Exclusive mothering: vanaamai sezvazviri

Sezvinongoita sezvinobvira uchazvara

Zvizhinji " amai hunhu »Sarudza, panguva yavo yekuzvitakura, rutsigiro rwakakwana nanyamukuta mumwe chete. Kana kufonera a a doula, kana kuti munhu anoperekedza pakuzvarwa. Muchikamu chekuberekwa, vanogadzira chirongwa chekuberekwa, rudzi rwe "chibvumirano" chisina kurongwa neboka rekudzivirira. Mugwaro rino, vanoratidza zvavanoda kuti vasave nemaitiro ekuiswa pavari (infusion, monitoring, epidural, shaving, etc.) uye kuisa pamberi kune vamwe (kusarudzwa kwezvinzvimbo, kugamuchirwa zvinyoro kumwana wavo, nezvimwewo). ) Vamwe vanopa hupenyu munzvimbo dzisina kurapwa dzewadhi yekuzvara ("zvakasikwa" makamuri, nzvimbo dzemuviri, nzvimbo dzekuzvarwa, nezvimwewo). Vamwe vacho vanosunungukira kumba vachibatsirwa nanyamukuta.

Mwana wako patsime akareba achanwa

Hapana bhodhoro remucheche rezamu raamai! Kuyamwisa kunorumbidzwa, zvose nokuda kwekubatsira kwakwo pautano hwevacheche uye nokusimbaradza chisungo chaamai nomwana icho chinobatanidza. Mune vanaamai, kuyamwisa kunogona kugara kwenguva refu: kusvika mushure mekupinda mukireshi.

Pamubhedha wako, newe, mwana wako acharara

“Kurara pamwe chete” (“co-dodo” muchiFrench), kunosanganisira kuti vabereki vawanire nzvimbo, kunyange mubhedha wenguva dzose, nevana vavo. Muvanaamai vane unyanzvi pakurera, uku kugoverana kwomubhedha wemhuri kunotanga kubva pakuyamwisa. Inogona kugara kwemwedzi mishoma yekutanga kana kunyange makore ekutanga emwana. Kuva pedyo kweusiku uku kwaizomusimbisa uye kwaizosimbisa chisungo chake chepfungwa nevabereki vake. Uye kune avo vanogadzirisa nyaya yevatano yevatano, vabereki vanorera amai vanopindura kuti rudo haruitike pamubhedha chete!

Mwana wako anopikisana newe, unogara wakatakura

Kune vanaamai, stroller haisi iyo panacea, kana yekirasi yekutakura mwana. Sezvinoitwa mumagariro echinyakare, vanopfekedza vana vavo muchipfuramabwe (jira refu, rakasimba uye rakasimba rakasungirirwa padumbu ravo nemuhudyu) kana mujira rekutakura vana. Kutakura uku kunoitwa kwete kunze chete asiwo kumba: mucheche anorara, anorarama uye anodya akafurirwa naamai. Kubatana kwenguva refu uku kunosimudzira psycho-affective uye kunyangwe psychomotor chiyero chemwana.

Zvido zvemwana wako, kwese kunoteerera

Hapana amai vanorega mwana wavo achichema vasina kumumbundira, kana kumbogara pedyo kuti vamunzwire tsitsi. Izwi rekutarisa mumwedzi yekutanga yemwana wavo: zvese zviri kudiwa. Kurara, kudya, kumuka: zuva rega rega rinopfuura nekumhanya kwemwana chete ... izvi nekuda kwekutakura, izvo zvinobvumira kuita basa rake achigutsa zvidikanwi zvemucheche (uyo anogona kunyanya kuyamwa muchipfuramabwe!)

Kukurukurirana zvine ruremekedzo, nemwana wako uchasimbisa

Nheyo yekutanga yekubereka: mwana, kubva pakuzvarwa, munhu akazara, ane kodzero yekuremekedzwa uye kuteerera zvakanyanya sevamwe. Kuti vataure nemwana zviri nani, vanaamai vacho dzimwe nguva vanodzidzira mutauro wemasaini, maererano neimwe nzira inobva kuUnited States. Izvi zvinotobvumira vamwe kuti vadzidzise utsanana hwemucheche (mucheche, asara asina manapukeni, anoiswa pahari paanoratidza kudiwa).

Dzidzo yakapfava kumwana wako iwe ucharopafadzwa

Vanaamai vanaamaiwo vanaamai “vanoziva”. Vachipikisa zvakasimba chirango chipi nechipi chokurohwa, uye dzimwe nguva kuchirango chipi nechipi zvacho, vanoda kuteerera kwokushingaira, kana kuti unyanzvi hwokuzviisa vamene munzvimbo inobvira kuvana vavo kuvabatsira kutaura kuvhiringidzika kwavo uye kuvaratidza kuti vanonzwisiswa (asi pasina kubvuma). )

Organic, yakapusa uye yakanaka chete iwe uchapedza

Kurima kwakadzama nemakemikari ayo, kudyidzana kwenyika dzepasi rose uye "kutyisa kwaro kwehupfumi": zvidzidzo zvakawanda izvo vanaamai vanonyanya kuziva nezvazvo. Zvose zviri zviviri kuchengetedza pasi nevagari varo uye kudzivirira utano hwemhuri, vanoda zvinhu zvinogadzirwa neoga uye zviya zvinobva mukutengeserana kwakanaka. Kuti zviraswe, vanoda zvinowachwa, kunyanya zvevana vavo vana manapukeni. Vamwe vakasarudza kutendeukira kukuzvidira kurerutsa, mararamiro ane chinangwa chokubvisa zvakanyanyisa munzanga yevatengi, nokufarira mubatanidzwa wenzvimbo.

Zvemushonga weallopathic iwe uchave wakangwarira

Vamwe vanaamai chaivo vanoratidza kusavimba (kunyangwe kusavimbana) kune vajekiseni nemishonga inorwisa mabhakitiriya. Zuva nezuva, nepavanogona napo, vanofarira mishonga yechisikigo kana imwe nzira: homeopathy, naturopathy, osteopathy, etiopathy, herbal medicine, aromatherapy (akakosha mafuta) ...

Kubva kuchikoro chechikoro iwe uchamira kunze

Vana vanochengeta vana vanowanzozeza kuisa nyama yenyama yavo kuNational Education, vachipomerwa kudzidzisa vadzidzi uye kuva nzvimbo yemhirizhonga nemakwikwi. Pachikoro chetsika, saka vanosarudza dzimwe nzira dzekudzidzisa, izvo zviri nani kuremekedza rwiyo rwemwana wega wega (Montessori, Freinet, Steiner, New Schools, nezvimwewo). Vamwe vanotosvika pakusiira chikoro panzira: vachadzidzira dzidzo yemhuri.