Vanyori, vadetembi, vatungamiri vanowanzopenda mifananidzo yerudo rwakakodzera. Tinoda kutenda kuti ndizvo zvazviri. Nerimwe zuva muchinda akanaka achauya otiendesa kuhumambo hwemashiripiti. Asi nyaya dzerudo dzinobva mumabhuku hadzina kunyanyofanana nehupenyu chaihwo.
Kubva ndichiri mudiki, ndaifarira mafirimu nemabhuku erudo. Ndakakura ndiine pfungwa dzerudo. Varume vane tsika nevakadzi vanoyevedza vakatamba pasi pechiedza chemwedzi uye vachidya nemwenje wekenduru kuti vararame mimhanzi. Varume vacho vaiva machinda aitasva mabhiza aishamisa uye ainunura vakadzi vakanaka. Kutsvoda kunotapira, kutamba kunofadza, nguva dzetsitsi, zviito zverudo - mukufungidzira kwangu, rudo rwanga rwakanaka.
Ndakabva ndakura, ndikaroorwa ndikaona kuti rudo haruna kudaro. Musandinzwisisa zvisizvo. Ndinoda murume wangu. Ndinofunga tine hupenyu hwakanaka. Tinofara uye tichiri kudanana, sepanguva yatakasangana pachidzidzo chekudhirowa mugiredhi rechinomwe. Takakura uye takakura tose. Tava timu chaiyo. Ndinotenda murudo.
Asi pasinei nezvose izvi, handitendi kuti rudo rwakanaka. Rudo rwechokwadi haruna kudaro zvachose. Pashure pemakore mashanu taroorana, ndakaona kuti rudo rwechokwadi haruwanzotaridziki rwakakwana, sepamufananidzo. Pane nguva dzine mifananidzo isina kunaka: mapikicha enzendo dzekunze uye kudya kwemanheru kunotumirwa nevasikana pa Instagram (sangano rakanyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia). Dzimwe nguva tinogamuchira maruva akanaka uye tinodzidza denga rine nyeredzi nemudiwa wedu.
Asi nguva dzakadaro dzinosiyana. Dzimwe nguva rudo haruna kunaka
Haatomboswedere pedyo nerunako. Rudo rwechokwadi, urwo runochengeta michato noupenyu pamwechete, haruna kunaka uye kunyange kushata. Iri isumbu remiedzo, matambudziko uye kupererwa, kuedza kwevanhu vaviri kukwasva munzira imwe chete, zvisinei nemaonero akasiyana uye zvavanotenda.
Uku ndiko kuzadziswa kwechokwadi: keke yemuchato haizogara kwenguva refu, halo yehuchi uye splashes ye champagne ichakurumidza kupera. Panzvimbo yemufaro kunouya hupenyu chaihwo, panzvimbo yekuzvimirira uye yerudo - kunetseka kwenyika
Rudo rwechokwadi kupopotedzana kunosemesa pamusoro pehama, mari, nesoda yadeuka mufiriji. Uku ndiko kuchenesa mhedzisiro yekuvharika kwetsvina uye kurutsa pamakapeti. Rega masokisi akapararira uye hafu-isina makapu yekofi yakasara pamusoro peimba.
Rudo kutamba muimba yekubikira, asingacherechedzi makomo endiro dzine tsvina mudhishi uye munhuwi wemarara aifanira kunge akabviswa kare, achichema papfudzi rake nehova dzemhino nemutumbi unobuda.
Rudo kutsigirana kana hupenyu huchiunza miedzo inotyisa uye pasina simba rekuratidza kunyemwerera
Ndopaanorangarira musupermarket kuti unofarira orange tick-tock, unoisa rwiyo rwaunofarira ku iTunes. Rudo kuona mumwe nemumwe achiiswa kunze munguva dzakaoma uye dzisina rusaruro uye zvisinei neizvi uchiti: "Ndiripo, ndichagara ndinewe."
Rudo haruna kukwana bvudzi uye kugadzira, maruva anoshamisa uye kudya kwemanheru zuva nezuva. Rudo harusi kufamba kunoyevedza mumunda wemadaisy pakunyura kwezuva. Rudo rwakaoma, runorwadza uye runotyisa. Inosanganisira zvikamu zvausingazoratidze kune vamwe. Rudo ndirwo kukahadzika, kukakavara, kukakavara nokutonga kwakaoma.
Rudo haruna kunaka, asi izvi zvinoita kuti ive chimwe chezvinhu zvakaoma uye zvakakosha zviitiko. Isu tinomutevera zvinopesana nezvinopesana, tinofamba pamucheto uye tinotora njodzi. Tinogamuchira zvakaipa pamwe chete nezvakanaka, nokuti takabatanidzwa zvakasimba kumunhu uyu.
Haungatengese zvakaoma, rudo rwakaoma rweiyo yakakwana vhezheni yacho. Kunyange patinenge takaoma uye tichitya, tinowana nzira yekunyemwerera uye kuona kunaka munguva dzakaoma zvikuru. Iri isimba rerudo.
Nezve Munyori: Lindsey Detweiler mutori wenhau dzerudo.