Makatuni evana anowanzoonekwa zvakasiyana nevakuru. Mavara akanaka anosvota, asina kunaka anonzwisa tsitsi, uye zvirongwa zviri nyore hazvicharatidzike sezviri nyore. Pamwe chete ne psychotherapist, tinonzwisisa zvakavanzwa zvinoreva nyaya idzi.
"The Lion King"
Favorite cartoon yevana vakawanda nevakuru. Asi iri harisi dhirama rehupenyu hwemusango chete, asiwo inyaya yekunetsana kwemukati kwaive naSimba.
Iyo nyaya ingadai yakave nemagumo akasiyana dai gamba redu raive neyake kukosha system, isina kuisirwa chero munhu, aiziva kumira nenguva "kufunga" nekuzvibvunza mibvunzo "ndinoda izvi here?" uye "ndinoida here?" uye aizozvibvumira zvishoma kuti ararame asina hanya.
Uye zvakare inyaya yekuzvitiza — mushure mekufa kwababa vake, Simba anobatwa nekunyara, uye anowana kambani itsva, Timon naPumbaa. Shumba inodya makonye uye munzira dzose inoramba hunhu hwayo. Asi pakupedzisira, anoona kuti izvi hazvigone kuenderera mberi, uye anotanga kutsvaga zvake iye chaiye.
"Aladdin"
Iyo yakanaka nyaya yerudo iyo, muchokwadi, ingangove yakatongerwa kukundikana. Aladdin anosangana naJasmine uye nenzira dzose anoedza kumutora, uye anosarudza kuzviita nekunyengera.
Asi zvatinoona: Aladdin ane mweya wakajeka zvikuru, uye anonyara pachake. Chakavanzika chake chinoburitswa, Jasmine anomuregerera. Muenzaniso wakadaro wehukama - "anodheerera uye mwanasikana wamambo" - anowanzo kuwanikwa muhupenyu, uye mune katuni chifananidzo chegororo-Aladdin chinodiwa.
Ukama hwakavakirwa pakunyengera hunogona kufara here? Hazvigoneki. Asi kunze kweizvi, zvakafanira kuteerera kune zvakapetwa kaviri pano: hongu, kuba uye kunyengedza kwakaipa, asi kana ukaifukidza nechinangwa chakanaka, zvinotenderwa here?
"Runako uye Chikara"
Hukama huripo pakati paAdama (Chikara) naBelle (Runako) muenzaniso wehukama hwepedyo pakati penarcissist neakabatwa. Pasinei nokuti Adhamu anoba uye akabata Belle nechisimba, mupfungwa inomumanikidza, mufananidzo wake unokonzera tsitsi.
Isu tinoruramisa hunhu hwake nedambudziko rakaoma uye kuzvidemba, izvo zvinotsiviwa nehutsinye uye kunyengera, asi kutaura zvazviri ichi chiratidzo chakananga chenarcissism uye kushayikwa kwemutoro wehupenyu hwemunhu.
Panguva imwecheteyo, Belle angaita seakasindimara, akasindimara uye benzi: haaoni here kuti anomuda uye akagadzirira kumuitira chero chinhu? Uye iye, kunyangwe nehuchenjeri hwake uye nehupamhi hwekufunga, achiri kuwira mumabatiro e narcissist uye anove akabatwa.
Ehe, nyaya inopera nemagumo anofadza: Chikara chinova muchinda akanaka, uye iye naBeauty vanogara vachifara. Muchokwadi, hukama hwekushungurudzana huchaparara, uye haufanirwe kutsvaga zvikonzero zvehunhu hwakadaro hwevanhu.
Nzira yekuona katuni nemwana
- Bvunza mibvunzo kumwana. Iva anofarira kuti ndeupi wevatambi vaanoda uye nei, ndiani anoratidzika kwaari segamba risina kunaka, kuti ane hukama sei nezvimwe zviito. Kubva pakukwirira kwechiitiko chako, iwe nemwana wako munogona kutarisa mamiriro akafanana nenzira dzakasiyana. Zvakakodzera kutsanangura zvinyoro nyoro kwaari chiono chako chemamiriro ezvinhu uye kukurukura dambudziko kubva kumativi akasiyana.
- Kurukurai mamiriro ezvinhu ausingabvumiri mudzidzo nekurukurirano. Tsanangura kuti nei izvi zvisingabvumirwi uye maitiro ekuita mumamiriro ezvinhu. Semuenzaniso, chisimba chemuviri kana kushungurudzwa mumakatuni dzimwe nguva kunoitwa zverudo, uye mwana angagamuchira pfungwa yekuti zvinotenderwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana.
- Tsanangura nzvimbo yako kumwana - zvinyoro uye zvakanyatsonaka, pasina kumumanikidza kana kumutsiura pamusana pokusanzwisisa chimwe chinhu. Usafuratira mibvunzo yekaunda. Zvechokwadi achafarira kuziva maonero ako pamusoro pevatambi, mamiriro ezvinhu, kunzwa nezvemafungiro ako kune zviri kuitika.
- Bvunza mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako kuti akurukure kuti sei, mukuona kwavo, munhu wacho akaita nenzira iyi uye kwete neimwe nzira, chii chaiva chikonzero chake, kana mwana achibvumira maitiro ake. Bvunza mibvunzo inotungamirira - izvi hazvingobatsiri kutora mhedziso, asiwo dzidzisa mwana kufunga nekuongorora.