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Eglantine Eméyé: "Samy haasi mwana sevamwe"
/ Kuzvarwa kwake
You look very good, mwana akanaka anorara akanyanya, akadzikama, anocheka zvekuti vanhu vazive kuti ane nzara. Ndinokuwana wakakwana. Dzimwe nguva ndinofambisa pacifier mumuromo mako, kutamba, ndinonyepedzera kuibvisa kwauri, uye kamwe kamwe, kunyemwerera kunoshamisa kunooneka pachiso chako, ndinodada, iwe unotoita kunge une pfungwa huru yekuseka! Asi kazhinji, hapana chaunoita.
/ Kusava nechokwadi
Une mwedzi mitatu yekuberekwa uye unongova chidhori chemamvemve, chakapfava kwazvo. Iwe haugone kubata musoro wako. Pandinoedza kugara negaro rangu pamabvi, ruoko rwangu rwakatsigira dumbu rako, muviri wako wose unodonha pasi. Hapana inzwi. Ndakatozvinongedzera kuna chiremba wevana uyo akaita seasina basa nazvo. Zvinoita sekuti handina moyo murefu. (…) Une mwedzi mina uye hapana chaunoramba uchiita. Ndiri kutanga kunetseka zvakanyanya. Zvikurukuru sezvo vanasekuru vako, vasinganyanyi kutaura mashoko avo, vanotaura mashoko anodenha uye anondirwadza: “Zvichida pane kushaikwa kwokukurudzira, kunyanyodzikama mauri” vanokarakadza kudaro amai vangu. “Akanaka chaizvo, anononoka zvishoma, akapfava, asi akanaka chaizvo” vanosimbirira kudaro baba vangu, vose vachinyemwerera.
/ The diagnostic”
Samy. Mwanakomana wangu. Gotwe rangu. Haasi mwana sevamwe, ichokwadi. Stroke yakaonekwa mumwedzi mishomanana, pfari, huropi husina usimbe, uye ndizvo chete zvatinoziva. Kwandiri, ane autistic. Ini, sezvakaita Francis Perrin, kutevera zvirongwa zvitsva izvo vamwe vakakwanisa kupinza muFrance, uye izvo, zvinoratidzika, zviri kufambira mberi kuvana ava. ABA, Dzidzisa, Pecs, chero chinhu chinogona kubatsira Samy, ndichadaro.
/ Marco, mukoma wake
Waive ne three years pakasvika Samy muhupenyu hwako wainge wakamumirira like any big brother godo but anoda kutenda zvaanoudzwa namai vake , mukoma ishamwari yekutamba nayo yatinonetsana naye dzimwe nguva asi nanhasi shamwari yeupenyu hwose. Uye hapana chakaitika.
Kunze kwako kunokanganisa mamiriro mazhinji: "Usanetseka, zvakajairika, ane autistic, ane chirwere mumusoro make" unozivisa pachena kune vanhu vakatitarisa, vasina kugadzikana, uku Samy achizununguka achida kuziva, achitaura kuchema kushoma. . Asi unogona kundiudzawo nekuseka nekuti une zvakawanda: “Ko kana tikamusiya ikoko, amai? .. Ndinoti blaaaaagueuh!” ”
(…) Zhizha rino makore maviri aSamy. Marco anofarira. Tichaita mabiko nhai amai?
– Udza amai, panguva ipi tine zuva rekuzvarwa Samy?
- Manheru ano pakudya kwemanheru, hapana mubvunzo. Sei ?
– Ah ndosaka… Tinofanira kumirira kusvika manheru ano.
– Kumirira chii? ndinobvunza
– Zvakanaka ngaachinje! ngaave nani! Manheru ano zvaave nemakore maviri haachaite mucheche unoona atova mvana saka achafamba achisekerera ndopedzisira ndatamba naye! Marco anondipindura nekusava nemhosva kwakanakisa.
Ndinomunyemwerera zvinyoronyoro ndokufamba ndichienda kwaari. Handidi kutyora hope dzake zvakajeka.
