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Kubva pa0 kusvika kumakore maviri: vacheche havana mwero
Kubva pakuzvarwa kusvika pamakore maviri, mwana ari kupinda munguva yakapfuma mukushanduka. Kana pakutanga, haazvisiyanisa kubva kuna amai vake, pamusoro pemwedzi, achaita ziva muviri wako kubudikidza nemaoko aakaitwa. Akatakurwa, akambundirwa, akabatwa nemaoko akaputira, mwana anokura uye hukama hwake nevamwe hunochinja: anova munhu mudiki akaparadzana maererano nenyika yakamupoteredza.
Kubva pakuzvarwa, anoda kushama. Panguva yekugeza uye panguva yekuchinja, pasina diaper yake, akasununguka kufamba-famba uye anozunungusa makumbo ake maduku achifara zvikuru! Kushama hakuna dambudziko kwaari, haazive kuzvininipisa! Zvino kunouya nguva yemakumbo mana, uye hazvina kuoma kuti anofamba matako mudenga mumba kana, kana angofamba, anomhanya asina kupfeka muzhizha mubindu. Hapana chinoshamisa kwaari uye kuvanhu vakuru, hapana chinovhiringidza, hongu! Uye zvakadaro, kubva kumwedzi yekutanga kuti zvakakosha kuremekedza zvakavanzika zvako nekuti kuzvininipisa hakusi kwomuzvarirwo (kunyange kana vamwe vana vane mwero kupfuura vamwe), uye ndipo paunofanira kutanga kudzidza. Onsemuenzaniso inodzivirira kuishandura pabhenji reruzhinji... "Nguva yekutanga iyi haisati iri yekuzvininipisa pachayo, inotsanangura nyanzvi yedu, zvisinei nhanho imwe neimwe yekuparadzanisa (panguva yekurumurwa, mucheche ...) inofanira kuperekedzwa nekugadzirisa chinhambwe, chekubata. , dzidzo yevakarambidzwa. “
Vana kubva pamakore maviri kusvika matanhatu: tinotsigira kudzidza kwavo kuzvininipisa
Kune vadzidzi vanopfuura makore matanhatu, vana vanotanga siyanisa vakomana nevasikana. “Nguva iyi inowanzoita kuti vabereki vatevedzere zvavanoita. Saka, somuenzaniso, baba vangangoudza kasikana kavo kuti haachachagoni kugeza naye nemhaka yokuti ari kukura. Asi izvi hazvizovatadzise kufara pamwe chete muzhizha mumvura padziva rekushambira kana pagungwa, ”anotsanangura kudaro Philippe Scialom.
Anenge makore 4, mwana anopinda munguva yeoedipal iyo isingabatanidzi chete chiziviso cherudo kumubereki wake wechikadzi, asi inoperekedzwa nekusanzwisisana, kuyananiswa, kurambwa uye kusanganiswa nemumwe wevabereki vaviri. Basa rako rakakosha panguva ino nekuti ndiyo nguva yekuisa pasi kurambidzwa kwemakunakuna.
Kana mumafungiro ake, chido chekutora nzvimbo yemumwe mubereki chinoratidza zvakajeka, zviri nani kunyatsojekesa uye dzokorora mamiriro acho nemashoko akakodzera : aiwa hatiite zvakadaro kuna mhamha kana baba, zvimwe chete nasekuru, mainini ...
Nguva zhinji pazera iri vana vanoratidza chido chekupfeka vari voga. Mukurudzire! Achadada nazvo kuwana kuzvitonga, uye achafarira kusaburitsa muviri wake pamberi pako.
Chipupuriro chaCyril: “Mwanasikana wangu ari kuva ane mwero zvikuru. ”
Paakanga achiri mudiki, Josephine akafamba-famba asinganetseki nezvekushama kana kusapfeka. Kubva paaiva nemakore mashanu, takanzwa kuti izvi zvachinja: anovhara suo paanenge ari muimba yekugezera uye anganyara kufamba asina zvipfeko. Zvinoshamisa kuti dzimwe nguva anopedza hafu yezuva ari mumba mabheti ake ari pachena, akapfeka t-shirt iri nyore. Zvinoshamisa zvisinganzwisisike. ” Cyril, baba vaJoséphine, ane makore mashanu, Alba, ane makore matatu, uye Thibault, ane gore
6 makore ekuberekwa: vana vanyanya kuzvininipisa
Kubva pamakore matanhatu, mwana anenge apfuura aya matanho anorasikirwa nekufarira iyi mibvunzo uye anonangidzira pfungwa dzake pakudzidza. Anotanga kuva ane mwero. Nepo aimbofamba mumba asina kupfeka asina kana dambudziko, anobva aenda kure uye dzimwe nguva anotokukumbira kuti usamubatsire muchimbuzi chake. “Chiratidzo chakanaka kwazvo kana asingachakudi muimba yekugezera paanenge achigeza kana kuti achipfeka,” nyanzvi yakadaro. Mafungiro aya anoratidza kuti ainzwisisa kuti muviri wake waiva wake. Nokuremekedza chido chake, unomuziva somunhu pachayo. »Nhanho huru yekuzvitonga.
Kuzvininipisa: vabereki vanofanira kuita zvinorambidzwa nemwana wavo
Vabereki vanofanirawo kuchinjira kukukura kwemwana wavo
iyo inokura. Amai vanogona kuratidza musikana wavo kuti angazvichenesa sei, uye baba vanogona kudzidzisa kakomana kake kugeza. “Zviri kuvabereki zvakare kuti vasiyanise mwana ari kurwara anoda kuva pedyo navo, kunyanya husiku humwe chete, neuyo anotsvedza pamubhedha manheru ega ega, kana mumwewo anovhura magonhi ewadhi. mabhavhu kana zvimbuzi, paakakumbirwa kuti amirire, ”anodaro chiremba wepfungwa. Kupfuura kugadzirisa, kudzidza kuzvininipisa kunewo nezve dzakajeka kodzero, kurambidzwa uye miganhu maererano nemuviri nekushamwaridzana kwawo. Tinokanganwa poto uye weti pakati peimba yekutandarira nekumutsanangurira kuti kune iyo, kune chimbuzi kana yekugezera. Anokumbirwa zvakasimba kuti adaro kuvhara muviri wake kana pane vanhukunyange wakakombwa nevadikani. Nokuti kudzidza kuzvininipisa kunewo dzidzo mukuzviremekedza uye nemuviri wemunhu: "Zvaunorambidzwa iwe zvinorambidzwawo kune vamwe, vasina kodzero yekukukuvadza, kukubata". Mwana nenzira yomuzvarirwo anobatanidza kuti tinofanira kumuremekedza. Achadzidza kuzvidzivirira, kuzvidzivirira uye kuziva mamiriro akajairika uye asina kujairika.
Munyori: Elisabeth de La Morandière