PSYchology

Hongu, mbuya vanoda kupuruzira vana vavo…

Mamiriro ehupenyu:

Mushure mekushanyira mbuya vake, akava "psycho" mwana

Apo mwanakomana wake anoenda kuna sekuru naambuya vake, anouya zvose cocked, psychotic, anogona kupika, snap: iye, munoona, anotamisirwa simba mbuya veko. Mukoma wangu akatsungirira, akatsungirira, akaedza "kuzvifungidzira" uye "kutaura" - hapana chinobatsira. Uye ndakasarudza, pamwe chete nemudzimai wangu, kusabvisa kushanya kuna mbuya vangu kwegore (ini handiyeuki kuti mwanakomana wangu aiva nemakore mangani, 4 kana chimwe chinhu). Ambuya vakatsamwa uye vakanyunyutira munhu wose kuti "mukomana ari kumhanyira kwatiri, asi baba vake havamubvumiri" (kunyange zvazvo pasina aimhanyira), asi mwana anodiwa zvikuru kumukoma wake kupfuura maonero evanhu.

Uye kazhinji, hama ichiri kufanira kunyatsojeka, uye dzimwe nguva nehasha, kumaka miganhu inopfuura iyo ambuya vasingafanirwe kuenda.

Chiremera chambuya

Mwanakomana wangu ane 2 uye angangoita 3 months. zvinoitika kuti kana ambuya vauya, vanopfimbana nemwanakomana wavo, i.e. nguva dzose, vasingaendi (nepo mazuva akajairika amai vane zvinhu zvakawanda zvekuita uye havagone kugara naye vachitamba). Panguva ino, amai havadiwi muFIG, tinova matsi kuzvikumbiro zvaamai uye mukadzi anova pamberi, chiremera chaamai chinoenda. Nzira yekushandura sei mamiriro acho ezvinhu? Kuita sei? Ambuya vanoedza kuita zvese nemazvo, sezvinodiwa naamai vangu, ASI mwanakomana anofunga zvakasiyana! Help!

Iyo mhinduro

Ndiani ane simba mumba?

Musoro wemba ndibaba, panguva yerwendo rwavo rwebhizinesi - ini. Vanasekuru - iwe unoda kuremekedza, kunyange kana zvisingafadzi zvikuru kwauri, vana vanodikanwa, kune chimwe chinhu pachako. Nekuti vanasekuru ndivo vanaamai nanababa vedu, uye rimwe zuva muchava vana baba, uye isu tichava vanasekuru. Uye hazvisati zvazivikanwa kuti vachafungei nezvedu uye kuti vachasiya sei kuti vaongorore maitiro edu, saka tinoremekedza vanasekuru vedu uye hatidzidzisi (kunyange iwe unogona kukumbira kuti usape makirogiramu maviri emasipi panguva imwe chete).

kugarisana murunyararo

Pamusoro pambuya — vanambuya — vanodiwa, nekupuruzira kwavo. Zviri nyore (kunyange dzimwe nguva oh zvakaoma) kutsanangurira mwana kuti anogona kutaura naambuya vake maererano nemutemo mumwe, uye nevabereki vake maererano nevamwe. Hapana chikonzero chekuputsa nekugadzirisazve mbuya - uyu unhu hunokosha hwevanhu vakuru, uye sevabereki, anoda kuti mwana ave akanaka, nenzira yake, nenzira yaambuya. Saka zvakakodzera kutsanangurira mwana, kubva pakuona kwenguva refu tarisiro, kuti mafungiro kwaari muhupenyu hwevakuru achava "zvose" ....

Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri, pazera rino hapachina chivimbo chakanyanya chekuti ndiri amai "vakanaka", uye zvaigara zvichiita sekuti mwana anoda mbuya vake zvakanyanya, uye zvishoma kwandiri ... Uye mwana anotanga kushandisa kutya uku kwevabereki vake. .

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