/ Husiku hwakaoma
Samy anobatwa nepfari zvikuru husiku, ane hasha dzakanyanya kwaari. Matama ake ane ropa asisina nguva yekupora. Uye handisisina simba rokurwa naye usiku hwose, kuti asazvikuvadza. Sezvo ini ndichiramba pfungwa yekuwedzera mushonga, ndinosarudza kugadzira camisole. Mubatanidzwa uyu ndeimwe yeakanakisa mazano andati ndambova nawo. Pekutanga pandakaipfeka, pakangobatanidzwa tambo dzeVelcro, ndakafunga kuti ndadzisunga zvakanyanya… Aitaridzika zvakanaka, maziso ake akadzikama, achifara… ndakanzwa mhasuru dzake pasi pemuviri wangu dzichinyevenuka. Husiku hwakatevera hwakanga husina kunaka, asi Samy haana kuridza mhere, uye haana kukwanisa kuzvikuvadza. Zvisinei, husiku hwava nani kwatiri tose. Ini ndakanga ndisingachamuki maawa maviri ega ega kuti ndimudzivirire kuti asazvikuvadza ...
/ Maonero evamwe
Mangwanani ano ndiri kuendesa Samy kunzvimbo inochengetwa vana. Ndinoita niche yangu. Varume vaviri vakagara mukofi vakashevedzera kwandiri kuti: “Iti, Mademoiselle!” Wakawana kupi bheji rako rakaremara? Mubhegi rekushamisika? Kana kuti unoziva mumwe munhu ari pachinzvimbo chakanaka here? Hongu zvinofanira kudaro, musikana akanaka sewe! ”
Ndinofanira kutenda here kurumbidzwa kana kupandukira pakunyomba kwavo? Ndinosarudza kuvimbika. Ndinocheuka uye, ndichivhura gonhi raSamy, ndinovapa nyemwerero yangu yakanakisa, “Aiwa maGentlemen. Ndakaiwana sechipo pakazvarwa mwanakomana wangu! Kana uchida ndinokupa. Pakupedzisira ndinoapa kwamuri. Nokuti zvinoenda pamwe chete. “
/ Mhuri yakasanganiswa
Richard akajairana nehupenyu hwangu hwekupenga. Zvakajairika, anopenga, iye mudiki pachake. Sekuvhuvhuta kwemhepo yakachena, nekuseka kwake kwechokwadi, joie de vivre yake, kutaura kwake pachena, kune dzimwe nguva zvinogumbura, asi izvo zvinowanzova zvakanaka kutaura, uye simba rake, akawedzera hupenyu hwake kune hwedu. Anosvika, anobika, anotora Samy mumaoko ake, uye pamusoro pezvose, anobvumira Marco kurerusa uremu hwaakapedzisira kuisa pamapfudzi ake. Zvino Richard ane mwanasikana, Marie, zera rakafanana nerangu hombe. Vana vaviri vakabva vangorova zvaishamisa. Mukana chaiwo. Uye amai sezvavanogona kuita vasikana vadiki, anomhanya kana Samy angoputika, ozvipira kubatsira nekudya, kumuita kuti atambe.
/ Merci Samy !
Asi Samy ane zvazvakanakira. Iyewo anotora rutivi muupenyu hunoshamisa hwemhuri hwatinahwo uye, nenzira yake amene, anotiponesa mumigariro yakawanda. Uye muzviitiko izvozvo, Marco neni tinomupa kuonga kwedu kwose. Somuenzaniso, dzimwe nguva tinoshandisa Samy muchitoro. Uye kwete kungonzvenga mutsara uye kupfuura pamberi pemunhu wese (hongu ndinobvuma, ndinofara kwazvo kuzviita, kunyangwe, nenzira inoshamisa, Samy akadzikama masikati, uye hapana chekupembedza kuzunguza kadhi rake rehurema. kuenda nekukurumidza pakubhadharisa), dzimwe nguva nekuda kwekunakidzwa kwekuisa mumwe munhu munzvimbo yavo. Zvakafanana, Samy wangu mudiki, akanakira kutipa mweya! Naiye, hapasisina glue, kushaikwa kwenzvimbo mu metro, kana kunyange muchikwere. Zvinoshamisa kuti, kana tangomhara pane imwe nzvimbo, pane buri rakatipoteredza, uye munzvimbo yedu!
"Mbavha yebhurasho remazino", naÉglantine Éméyé, ed. Robert Laffont, yakabudiswa September 28, 2015. Host of "Midi en France", paFrance 3, uye mutori wenhau pa "RTL vhiki-kupera" naBernard Poirette. Ndiye zvakare muvambi uye mutungamiri wesangano "Un pas vers la vie", rakagadzirwa muna 2008 revana vane autistic.