Kuti uwane nzeve inoteerera, pasina kutonga, uye iyo inoona panguva imwe chete matambudziko emhuri uye kuchikoro ... hope. Rutsigiro rwakanaka urwu ruripo nekuda kwevana vepfungwa dzepfungwa. Zvichienderana nekuvanzika kwehunyanzvi, vanounza maonero asina kwaakarerekera pamatambudziko ezuva nezuva, kubva paucheche kusvika pakuyaruka, uye anopa mweya wakanaka mweya.

Mwana psychologist inyanzvi yepfungwa inyanzvi muhudiki. Zita remwana chiremba wepfungwa idiploma rakabudiswa nehurumende. Kuti uite basa iri, unofanirwa kunge wapedza makore mashanu ezvidzidzo zveyunivhesiti mune zvepfungwa, zvakasimbiswa nedhipuroma rehurumende (DE) padanho rechipiri ra master, nehunyanzvi hwepfungwa dzevana.

Kusiyana nemwana chiremba wepfungwa, mwana wepfungwa haasi chiremba. Haakwanisi zvachose kupa mushonga wemishonga. Kuti anzwisise kuomerwa kwemwana, chiremba wepfungwa dzemwana anogona kushandisa dzimwe bvunzo, kusanganisira iyo yehungwaru quotient pamwe nehunhu. Bvunzo idzi dzinoda mvumo inopihwa nenyika.

Kana kubvunza mwana wepfungwa? 

Nyanzvi yepfungwa inogona kubvunzurudzwa mune yakavanzika maitiro, muchipatara, mune medico-social nzvimbo, kana kuburikidza nezvikoro, nekuti kune vechikoro vepfungwa. Mune zvivakwa zveveruzhinji, uye pasi pekunyorerwa kwachiremba anoenda, masevhisi ayo anovharwa neinishuwarenzi yehutano. Mune yakasununguka cabinet, vanogona kudzoserwa nemamwe mutuals.

Kune zvakare psychotherapists uye psychoanalysts nyanzvi muhudiki. Ivo kazhinji kazhinji vanachiremba, vepfungwa kana vepfungwa vanonyanya hunyanzvi munzvimbo yakazvimirira kana pasi pehutungamiriri hwesangano rehunyanzvi.

Kana basa re psychoanalyst richidzorwa zvakanaka, iro re psychotherapist rinoramba riine kujeka. Usati wapa mwana wako kuna chiremba wepfungwa uyo asiri chiremba wepfungwa kana chiremba wepfungwa, zviri nani kuti uzive nezve kudzidziswa kwake, madhipuroma ake akawanikwa uye neshoko remuromo.

Kana boka remwana rinotanga kuona kukanganisa kunoramba kuripo:

• kunonoka mukukura kwayo;
• kuchinja kwemaitiro kana physiology (kurasikirwa, kuwedzera uremu);
• kunetseka kurara kana kurara;
• kunonoka kutaura, kunyarara kamwe kamwe, kundandama;
• weti pamubhedha. 

Marwadzo akadai sokudzokorora kurwadza kwemudumbu kana kutemwa nemusoro kunofanirawo kubvunzwa. Kana zvikonzero zvemuviri zvabviswa nekuda kwachiremba ari kuenda, panogona kunge paine chikonzero chepfungwa. Mwana anodheererwa kuchikoro, somuenzaniso, anganyunyuta nezvecolic kana kuti migraine. Kusaita kuti akurukure nyaya yacho nevabereki vake, muviri wake ndiwo uchamumiririra.

Vana vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanopawo rutsigiro kune vachiri kuyaruka ku:

• kushushikana kwakabatana nekutungamirirwa kwechikoro;
• kupindwa muropa kana maitiro ane ngozi kune hutano hwavo;
• kuora mwoyo, pfungwa dzokuzviuraya;
• kutarisira kushushikana kwebvunzo;
• kukurudzira mukudzidza;
• kuzviremekedza, kudziridza kuzvivimba.

Vanogona zvakare kuve sosi yakanaka kune vabereki vanoda zano pa:

• urema hwekudzidza;
• nzvimbo yevabereki;
• zvisungo zvemhuri;
• kuchema.

Uye zvechokwadi kukurukura kushushikana kunokonzerwa nedenda kana kubatsira kuwana mazwi akakodzera kuti apfuure panguva ino inoshungurudza kune vese.

Ndeipi mutengo wesesheni?

Kubvunzana kunosiyana pakati pe40 ne80 € zvichienderana nenguva inodiwa, zera remwana uye nzvimbo yekubvunza. Zvichienderana nezvinodiwa, chiremba wepfungwa dzemwana anoratidza nhamba shoma yezvikamu zvekugadzirisa dambudziko, asi nhamba iyi yezvikamu ndeyekureruka kwemurwere.

Mhuri inogona kusarudza chero nguva yekumisa kubvunzana kana kuchinja nyanzvi kana izvi zvisingavakodzeri. Unofanira kunzwa uine chivimbo. Chiremba anenge aripo anogona kutaura kune mumwe murapi weruzivo rwake.

MuFrance, 3500 vadzidzi vepfungwa dzechikoro vanoshanda mukireshi yeruzhinji uye zvikoro zvepuraimari. Havana kunzi "vana vepfungwa dzepfungwa" asi ivo vane ruzivo rwakakura mumunda wehuduku.

Izvo hazvipi kuteedzera kwepfungwa asi inogona kuve nzeve yekutanga kuteerera uye pasina kutonga kukurukura kuomerwa kwemudzidzi nemhuri yake.

Kubatsira kwenyanzvi iyi ndeyekuti aripo mukati memadziro echikoro uye ane nguva dzose. Naizvozvo zviri nyore kumubvunza uye zvakare ari pasi pekuvanzika kwehunyanzvi sevamwe vake.

Anowanikwa kuti ataure:

• zvirwere zvinokanganisa mwana;
• miedzo yehupenyu (mukoma kana hanzvadzi kana mubereki anorwara, kufirwa, nezvimwewo);
• zivisa mhuri kushushikana mupfungwa, nezvimwe.

Nyanzvi iyi inoshanda pamwe chete nezvikwata zvekudzidzisa, uye muyananisi ane rombo rakanaka pakati pesangano redzidzo nemhuri. Zvinetso zvetsika zvinogona kuva nechokuita nezvinetso zvechikoro, uye zvimwewo zvinetso zvechikoro zvinogona kukonzerwa nemhoteredzo yemhuri.

Saka nyanzvi iyi inoita kuti pave nekubatana pakati pevaviri ava uye kuona mwana nemhuri yake zvakazara. Zvichienderana nemafungiro ake, anozotungamira mudzidzi nemhuri yake kune nyanzvi kana sangano rinogona kuvabatsira munguva refu.