Kuti ukunde mwoyo weanogona kufambidzana naye chero mukadzi, iwe unofanirwa kuseka majee ake.
Kuwanikwa uku kwakaitwa nevaongorori vekuNorwegian University of Science and Technology, vane chinyorwa mumagazini Evolutionary Psychology.
Kutamba nerudo chinhu chakakosha chekutanga hukama hwepamoyo nemunhu angangove wekudanana naye kana wekufambidzana naye. Mazano anoshandiswa nevanhu pakupfimba anogona kuva ese ekutaura (sekurumbidza) uye asiri ekutaura (mutauro wemuviri).
Masayendisiti akafunga kuenzanisa nzira dzinoshandiswa nevanhurume nevanhukadzi kana vachitamba. Vanoda kusvika chiuru vadzidzi veyunivhesiti kubva kuNorway neUSA vakatora chikamu muchidzidzo ichi.
Vatori vechikamu vakakumbirwa kuti vapindure nhevedzano yemibvunzo pamusoro pemaitiro ekutamba erudo avanoda mumamiriro akasiyana.
Vatsvakurudzi vakanyatsogadzira zvinyorwa zvina zvegwaro remibvunzo: mukadzi anotamba nemurume kwenguva pfupi kana kwenguva refu, uye, zvakafanana, murume anotamba nemukadzi ane tarisiro yenguva imwe chete pabonde kana kwenguva refu- term relationship. Mumwe nemumwe wevatori vechikamu, zvichienderana nehukadzi, akagamuchira imwe yeshanduro dzemibvunzo.
Pakupedzisira, zvakazoitika kuti varume nevakadzi vanonyanya kushandisa maitiro akafanana ekutamba, asi, zvichienderana nechinangwa, mamwe mazano anoshanda zviri nani uye mamwe akaipisisa. Nokudaro, kuratidzwa kwekuwanika kwepabonde (zvipfeko zvakakodzera, kuratidza zvikamu zvakazaruka zvemuviri) zvichibva pahukama hwenguva pfupi hunobudirira chete kana vakadzi vanozvibata nenzira iyi, kwete varume. Panguva imwecheteyo, vakadzi vanotsvaka nguva imwe chete yepabonde neshamwari itsva havafaniri kutarisira kuti unhu hune ushamwari huchavabatsira kuswedera pedyo nechinangwa ichi - kumbundira, kutsvoda padama, kuseka.
Panguva imwecheteyo, kune varume, kuseka, pamwe nekuratidzwa kwakazaruka kwerupo uye kukomba kwezvinangwa zvavo, zvinobatsira kusimbisa hukama hwenguva refu nemukadzi.
Nekudaro, sezvakaonekwa nevaongorori, pane nzira yepasirese yekupfimba iyo inoshanda zvakaenzana kune vese varume nevakadzi mumamiriro ese. Kana ukaseka nekuseka majee emudiwa wako, une mukana wakanaka wehukama hwenguva pfupi uye kwenguva refu naye.