Mwana achiita zvinhu zvisina musoro

Mwana, mambo asina maturo

Pitchoun inoita kunge ine tarenda chaiyo yekukuratidza mavara ese! Asi tinofanira kunge tichitaura zvisina maturo here?

Hazvisi nyore kuti ugare wakadzikama paunoona makusheni eimba yekutandarira achiwaridzwa nejamu kana maketeni akanyatso kushandurwa kuita mapush! Nekudaro, kazhinji pane kwete, dhiabhori wako mudiki haazive kuita zvakaipa: pakati pegore 1 nemakore matatu, izvo vabereki vanodana "zvisina maturo" inzira dzake chete dzekuwana izvo zvakamukomberedza.. Chinhu chakakosha kutamba uye kunakidzwa!

Haana musoro

Mucheche anoda kukuratidza kuti anogona kudya ega, asi zvinosuruvarisa, ndiro yesobho inoguma pahovhorosi yake itsva! Zvino mubvunzo wekuti usapesanise kupusa nekukanuka ...

Mucheche haazivi panogumira muviri wake. Uye kazhinji, pfungwa dzake dzakajeka kupfuura zviito zvaanoshandisa kuawana. Izvi hazvireve kuti haakudzwe nemadiro akanaka! Kubva pamwedzi gumi nemasere, hupenzi hunowanzo buda mukutsvaga kuzvitonga…

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 Dzivisa mafungiro akaipa

Usati wafonera mwana akapusa, zvibvunze kuti ungadai wakaita sei dai chiitiko chinosiririsa chakaitika kune mumwe wevaenzi vako… Mugumisiro wakapotswa asi chirongwa chacho chakakodzera kukurudzirwa.

 Muratidze kuti angazviita sei zvakanaka

Mwana anokwanisa kudya ari ega, usaite kuti atende zvinopesana nekutora chipunu kubva mumaoko ake. Pane kudaro, muratidze maitirwo acho!

Gadzirisa zvisina maturo zvakadzokororwa

Hapasisina miganho yekuongorora kwake nekuti zvese zvinomufadza: kubata, kuona, kunzwa, zvese zvinobva pakunzwa kutsva uye hongu… hupenzi hutsva!

Attention ngozi !

Shanyira nemaziso emwana imba, gadheni kana chekufambisa… Zviri kwauri kudzivirira zvisingafadzi zvinoshamisa!

Zvese zviri munzira yeAttila mudiki zvinogona kupfuura ipapo. : ndiro yegoridhe, makapu ekristaro emuchato wako kana ndiro yembwa ...

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Ramba wakamutarisa ...

Chombo chakanakisa chekudzivirira kudzokororwa zvisina maturo kuramba wakatarisa muongorori wako mudiki, kunyanya kusazorora pakati pemwedzi 9 ne18.

Kudzivirira kunosanganisira kurambidza kwakawanda, kunotaurwa zvakajeka. Usazeze kudzokorora mirairo yako kakawanda, yako diki jack-ye-all-trades inoda kuyeuchidzwa kazhinji kuti uirangarira ...

Mutsigire mukuongorora kwake

Tarisa uye ongorora imba nemeso (uye kusvika!) Yemudiki wako anoda kuziva.

Muratidze zvokusabata, uchitsanangura chikonzero nei : panzvimbo pokumhanya pose paanosvika pachoto, ngaanzwe kupisa kuri mukati nokuunza ruoko rwake kumadziro. Zvirokwazvo haazodizve kutarisisa.

Nonsense, mubvunzo wezera

Ndizvo chete kubva pamakore masere, nekuda kwedzidzo yevabereki vake vanodiwa, kuti Bmwana anotanga kunzwisisa pfungwa dzezvakanaka nezvakaipa.

The link isipo? Mwana haasati anzwisisa chikonzero chezvosezvirambidzo kuti tinotaura naye zuva rose: zvakanaka, hatifanire kutamba neTV, asi sei sezvo zvichinakidza kupfuura matoyi ake?

