Kupfupisa makore mazhinji ebasa, mune zvakawanikwa zve intuition, kutsvagisa uye kuporesa, mugadziri we psychogenealogy, Ann Anselin Schutzenberger, anotaura nezve nzira yake uye kuti zvakamuomera sei kuti akunde kuzivikanwa.
Psychology: Wakawana sei psychogenealogy?
Ann Anselin Schutzenberger: Ini ndakagadzira izwi rekuti "psychogeneology" mukutanga ma1980 kuti nditsanangurire kuvadzidzi vangu vepfungwa paYunivhesiti yeNice kuti hukama hwemhuri chii, hunopfuudzwa sei, uye kuti mutsara wezvizvarwa unowanzo "kushanda." Asi izvi zvaive zvatove mugumisiro weimwe tsvakiridzo uye mhedzisiro yemakore angu makumi maviri eruzivo rwekiriniki.
Wakatanga kugamuchira dzidzo yekirasi yepfungwa?
AA Š . Kwete saizvozvo. Mukuvamba kwama1950, pashure pokupedza fundo dzangu muUnited States uye kudzokera kunyika yokumusha kwangu, ndaida kutaura nenyanzvi yavanhu. Ndakasarudza senyanzvi yepfungwa nyanzvi munyaya iyi, mutungamiriri weMuseum of Man, Robert Jessen, akanga amboshanda sachiremba panzendo dzokuNorth Pole. Mupfungwa yakati, akanga ari iye akandivhurira suo kunyika youkama hwemarudzi akawanda, achindiudza nezvetsika iyi yevaEskimo: kana munhu akafa achivhima, mugove wake wezvakapambwa unoenda kumuzukuru wake.
Robert Jessen akataura kuti rimwe zuva, achipinda muigloo, akanzwa nokushamisika kukuru nzira iyo muenzi wehosi akatendeukira noruremekedzo kumwana wake nemashoko okuti: “Sekuru, kana muchibvumira, tichakoka uyu mutorwa kuzodya nesu.” Zvino maminetsi mashoma gare gare akanga achitaura naye zvakare semwana.
Nyaya iyi yakavhura maziso angu kuti ndione mabasa atinowana, kune rumwe rutivi, mumhuri yedu, uye kune rumwe rutivi, tichitungamirirwa nemadzitateguru edu.
Vose vana vanoziva zviri kuitika mumba, kunyanya izvo zvakavanzika kubva kwavari.
Zvino, mushure maJeseni, pakanga pane Francoise Dolto: panguva iyoyo yainzi yakanaka fomu, watopedza kuongorora kwako, kuti utarise zvakare.
Uye saka ndinouya kuDolto, uye chinhu chekutanga chaanondibvunza kuti nditaure nezvehupenyu hwepabonde hweambuya-mbuya vangu. Ndinopindura kuti handina ruzivo nezvenyaya iyi, sezvo ndakawana vana mbuya vangu vatova shirikadzi. Uye anozvidza: “Vana vese vanoziva zviri kuitika mumba, kunyanya izvo zvakavanzika kwavari. Tsvaga…"
Uye pakupedzisira, pfungwa yechitatu inokosha. Rimwe zuva shamwari yangu yakandikumbira kuti tisangane nehama yake yakanga ichifa nekenza. Ndakaenda kumba kwavo ndikasvika muimba yekutandarira ndakaona pane mufananidzo wemukadzi aive akanaka chaizvo. Zvakazoonekwa kuti ava vaiva amai vemurwere, vakafa nekenza pazera remakore 34. Mukadzi wandakasvika akanga ari wezera rimwe chetero.
Kubva panguva iyoyo zvichienda mberi, ndakatanga kutarisisa nezvemazuva ekuyeukwa, nzvimbo dzezviitiko, hurwere… Nokudaro, psychogenealogy yakazvarwa.
Chii chaive chekuita kwenharaunda yepfungwa?
AA Š . Vanachiremba vepfungwa havana kundiziva, uye vamwe vanhu vangangofunga kuti ndaiva muroti kana kuti mupengo. Asi hazvina basa. Handifungi kuti vakaenzana neni, kunze kwevashoma. Ndinoita boka rekuongorora, ndinoita psychodrama, ndinoita zvinhu zvavanozvidza.
