Mazuva akafamba vana baba vemangwana vakamirira mukoridho vachifambisa mumwe wavo kuhupenyu. Nhasi, vakawanda uye vakawanda vavo vari kubatanidzwa munguva yose yekuzvitakura. Asi paD-Day, dzimwe nguva zvichiri kuoma kuti vawane uye, pamusoro pezvose, kutora nzvimbo yavo.

Kana zvisungo zvinozivisa kutanga kwekusununguka kunoitika, kunetseka kukuru kwaamai vane pamuviri kunenge kusiri kusvika nenguva yekuzvara, kana chero zvakadaro kutadza kunyevera mumwe wavo. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha sezvo izwi rinosvika ndeyekusvikika zvachose.

Kunyoreswa kwewadhi yekuzvara kwange kwagara kwaitwa mwedzi mizhinji yapfuura, chasara kuendesa kune yekugamuchira kadhi rakakosha uye kadhi reinishuwarenzi yehutano yaamai vachave, pamwe nefaira rake rekurapwa (ultrasounds, report ye kuna amai vachazova.kusangana naana chiremba wokutindivadza…), uye zadza fomu. Inogona kuitwa nababa vemangwana kana amai vamangwana.

Hazvisi nyore nguva dzose kuti vanababa vamangwana vawane nzvimbo yavo panguva yekusununguka. Vamwe vanoshaya zvokuita kana vatarisana nekudzvinyirirwa kunomonyorora mumwe wavo mumarwadzo panguva yose yebasa. Kuenda kuchirongwa chekugadzirira kuzvara nekurera pamwe chete kunogona kuvabatsira kuti vanzwe vasisina simba, kunyanya haptonomy uye nzira yeBonapace inovadzidzisa zvakajeka nzira yekurerutsa mudiwa wavo. Vamwe vanotya kushandura maziso avo panguva yekudzingwa. Kana kuti chikamu ichi chekuzvara hachikuvadzi libido yavo mushure. Vamwe, pane zvinopesana, vakaiswa mari zvokuti vanoguma, vasingazivi, nekutsamwisa amai venguva yemberi uye boka rekudzivirira. Zvakanakisisa, kudzivisa kuodzwa mwoyo, kukurukura pamwe chete, nomusoro wakazorora, pachine nguva mberi kusununguka kwomwana, nzira iyo mumwe nomumwe anoona nayo zvinhu. Sechiyeuchidzo, munhu mumwe chete ane kodzero yekuenda kunosununguka. Kana baba venguva yemberi vasingakwanisi kana vasingadi, kana amai vamangwana vachida kuti arege kuenda, hapana chinodzivisa kupa basa iri kune imwe hama yepedyo.

Nyamukuta kana chiremba wechikadzi anowanzo kurudzira kuti baba vatsva vacheke rukuvhute ruchiri kubatanidza amai nemwana wavo. Chiitiko chisingarwadzi zvachose icho varume vazhinji vanokoshesa kukosha kwekufananidzira. Asi kana usingadi kuzviita, usazvimanikidza. Hapana chikonzero chekunzwa uine mhosva: iwe uchave nemimwe mikana yakawanda yekuisa mari iwe pachako.

Kare, mwana aigeza kekutanga muimba yekusunungukira uye basa iri raiwanzopiwa baba vatsva apo mwana achangoberekwa anenge akazorora uye achiwana kutarisirwa kunobvira. Asi zviri kuramba zvichiwedzera kumirira maawa 24 kana 48 kuti ugeze mwana. Nokudaro anobatsira zvishomanana kubva kune unhu hwekudzivirira hwevernix, chinhu chichena uye chine mafuta chakavhara ganda rake chikamu chakanaka chekudzivirira. Inoramba iri kuna baba, kana vachida, basa rekupfekedza mwana wake achangoberekwa, rinowanzotungamirirwa muzviito zvake nemubatsiri wekuchengeta vana. Kare, anogonawo kupihwa kuti adzidzire ganda-neganda nemwana, semuenzaniso kana amai vake vakavhiyiwa.