunyengedza, matambudziko nababa, amai vane chiremera kana kusuruvara pamusoro pekurasikirwa kwavo kwepakutanga, kutya kuva voga.
Mazwi akadururwa. Kutaura kwemanzwiro - kusanganisira dzimwe nguva kusakwanisa kunzwa - pamwe nekubata kuri kutsanangura mapoka evarume. Shingai kutarisana mumaziso. “Ndiri mumwe wevanoitira vana vangu utsinye,” akadaro mumwe wedu. — Hasha dzakawandisa. Ndinoda kuvauraya. Ndinovada, asi ndinogona kuvauraya. " Pakamboita runyararo. Kwaisava kushora munhu aitaura, asi kunyarara uchitarisira chimwe chinhu. Ipapo izwi rakadaidzira: "Neniwo." Zvadaro mumwe. Vazhinji vedu takaruma mumaziso. "Neniwo," ndakadaro. - Uye neniwo". Spasm of sobs, hombe hombe dzemisodzi. "Neniwo ndoitawo saizvozvo." Ndakanzwa kubatwa ruoko kunodziya, kunonyaradza. Kuva murume hazvisi izvo chete, asi kuti zvakare.
Yakarasika Illusions
Muboka revarume, mubvunzo wepabonde unomukawo. Nezvekusangana pabonde.
Tinotaura nokutendeseka, kunyanya sezvo takaungana mumapoka evanhu vatatu kana kuti vana, sokunge kuti tiri mudzimba dzokurara. “Pandinomupinza neminwe miviri, mitatu, uye ipapo mina, ndinonzwa ndiri pedyo zvikuru kupfuura pandinozviita nenhengo, nokuti haagamuchiri uye haazivi sezvinoita muromo weminwe yake,” Daniel anogoverana nesu, mu zvakadzama kudaro, zvekuti tese tine chimwe chinhu chekufunga nezvazvo. Mark anotora pasi: "Pandinoda kuwana mukomana, zvese zviri nyore: ndinoda kumuisa pambongoro." Uye izvi, zvakare, zvinotipinza mukufunga.
“Handisati ndambozvitarisa saizvozvo,” Daniel akadaro. Tese takaseka. Mushure mezvose, isu tose tine kunetseka kwakafanana: kuchiva, kunyengedza, matambudziko nababa, amai vane chiremera kana kusuruvara nekuda kwekurasikirwa kwavo kwepakutanga, kutya kusurukirwa. Uye dzimwe nguva tinonzwa sevakomana vadiki mumuviri wechirume. “Ndatochembera, uye handichamuki sezvandaisimboita,” mumwe wevaratidziri akabvuma kudaro. “Mwari anoziva kuti ndakakuda sei!” Potency isimba redu rakakosha, asi kana iwe uchifunga kuti inotsiva zvese, inongove manyepo. Hapana chinogara nekusingaperi, sekutaura kunoita vaBuddha.
Vakomana vakava varume
Paveranda patiri kunwa, Eric anotora nzungu: "Ndakadzidza kubva mukudzidziswa uku kuti zvine ngozi sei kuziva nezve erection yako. Kwenguva yakareba ndaifunga kuti kuti urambe uchifara, murume anofanira kuchengetedza potency. Iye zvino ndoziva kuti zviri nani kuparadzanisa zvinhu izvi. " Idzi indangariro dzakanaka. Kind. Manheru taisangana, munhu wose aivapo, patafura refu yemapuranga.
“Semamongi,” akadaro Eric.
“Kana kuti vafambisi vengarava,” ndakakarakadza kudaro.
Waini yakayerera ipapo. “Aiwa, zvamazvirokwazvo,” shamwari yangu yakawedzera, “ndakaguma ndafunga kuti kuva pasina vakadzi kwamazuva mashoma iwayo kwakanga kuchizorodza zvikuru. Pakupedzisira handina kufanira kunyenga munhu upi noupi!”
Kugara kwemazuva mashoma aya pasina vakadzi kwaizorodza zvikuru. Pakupedzisira ndakanga ndisingafaniri kunyenga munhu!
Hongu, paivewo nenyaya iyoyo ne "tadpole". Ndichiri mukomana, ndainzi «tadpole mumagaba» nokuda kwemagirazi.
Ndakatambura. Ndaiva mudiki, ndiri ndega uye ndakapfeka magirazi. Uye zvino kamwe kamwe, makore gare gare, pandakaedza nepandinogona napo kuve salmon, ndiri ndoga pamberi pechidziro chevarume, iyi hosha yemunhu, nekunhuhwirira kwavo, kuchema kwechirume, vhudzi, mazino, ndakanzwa ndichiwira mugomba rehudiki. , apo zvinhu zvose, o izvo zvandakakumbira - kushamwaridzana kweshamwari, ruoko runosimbisa pafudzi. Uye benzi iroro rinofanira kunge rakavhuna mbabvu yangu! Ipapo mumwe mutungamiriri werovedzo akapinda kuti andisunungure. Asi aya akanga asiri magumo. “Zvino, irwa! Rwisa bere."
Oscar aive bere. Hondo yacho yakavimbisa kuva yakatanhamara. Ndakarwa nemurume kaviri kurema kwangu. Ndiani pakupedzisira akabvuma kwatiri kuti aishungurudzwa nevaaidzidza navo. Akanga akareba, akareba, uye ainyara zvokuti haana kutya kuzvidzivirira: shure kwezvose, aida kudiwa, asi haana kuziva kuti dzimwe nguva zvakanga zvakakodzera kurwisana neizvi, uye naizvozvo akazvidzwa. kuvengwa nokudumbirwa nezvibhakera. Takanetsana. Oscar akandichengeta mbabvu dzangu dzairwadza. Asi kubata kwake kwaive kwakasimba uye maziso ake aive neushamwari uye akapfava. “Uyai, murase zvose zvamaunganidza. Sununguka.» Ane izwi rakadzika, izwi remurume.
1 Nezvikonzero zvekuvanzika, mazita uye rumwe ruzivo rwemunhu zvakashandurwa.