Handienderane navo, asi handina basa nazvo. Ini ndinoda kuvhura magonhi uye ndinoziva kuti psychogenealogy icharatidza kushanda kwayo mune ramangwana. Uyezve, Orthodox Freudianism inoshandukawo nekufamba kwenguva.
Panguva imwecheteyo, wakasangana nekufarira kunoshamisa kubva kuruzhinji…
AA Š . Psychogenealogy yakaonekwa panguva apo vanhu vakawanda vakafarira madzitateguru avo uye vakanzwa kudiwa kwekuwana midzi yavo. Zvisinei, ndinotodemba kuti munhu wose akanga akatakurwa.
Nhasi, chero munhu anogona kutaura kuti ari kushandisa psychogenealogy asina kudzidziswa kwakakomba, uko kunofanirwa kusanganisira dzidzo yepamusoro yepamusoro uye basa rekiriniki. Vamwe havana chavanoziva munzvimbo iyi zvekuti vanoita zvikanganiso zvakakura mukuongorora nekududzira, vachitungamira vatengi vavo kurasika.
Avo vari kutsvaga nyanzvi vanofanirwa kubvunza nezve hunyanzvi uye zvikwaniriso zvevanhu vanozvipira kuvabatsira, uye kwete kuita chirevo: "munhu wese akamupoteredza anoenda, ini ndichaendawo."
Iwe unonzwa here kuti zvakafanira zvako zvakatorerwa kwauri?
AA Š . Ehe. Uye ini ndinoshandiswawo neavo vanoshandisa nzira yangu vasinganzwisise kukosha kwayo.
Mazano nemashoko, achiiswa mukutenderera, anoenderera mberi achirarama hupenyu hwawo. Ini handina simba pamusoro pekushandiswa kwezwi rekuti "psychogeneology." Asi ini ndinoda kudzokorora kuti psychogenealogy inzira yakafanana neimwe nzira. Haisi panacea kana kiyi kiyi: chingori chimwe chishandiso chekuongorora nhoroondo yako nemidzi yako.
Hapana chikonzero chekurerutsa: psychogenealogy haisi yekushandisa imwe matrix kana kutsvaga nyaya dzakareruka dzemazuva anodzokororwa izvo zvisingagaroreve chimwe chinhu mukati uye pachezvazvo - isu tinowira munjodzi yekuwira mune isina hutano "saona mania". Zvakaomawo kuita psychogenealogy uri wega, wega. Ziso remurapi rinodiwa kuti riteedzere kuomarara kwese kwekubatana kwekufunga uye kusachengetedzwa, semuongororo chero ipi neipi yepfungwa.
Kubudirira kwenzira yako kunoratidza kuti vanhu vazhinji havawani nzvimbo yavo mumhuri uye vanotambura neizvi. Nei zvakaoma kudaro?
AA Š . Nekuti tiri kunyeperwa. Nokuti zvimwe zvinhu zvakavanzwa kwatiri, uye kunyarara kunosanganisira kutambura. Naizvozvo, isu tinofanira kuedza kunzwisisa kuti sei takatora iyi nzvimbo mumhuri, kuronda ketani yezvizvarwa umo isu tiri imwe chete yezvibatanidza, uye funga nezvekuti tingazvisunungura sei.
Pane nguva dzose inouya nguva yaunofanirwa kugamuchira nhoroondo yako, mhuri yauinayo. Iwe haugone kushandura zvekare. Unogona kuzvidzivirira kwaari kana uchimuziva. Ndizvo zvose. Nenzira, psychogenealogy inofarirawo mumafaro akave akakosha muhupenyu hwemhuri. Kuchera mubindu remhuri yako hakusi kuzviunganidzira matambudziko uye kutambura, asi kubata navo kana madzitateguru asina kuita izvi.
Saka nei tichida psychogenealogy?
AA Š . Kuzviudza kuti: "Zvisinei kuti chii chakaitika mumhuri yangu yakapfuura, zvisinei kuti madzitateguru angu akaita uye akawana chii, pasinei nezvavanondivanzira, mhuri yangu imhuri yangu, uye ndinozvigamuchira nokuti handigoni kuchinja «. Kushandira mhuri yako yakapfuura kunoreva kudzidza kudududza kubva mairi uye kutora shinda youpenyu, upenyu hwako, mumaoko ako umene. Uye kana nguva yacho yasvika, zvipfuudze kuvana vako nemweya wakadzikama.