Zvinokwanisika kusiyanisa zvakasiyana-siyana marudzi ekuramba, zvose zvacho, pamwero mukuru kana kuti muduku, zvinoita kuti upenyu hwechikoro hwomwana akarambwa husatsungirirwa.
- Kushungurudza (usarega kupfuura, kudana mazita, kurova, kutevera chimwe chinangwa: kutsiva, kunakidzwa, nezvimwewo).
- Kuramba kunoshanda (inomuka mukupindura danho rinobva kune akabatwa, vanojekesa kuti haasi munhu, kuti maonero ake haarevi chinhu, anomuita mbudzi).
- Kuramba pasina, iyo inomuka chete mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu (apo iwe unoda kusarudza mumwe munhu weboka, kubvuma mumutambo, kugara pasi padhesiki, vana vanoramba: "Handisi kuzova naye!").
- Kusaziva (havateerere, havatauri, havacherechedzi, vanokanganwa, havana chavanopikisa, asi havafarire).
Muzviitiko zvose zvekurambwa, matambudziko haasi muboka chete, asiwo muunhu uye maitiro emunhu anenge abatwa pachake.
Maererano nezvidzidzo zvakawanda zvepfungwa, pakutanga, vana vanokwezvwa kana kudziviswa nechitarisiko chevezera ravo. Kukurumbira pakati pevezera kunogonawo kupesvedzerwa nebudiriro yedzidzo neyemitambo. Kugona kutamba muchikwata kunonyanya kufarirwa. Vana vanofarira kufarirwa nevezera ravo vanowanzova neshamwari dzakawanda, vane simba, vanoshamwaridzana, vakasununguka uye vane mutsa kupfuura avo vanorambwa. Asi panguva imwe cheteyo, vana vakarambwa havawanzova vasina ushamwari uye vasina ushamwari. Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, ivo vanoonekwa saizvozvo nevamwe. Mafungiro akaipa kwavari zvishoma nezvishoma anova chikonzero chemaitiro anowirirana evana vakarambwa: vanotanga kutyora mitemo inogamuchirwa, kuita zvinhu zvisina musoro uye vasingafungi.
Kwete chete kuvharika kana kusaita zvakanaka vana vanogona kuve vakadzingwa muchikwata. Havadi "upstarts" - avo vanogara vachiedza kubata danho, kuraira. Havafariri vadzidzi vakanaka vasingavabvumire kunyora, kana vana vanopikisana nekirasi, semuenzaniso, kuramba kutiza kubva pachidzidzo.
Muimbi werock akakurumbira weAmerica Dee Snyder anonyora mubhuku rake rinonzi Practical Psychology for Teenagers kuti isu pachedu tinowanzova nemhaka yokuti vamwe vanoisa “mavara nemitengo” patiri. Kusvikira pazera remakore gumi, akanga akakurumbira mukirasi, asi apo vabereki vake vakatamira kune imwe bhuroka, Dee akaenda kuchikoro chitsva, kwaakarwisana nemukomana akasimba. Pamberi pechikoro chose, akakundwa. “Mutongo werufu wakapihwa nezwi rimwe chete. Ndakava munhu asingadiwi. Uye zvese nekuti pakutanga handina kunzwisisa chiyero chesimba pane saiti. ”
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