Uye ndizvo chetekubva pamakore masere izvo mwana anoyemurika ari kutanga kunzwisisa interakadaro. La pfungwa ye causality anopinda muchiitiko: kana vase rakanaka raAmai rakatyoka, imhaka yekuti vakaribata… Anobva akwanisa kutarisira mhedzisiro yezviito zvake.

Asi zvese zvinosara kwaari zvizere nekupokana uye kukosha kwehupenzi hwake kuchiri kumutiza ...

Zvinotora mamwe makore mashoma kuti mwana wako mudiki awane pfungwa ye "Moral causation" : chii chinofadza amai, chii chakaipa chinovarwadza ...

Munguva iyi, hupenzi hunogona kuzove nzira chaiyo yekuzviratidza kune dhiyabhorosi mudiki ...

Nonsense, maitiro ekutaura

Zvinoda kutariswa zvishoma

Unogara wakabatikana kumba mushure mezuva rakabatikana, hauna nguva yekutarisira dhiabhori rako diki.

Anobva atsvaga kukwezva kutarisisa kwako chero zvipi zvazvo: Vasesi yaambuya pasina mubvunzo ichave inoshanda zvakanyanya pane kudhirowa kwakanaka mupenzura yemavara ... Muuyo wacho pasina panikiro uchararama mukuwirirana nekariro dzake! Nonsense inova meseji yakazara nezvainoreva ...

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Pedza nguva yakati wandei pane mudiki wako

Saka ita kuti atore chikamu muhupenyu hwemba! Kuibatanidza nezviitwa zvako nekuichengeta iri padyo newe kune zvakati wandei zvakanakira: unogona kutarisisa padhuze, mucheche anofara kugara padyo newe uye achakwanisa kuburitsa mafambiro ako zvakadzama, izvo zvinokurumidza kubatsira zvakanyanya kwauri. !

Usazeza kutaura naye nezvazvo

Kana achiwanzova anonzwisisa uye kamwe kamwe anotanga kubatanidza upenzi kuupenzi pasina kunzwisisa kwako chikonzero nei, usazeza kukurukura naye. Kana zvichidikanwa, bvunza chiremba wepfungwa, zvidzidzo zvishomanana zvingave zvakakwana kugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Kufamba, kuuya kwemukoma mudiki kana kupinda muchengeti wemasikati kunogona kumukonzera dambudziko rakawanda ...

Anodenha iwe

Vabereki vake vachingopinda mudenderedzwa rake, mwana mudiki asingagone anobatanidza ma tag pamadziro emba yekutandarira, achizadza imba yekugezera kana kubhururuka achitenderera muwadhiropu ... Kuona ziso rake rakangwara richikutarisa nehana, hazvina kuoma kuona kuti ari kutamba kudenha ...

Ikoko, zvichida yakakomba zvikuru. Chero mwana ari munguva yakakurumbira "kwete", anenge makore 2-3, kana akasarudza kudenha senzira yake yekutaura newe. Dhiyabhorosi mudiki anofanirwa kuziva miganhu yevabereki vake vaanoda kuti azvivake.

Kushivirira kwako kunozoedzwa zvakanyanya ... nekuti, seri kwehupenzi hwake hwese kwemarudzi ese, dhiabhorosi mudiki anoedza kusimba kwako uye simba rako.

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Isa miganhu yako zvakajeka

Ziva nzira yekumudaidza kuti aite uye kumupa chirango chidiki. Zvakwana ! Kana akasauya achipesana nemimwe miganho, anozoedzwa kuti aende mberi kuti aiwane.

Tsanangura zvinorambidzwa

Ziva maitiro ekushandisa yako yengano kudzikama! Zvipo zvako semudzidzisi zvichafanirwa kuzviratidza zuva nezuva: nguva imwe neimwe perekedza "kwete" yako ne "nekuti". Achabvuma kurambidzwa zviri nyore.

Mutemo wegoridhe…

Paunonzwa kuti tsinga dzako dzichatsemuka, zorora: mumakore mashoma, iwe ungangoseka kupfuura iye ...

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