Mukati
"Mhuri imwe neimwe isingafari haina kufara nenzira yayo" - chiitiko chemagweta ekurambana chinoramba chirevo chakakurumbira. Vanobvuma kuti vatengi vazhinji vanopedzisira vave mumahofisi avo nekuda kwematambudziko mamwe chete.
Magweta ane hunyanzvi munyaya dzekurambana vanhu vanenge vari pamberi muchiitiko chekuparara kweukama. Zuva nezuva, vatengi vanovaudza nezvezvinetso zvakaita kuti varambane. Rondedzero yezvichemo zvisere zvakajairika.
1. “Murume haawanzobatsira nevana”
Zvinowanzoitika kuti mumwe wevakaroorana haagutsikani nekugoverwa kwemabasa mumhuri. Iyi nyaya inonyanya kuoma maererano nevana. Zvinotora nguva yakawanda nesimba kuti uvaendese kumakirabhu, zviitwa zvekutandara, uye kugadzwa kwachiremba. Kana mumwe wavakaroorana achifunga kuti ari kukwevera zvinhu zvose paari, kutsamwa uye kutsamwa zvinokura zvisingadzivisiki. Kana vaviri vakauya kuhofisi yegweta, zvinoreva kuti vaedza zvose zvavanogona.
2. "Hatikurukure matambudziko"
Kazhinji matambudziko evakaroorana haasi mune zvavanotaura, chavanonyarara ndicho chine ngozi. Dambudziko rinomuka, asi vanobatana havadi "kuzunungusa chikepe", vanonyarara, asi dambudziko hariperi. Vaviri vacho vanodzvinyirira dambudziko, asi imwezve inomuka. Zvakatonyanya kuoma kubata nazvo, nekuti kutsamwa kuri mupenyu nekuda kwedambudziko rekare, iro risina kumbogadziriswa.
Ipapo vanoedza kunyarara uye kudzvinyirira dambudziko rechipiri. Ipapo wechitatu anobva aoneka, bhora rinotowedzera kukanganisika. Pane imwe nguva, kushivirira kunopera. Kunetsana kunomuka pamusoro pechimwe chikonzero cheupenzi. Vakaroorana vanotanga kupika nekuda kwezvichemo zvisingatauriki uye zvinetso zvakaunganidzwa kamwechete.
3. "Hapana kusangana pabonde uye kushamwaridzana pakati pedu"
Kuderera kwehukama hwepfungwa uye kuderera muhupenyu hwepabonde zvichemo zvakakurumbira. Zvinetso zvemumba zvinoparadza ukama pakati pevakaroorana. Kushaikwa kwepabonde ingori muromo wechando, zvakanyanya njodzi kushaikwa kwekutaurirana uye kushamwaridzana. Vakaroorana vanofanira kunzwisisa kuti basa rehukama hariperi pavanoti hongu paatari. Hukama hunoda kushandirwa mazuva ese. Zvakakosha kugara uchikurukura nemumwe wako zuva nezuva, ingave panguva yekudya pamwe chete kana kufamba nembwa.
Vatengi vanonyunyuta kuti varoorani vavo vanopindwa muropa nesocial network. Asi ichi chiratidzo chedambudziko nenhoroondo yemazana emakore, tiri kutaura nezvehupanduki. Murume anofarira chigaro cheaichimbova mudiwa, izvi zvinokura kuva tsamba dzepabonde, zvino vanoenda kumisangano yega. Asi munhu anowanzoita kusavimbika achawana nzira yekuchinja pasina masocial network. Vamwe vakaroorana vanogona kubata nekusavimbika, asi vazhinji havadaro.
5. "Tinogara sevavakidzani"
Vatengi vanowanzobvuma kuti wavakaroorana naye wava mutorwa kwavari. Haana zvachose kuita seuya wavakapika naye kuti vaizosuwa uye vachifara. Vaviri ava vanobva vagara vese. Vanodyidzana zvishoma.
6. "Murume wangu ane hudyire"
Udyire hunozviratidza nenzira dzakawanda: kuomesera mumari, kusada kuteerera, kudzvinyirirwa mupfungwa, kusada kutora mabasa emhuri uye okuchengeta vana, kusazvidza zvishuvo nezvido zvomumwe wako.
7. “Tinoratidza rudo nenzira dzakasiyana”
Vanhu vaviri vanodanana asi havanzwi vachidiwa. Kune mumwe wavakaroorana naye, kuratidzwa kwerudo ndiko rubatsiro rwakapoteredza imba uye zvipo, kune imwe, mazwi anofadza, kubata zvinyoro uye kushamwaridzana. Somugumisiro, mumwe haanzwi kuti anodiwa, uye mumwe wacho haanzwi kuti zvaanoita zvinoongwa.
Kusawirirana uku kunovadzivirira kukunda matambudziko. Vanotanga kurwira mari kana bonde, asi chavanoshaya ishamwari yenyama kana kuzorora. Tsvaga kuti ndeupi mutauro werudo wakajairwa iwe nemumwe wako, izvi zvinogona kudzivirira kushanya kune gweta.
8. "Handifarirwe"
Padanho rekupfimbana, vakaroorana vanonyatsoteerera uye kufadzana munzira dzose dzinobvira. Asi kana muchato uchinge wapera, vakawanda vanorega kunetseka nezvekufara kwemumwe wavo. Vatengi vanobvuma kuti vakanga vasingafare kwemakore akawanda, vakanga vakamirira kuchinja, asi mwoyo murefu wavo wakapera.
Kashoma kuti vanhu varambane nekuda kwechiitiko chimwe chete, senge nyaya yenguva imwe chete kana kurwa kukuru. Vakaroorana vanoisa mari yakawanda muwanano. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zvakanaka zvokusarudza pakurambana. Kana munhu akasarudza kugura muchato, zvinoreva kuti akaziva kuti aizofara kana kuti kusafara pasina mumwe wake.