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Vana ndicho chinhu chikuru, zvese kwavari: kuzorora kwavanonzwa zvakanaka, bhajeti yemhuri yezvido zvemwana ... dzidzisa munhu mukuru weramangwana kuti azvione semunhu asina chinhu. Pamusoro pekoramu iyi inotungamirwa naElena Pogrebizhskaya.

Ndiri mubhazi. Vanhu vakazara. Mutyairi, sezviri pachena, ari kukurumidza, nekuti bhazi redu haringomhanyire kumhanya zvakanyanya, mutyairi anofambisawo pakati pemotokari, semotokari yemapurisa kubva kumafirimu eAmerica.

Tese tinosvetuka uye kupotsa kudonha kubva mumacheya edu mumikoto. Zvino, ndinofunga, ndichaudza mutyairi kuti hadzisi huni dzine rombo rakanaka. Asi ini ndakanga ndiri mberi kwemukadzi ane mwana ane makore mashanu mumaoko ake. Akasimuka ndokushevedzera nehasha kumutyairi kuti: “Nei uri kutyaira zvine sipidhi yakadai? Ndine mwana. Ko kana ikatsemuka?"

Zvakanaka, ndinofunga, asi isu tose ngatirwei pano, vanhu vakuru makumi matatu chinhu chisingakoshi, sezviri pachena, uye kunyange iye pachake nehupenyu hwake hazvina maturo, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti mwana haakuvadzi.

Ini ndinomhanyisa kirabhu yemafirimu - tinotarisa zvinyorwa zvakanaka tozoakurukura. Uye saka takaona firimu rinotonhorera nezvevashandi vanoenda kune dzimwe nyika, pane nhaurirano inopisa.

Mumwe mukadzi anosimuka ndokuti: “Munoziva, iri ifirimu rakanaka. Ndakatarisa, handina kukwanisa kubvarura, yakavhura maziso angu kune zvakawanda. Ibhaisikopo rakanaka zvekuti rinofanira kuratidzwa kuvana." Ndinomuudza kuti: “Ko vanhu vakuru, handiti?

"Ehe," akadaro nenzwi rakadaro, sekunge takanga tichangobva kuwana zvakakomba pamwe chete, "zvechokwadi, uye kune vanhu vakuru."

Ndinofara zvikuru kana pane nzvimbo mbiri dzakaenzana dzekutarisisa mumhuri, nzvimbo yekutanga ndeyevakuru, yechipiri vana

Zvino unoda kutamba mutambo here? Ndichakuudza chirevo, uye iwe uchawedzera shoko rimwe kwachiri. Chete chimiro ndeichi: unofanirwa kuwedzera izwi pasina kuzeza. Saka, mutsara uyu: hwaro hwekubatsira rubatsiro (intonation kumusoro) ...

Wati izwi ripi? Vana? Ndizvozvo, uye ndine mugumisiro wakafanana. Vapfumbamwe veshamwari dzangu vakatiwo "vana" uye mumwe akapindura "mhuka" pasina kuzeza.

Uye zvino ndinoda kubvunza: zvakadini nevakuru? Tine mari yakawanda yekubatsira vanhu vakuru muRussia uye zviri nyore here kuti vashande? Mhinduro iri pachena - kune mari yakati wandei yekubatsira vanhu vakuru vanorwara zvakanyanya, uye zvakanyanya, zvakaoma kwazvo kuunganidza mari yekubatsira vanhu vakuru, kwete vana.

Ndiani chaizvo anoda vanhu vakuru ava?

Ndinofara zvikuru kana mumhuri - uye kunyangwe munharaunda yese zvakare - kune nzvimbo mbiri dzakaenzana dzekutarisisa, nzvimbo yekutanga ndeyevakuru, yechipiri vana.

Shamwari yangu Tanya akafamba muEurope yose nemwanakomana wake ane makore matanhatu okukura Petya. Baba vaPetya vakagara muMoscow uye vakawana mari. Pazera remakore matanhatu, Petya akanga akazvimiririra uye ane ushamwari zvokuti muhotera aiwanzosangana nevanhu vakuru pachake.

Apo rimwe zuva isu tose takaenda kutasva bhiza pamwe chete, Petya akati aizokwirawo, uye amai vangu vakabvuma, Petya akasarudza - regai aende. Uye kunyange zvazvo, chokwadi, akanga akamutarisa nekona yeziso rake, akatasva bhiza rake akadzikama sevamwe vose. Ndiko kuti, haana kuseka pamusoro pake uye haana kuzununguka. Muzhinji, Petya naamai vake, Tatyana, vaiva kambani huru kune mumwe nemumwe pazororo. Hongu, uye neni.

Tanya, nekuzvarwa kwemwana, haana kutanga kurarama humwe hupenyu, haana kutanga kutenderera Peter mudiki, sePasi grey kutenderedza Zuva rinopenya, asi zvishoma nezvishoma akapinda mumukomana muhupenyu hwaakararama pamberi pake. . Iyo, mukuona kwangu, ndiyo hurongwa hwemhuri hwakarurama.

Murume haasisiri murume, haachisiri murume, haachisiri nyanzvi, haachisiri mudiwa, uye kwete kana murume. Iye "baba". Nomukadzi saizvozvo

Uye ndinewo shamwari apo hukama pakati pevakuru nevana hunopesana zvakananga neizvi. Chinhu chiri chose muupenyu hwavo chinorongwa nenzira yakanakira vana, uye vabereki vanozviudza vamene kuti vachatsungirira. Uye vanotsungirira. Makore. Iye zvino Egor naDasha havazorori kwavanoda, asi apo zviri nyore kune vana, apo vafambisi vemitambo vachauya vachimhanya uye vanoita kuti vana vanzwe zvakanaka. Zvakadini nevakuru? Mubvunzo wangu wandinoda.

Uye vanhu vakuru havachakoshi kwavari. Iye zvino vari kuchengetedza mari yezuva rekuzvarwa kwevana, yekurojesa cafe uye yevakoki, uye havasati vatenga chero chinhu chavo kwenguva refu. Vakatorasikirwa nemazita avo, jaya uye mukadzi wechidiki zvishoma kudarika makumi matatu haasisina kunzi Yegor naDasha. Anomuudza kuti: “Baba, mava kumba nguvai?” “Handizivi,” anopindura kudaro, “zvichida kumaXNUMX kiroko.

Uye, chokwadi, haachatauri mudzimai wake nezita uye haatomboti "mudiwa" kwaari. Anoti “amai” kwavari, kunyange, munoona, havasi amai vake. Shamwari dzangu dzakarasikirwa nehunhu hwadzo hwese - uye murume haasisiri murume, haachisiri murume, haachisiri nyanzvi, haachisiri mudiwa, uye kwete kana murume. Iye "baba". Uye mukadzi mumwe chete.

Zvechokwadi, uyo akambonzi Dasha haarara zvakanyanya, anogara achibatanidzwa nevana. Anotakura zvirwere zvake patsoka dzake, haana nguva yokurapwa. Anozvibaira zuva nezuva uye anomanikidza murume wake kuita zvimwe chetezvo, kunyange zvazvo iye achidzivisa zvishomanene.

Mumwe murume anonzi Papa nomumwe mukadzi anonzi Amai vanofunga kuti vanopa vana zvakanakisisa, asi mukuona kwangu, vanodzidzisa vana kusazvitarisira munzira ipi neipi uye vanogadza muenzaniso wokuzviona sevasina chinhu.

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